10/16/2025
What I’d tell every woman afraid to take up space:
You don’t have to shrink yourself. The world needs your full self, not the quieter, smaller version you were taught to be.
I remember learning about Brene Brown’s concept of perfectionism being the 20-ton shield. We think perfectionism is shielding us from criticism, but it’s also stopping us from showing up and being seen.
You don’t have to apologize for your voice, your ambition, your opinions or your presence.
You deserve to show up. The critics, naysayers and haters will always be there. But they don’t always need to matter.
So speak louder. Dream bigger. Take up every inch of the space that’s already yours 💫