07/28/2025
Sean. Michael. Alex. Carter. Dillon. Cal.
No matter what their names are, no matter who they are, who they know, no matter what they do for a living, how much money they have, no matter their influence, no matter their “potential”...
LADIES, know that at ANY TIME you can SAY NO!!!
Consent = freely given
Consent = ongoing
And most IMPORTANT, consent can be taken away at ANY TIME!
If he starts kissing you and you are uncomfortable, you can take back your consent.
If you take off your shirt and have second thoughts, you can take back your consent.
If you’re in bed and change your mind, you can take back your consent.
YOU CAN TAKE BACK YOUR POWER ANYTIME!
As my wise friend said, the fact that they felt they needed to film consent speaks volumes.
Ladies, let’s learn from this. The system clearly doesn’t protect us, so we need to protect ourselves and each other.
And MORE IMPORTANT let’s teach our boys this! If they’re ever in a situation where the girl does not say yes, they stop. If they ever feel the need to film “consent”, you probably shouldn’t engage.
These cases infuriate me. But they also activate me to do something positive and continue to fuel my work on prevention with
~ Denise