25/09/2025
We’ve hit that part of harvest where the days feel extra long, the breakdowns keep coming, and the yields are average (or below). Everyone’s tired, and I have cougar hormones 😆🙈 A couple days ago, Matt and I had our first harvest disagreement. We were both frustrated.
Miscommunication and disagreements are bound to happen on the farm, especially in the busy, exhausting days of harvest. And in the moment, it can feel really tough. We’re learning to give each other (and ourselves) a little more grace to work through it.
Some things that help us: taking time outs, being curious instead of defensive, showing patience and kindness…and sometimes, just needing a release (a good scream or cry in the truck, a walk, a run, or even tossing a rock in the field).
I also loved this piece of advice: shift from wanting to be right to wanting the right answer, even if it doesn’t come from you. Because at the end of the day, we’re on the same team. 💛
What helps you work through conflict and frustrating moments?