
21/08/2025
"You have to have high and firm inner beliefs about yourself, which means that inner work is essential to spark attraction in the opposite s3x. While looks are generally 30% of attraction, the inner work I am talking about here is the other 70%. It is we who must give ourselves value. If we do not love ourselves and find ourselves lacking, we will project our insecurities onto other people, and they will perceive us as such. If we believe we are exceptional and unique, then, subconsciously, others will also believe it and spend their time around us trying to figure out why we are so great. This mystery will be very attractive to them. In reality, attraction is about personal power. If you try to court a person and are going out of your way for them, supplicating yourself, you are communicating that you are not a person of high value, your time is not important, and you have low personal power. If you are willing to give a stranger your personal power willingly merely because they are attractive physically, then you are communicating to them that you are a person of low value, simple as that, setting yourself up for failure right away. Maybe, by some stroke of luck, they will want to date you, but they will only be with you to take advantage of you in some way since you communicated to them from the beginning that you don't respect yourself. Subconsciously, people have no respect for individuals who do not respect themselves. Respect is something earned, not given. Love is given always and equally, but respect is earned. Thus, you have to learn to love and respect yourself. If you feel that you do not love yourself as much as you should, if you have past traumas that need healing, then focus your attention on overcoming those traumas instead of finding a mate..." CONTINUED IN COMMENTS- Excerpt from "Serpent Rising: The Kundalini Compendium" by Neven Paar
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(From Part IX-Kundalini-Love, Sexuality, and Willpower)
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