06/22/2026
Fyi, if you have female friends who talks about hooking up with unavailable men for fun, you should distance yourself from that "friend". She's not a friend to anyone... she'll go after her own "friends" men for fun.
Same goes for friends who gossip about other friends, if they gossip about friends and family to you, they gossip about you with others.
Pay attention to your "bestfriends" and the way they talk about their love ones... I had a friend from high school who loved talking crap about her own younger sister. Her sis and I actually connected first before I became friends with her, I actually felt bad for her because she had issues making friends when I met them when I was 11 years old. I've picked up on many red flags from her, but I ignored them because I just didn't think they were a big deal... I was wrong.
This friend realized I was nothing like her, I didn't chase men the way she did behind close doors. I didn't speak about people the way she did because I've always practiced self reflections, she had no accountability. She lied about her own parents and showed incredibly amount of embarrassment about how they lived their lives. Being embarrass about her own family while being jealous of her own sister was her niche.
This friend had everything I didn't, family, home, sister and parents... and yet she still lived the way she did. The way she saw the world was completely unhinged, the hate she keeps in her heart and the jealousy for others... I'm nothing like her and she was never my friend.
Be careful who you call a friend... your friends are just waiting for you to fail so they can look down on you.