In Pursuit Of Positivity

06/06/2025

You were not born to shrink in this worldYou are not your painYou are not your pastYou are your strength that kept you goingWhen everything else wanted to stopYou were born with fire in your soul

01/07/2025

08/13/2024

This book has been controversial since it was first published. Learning that it was banned in some prisons in the US kept me from reading it. I’m glad I finally read and finish it. People believe this is a book that teaches manipulation and promotes ruthless behaviour.

To me it is learning your power and how to use it to do good and defend yourself. At the same time learn how others use their power to their advantage so you can avoid them before they make you miserable. This book does not BS nor sugarcoat reality. It’s about defense from toxic people and from those who claims to be powerful. We live in a world where the game is power. Be it in the office, at home, anywhere and everywhere. People think they have the power over the other, and the other over another one. This book will help us how to navigate the world of power that will aid not only in the present more-so in the future. This book needs a deeper understanding. Not all laws are applicable to everyone or everyday in every situation.

For example, Law #4-Always say Less than necessary
While it’s true that less talk, less mistakes = more powerful, this doesn’t apply to every situation. There are also times when being silent is also dangerous, it may create doubtfulness. Therefore, use this law in the right situation and with caution.

Law #11 Learn to keep people dependent on you.
Everything is replaceable in this world. If you do not recreate yourself and be complacent with where you are now or become over-confident, absolutely there is someone younger with fresher ideas who can replace you before you know it. So keep on learning & challenge your limits, making yourself always useful and wanted. This will give you power to make people depend on your skills rather than replace you because you are no longer fit to the new challenges.

This book is weird, straightforward & unflinching but if interpreted in the right way, it is a saviour!

07/31/2024

Less talk, less risk of making mistakes.
When you control what you reveal, no one can pierce your intentions.
But when you cannot control your words, it shows that you cannot control yourself and appear to be unworthy of respect.

Words are nothing if not backed with actions. Surely, words can impress but when there is no action, distrust and disappointment are built and your reputation may be damaged forever.

The more you shut up, the more respectful you become. But be aware that there are times when being silent is unwise. Talk with caution ⚠️ Talk less or talk more, in the right situations.

07/27/2024

It’s okay to not be okay.
We don’t need to pretend to be okay when we are not. Sadness and grief are not signs of weakness, these are valid feelings that must be felt and allow ourselves to go through so we can be strong when we need to. Supressing these feelings will not help us get healed rather it will make the pain more and more hurtful and before we know it we are already hurting others as well. We must go through the process, be hurt, be guilty, get angry we can deny if we want but once we are done, we learn to accept and get up stonger & better.

We must remember that people grieve and learn in their own ways so we must always be cautious not to try to force them to jump to being healed or positive. Support and listening ears is the best help we can offer.

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.

07/11/2024

Sometimes this is the reason why some choose to stay silent and fight their battles alone. It is very rare that you have people who genuinely listens and understands. Most will create responses on their head which removes their attention from the person who needs to be heard. Worst is they tell their own stories to compare and try to prove that either they experienced the same or theirs is worst than yours as if there’s a competition to win.

Listening is a genuine act which requires a sincere heart.

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.

07/09/2024

Is it really lonely at the top?

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.

06/23/2024

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.

05/16/2024

Be vigilant 🧐

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.

05/10/2024

“Silent Confidence”

05/08/2024

More than WORDS 🧐

Taking little steps every day to create a positive mindset in this world full of negativity.