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2025 achievements1. I increased my earnings to a large percentage.2. I started a new job that stretched me both physical...
12/28/2025

2025 achievements

1. I increased my earnings to a large percentage.

2. I started a new job that stretched me both physically and mentally.

3. I made amazing friendships, both males and females.

4. I travelled to Nigeria and saw my dad for the first time in six years and also saw hubby’s parents. The kids had the opportunity to also meet their grandparents and cousins from their dad’s side.

5. The kids have become more self aware and independent.

6. I started my skin self care journey investigating in products that suits my skin.

7. I did my cervixal screening test and I have been ruled out of any bits of cancer cells.

8. I have been training physically.

9. I have carried weights I have never carried in my damn life! I have run races I never thought I could do.

10. I have done squats and pushups in multiples reps I never thought I could do. I have lifted 40 kg weighs on each hands doing squats. I have held up to 60kg of weight doing douplet squat. Now, I can jog 1.5 meter races in three laps without getting tired. I have dragged sandbags of up over 220 pounds.

11. I read over fifteen new books this new year and I hope to read more

12. Through the help of my friend, I helped several people restore their lost Facebook accounts.

13. This year, I also stood first in my values, chose integrity over noise and trusted the right processes.

14. I have also rounded up my five year professional training in Canada that wild earn me a global qualification.

15. Hubby and I have supported to friends who had downtimes.

16. 16. Hubby got me my beloved 18k gold set of jewellery for Christmas.

17. We renewed our commitment and love for eachother.

18. My blog post was restored restoring relocation information to as many who need it.

19. Travelled to France.

20. Had a terrible skin infection on my le ankle cured.

Dear Nigerian women,Let me tell you something your mothers did not tell you. Something society would hide from you, and ...
12/27/2025

Dear Nigerian women,

Let me tell you something your mothers did not tell you. Something society would hide from you, and something your religious organizations would never admit.

“MARRIAGE IS A BUSINESS PARTNERSHIP FOR MANY MEN”.

I would explain o.

Men are strategic in marriage whether we like it or not. They may love you, but they also love what you bring into their life. Your beauty. Your womb. Your obedience. Your tolerance. Your peace. Your cooking. Your passport. Your brain. Even your foolishness if it serves them. Nothing is random.

The new one now is passport marriage. Many men would rather marry a “good girl” with foreign papers than a “good girl” with Nigerian papers. Look around you. Even your holy tongue speaking brothers are marrying “God-fearing women with foreign passports.”

Suddenly holiness has visa privileges 🤣🤣🤣.

Men are planners. Calculated. They play the long game. They may not call it strategy, but they assess your value like an investor checks profit margins. Your caregiving ability. Your submissiveness. Your fertility. Your emotional labour. Your silence. Your ability to endure nonsense. Your beauty. Your usefulness to their ego. Sometimes you are not just a lover. You are a plan. A project. A convenience. You’re a pathway to their greatness.

Never forget that men rarely stay where there is no benefit. That man is not dating you solely because he loves you. He’s not wanting to see your parents because it’s all about love for him. For you, you may love him wholeheartedly and want to lay your dreams and goals down for him, but that’s not the same with him

Even good men calculate. If a man is with a broke woman, it is not because love conquered logic. It’s not because he wants to provide for all her needs, It is because he wants something else. Her womb. Her youth. Her submission. Her patience. Her emotional availability. Her readiness to sacrifice. Love is not always the main currency. Her financial dependency.

And many women often misunderstand this. Women just don’t get how strategic men are with dating. You are there thinking suffering with that man together equals love. A man sees your suffering and calculates what return he is getting from it. That is why many women get married and later cry that they were used. Because you thought your pain was proof of devotion while he saw it as a transaction.

This is why a woman will say “I gave him my virginity” or “I stood by him when he had nothing” or “I sacrificed my dreams for him.” While you were worshipping his potential, he was busy enjoying your body, your loyalty, your peace, or your womb. You were emotionally married. He was strategically dating..

Seen a man push a woman into nursing for love? Or law? Or medicine? If men were passionate about these careers for women’s growth alone, why not study it themselves. Hehe. Most times it is not your progress they are chasing. It is what your progress can do for them.

Never also forget that a man can perform love just long enough to win you. Many times your desperation does half the job for him. When you are scared of being unmarried, you will accept nonsense wrapped in romance. When you are hungry for validation, you will mistake attention for love. When you are rushing destiny, you will ignore red flags because you don’t want to be alone.

So before you give your emotions, your body, your youth, your womb, your loyalty, or your life, FIND OUT WHAT HE WANTS.

Not what he says. What his actions say.

Know what you are bringing and know what he is gaining. And make sure you are not the only one investing while he is harvesting.

Men are strategic. You better be strategic too.

Marry for love, yes. But also marry with sense. SHINE YOUR EYE.

Know why he wants you. And be clear why you are with him.

Then dig your own with your full chest and a fully open eye.

07/23/2025

Here’s what I want to say to young girls.

I know some of you are keeping yourself for marriage - which is great and which I am an advocate of.

However; be careful you’re doing this for the right reasons. Keeping yourself for a man who you think would crown you the queen of his heart or worship the ground you walk on, you may be in for a rude shock.

If you do want to keep your virginity. Do it because it benefits you more in the long run. Do it for yourself. For your values and for the standards that you uphold. Do it for God.

Do not do this to honor any man. If he doesn’t uphold s*xual purity as part of his value system, you’re just that archaic, inexperienced lady whose virginity is a brag to earn when he eventually gets to sleeps with you.

Another reality ladies have to understand is this. When or if you do find a man, and you both agree to have mutual s*x, (it being your own first s*x) know that he could become uninterested after having s*x with you.

You’ve to remember this while you’re going to have your first s*x with that man/boyfriend.

See! You should have s*x because you want to, but don’t expect commitment from a man who doesn’t want to have one or expect commitment from him because you have him your virginity.

It’s really the same way a woman may sleep with a man and makes up her mind that she’s no longer interested in him.

I’m telling you this because I see many young girls becoming heartbroken when they’ve had their first s*x with men; who are no longer committed to the relationship.

Don’t be given to sweet words. Don’t get carried away. While your body is doing you gish-gish, make sure your brains are in place too.

Women! Time calls for you to be more assertive, bold, logical with your bodies.

Ire o!

Who else packs a storm when you're leaving Nigeria? I told my mum to help me do market runs because she travels so that ...
07/15/2025

Who else packs a storm when you're leaving Nigeria? I told my mum to help me do market runs because she travels so that when we come, we wouldn't have to do that in the midst of the short time we have to stay.

Mamasticka said, "say no more. Just send me your list". And she did. So prior to my arrival, I had all my foodstuff ready to go.

I've got 8 of these bags and I packed the whole Nigeria. I packed a whole sack of elubo. My kids eats Amala a lot and I don't like the elubo we buy in African stores. Bought, lots of ponmo and dry fish and plenty African attire done by my personal fashion designer, Aibor Osariemen Giftt. Thank you dear. I am loyal to your government 🤩❤️.

The foodstuff we packed can last us for 3 years, lol. We also packed 100L of Palmoil. I'm a load carrier and I don't mind carrying stuff provided they're useful for me in the long run. Those who know me know that I'm eleru town council. I dey pack load o.

Right from Uni, I take everything possible from home, including perishables that could last me for a long time and store in my school freezer. I would carry kerosene, my cam gas, matches, everything possible. At that time, the drivers at the park already know me and drop me right at my school gate.

So packing all of the eight bags was just a breeeeze. Me and load be gum-body.

My only regret was that I thought my luggage would be sniffed by custom dogs, stopped and searched so I didn't pack kilishi, I should have atleast tried to bring some in.

Anyways, nothing spoil...

It was such a nice time in Nigeria, seeing friends and more importantly seeing my dad and hubby's parents.

Now that I've visited Nigeria, I think it's time to explore other countries intentionally o.

We had no issues with immigration. Just show your passport, stamp and go. We sort of got preferential treatment because of the kids too. Nobody wanted us to wait too long on the queue. The custom and immigration officers were astonished at how outspoken and assertive the kids were.

I loved the chaos in Nigeria sha, but I think it's time to get some stability in Canada...

Thank you to all. If you who followed my journey home, rejoiced and had fun here while I shared.😍❤️

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