01/09/2023
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Guys, if you're not careful, your passive "Nice Guy" ways will cause disconnection & disaster in your intimate relationship.
When you’re a passive man, you will unconsciously force your wife or girlfriend to embody the masculine traits that you’re lacking.
This means you will force her to make all the decisions, lead the relationship 24/7 & take responsibility for things
that are yours as a man.
As a result, you will force her out of her femininity. Killing the polarity in the relationship.
Being married with kids, your passive ways will often lead your wife to carry the burdens of caring for your kids, paying the bills, doing most of the housework, etc.
A wife in this position will want her husband to step up & support her, but it’s common for a passive husband to not have the courage to do so.
Becoming uncomfortable with such responsibility.
Often in his mind, he thinks that he already does a lot.
You’ll often begin to complain about her inability to initiate s*x and/or the fact that she won’t even engage in s*x altogether.
Not realizing that your lack of action, direction & responsibility is causing her to be less attracted to you.
Now, you're not meant to become aggressive towards her. That's unhealthy as well.
What I am saying is that you need to embody your healthy masculine traits that you've been afraid of.
You need to consider her, be respectful & loving, but assert your presence into the relationship & into your life.
Set boundaries, stand up & say "NO" to her for once.
Take the burdens you placed on her, by default of your ways, off of her.
You're fully capable, but just like many "Nice Guy's," you need to heal & do the uncomfortable yet important work of taking back your authentic power.