Love Says

09/04/2025

The WRONG man in your life will teach you that you can do it all by yourself‼️

The RIGHT man will know you can, but will NOT let you.
He will stand by your side, share the load and assist you in thriving together.

Because in a true PARTNERSHIP, strength is found in unity, not isolation. And it's a real a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important.

She can't feel SAFE with you if you're not leading properly.

09/04/2025

"When you start to grow and mature, you'll realize that looks isn't the most important thing when looking for a partner. What matters most is his attitude, sense of responsibility, faithfulness and loyalty.

Choose someone who can take care of you physically, emotionally and financially."

09/04/2025

When your partner gives you another chance take it seriously.

When your partner gives you another chance, it’s not just a reset button—it’s a test of whether you’ve truly learned from past mistakes and are willing to do better. Second chances are rare, and they come with expectations. Here’s why and how you should take it seriously:

1. She’s Taking a Risk
By giving you another shot, she’s risking her emotions, trust, and time. If she was hurt or disappointed before, she’s choosing to believe that you can be better. This means you have to prove, through actions, that her decision wasn’t a mistake.

2. Words Mean Nothing Without Actions
It’s easy to say, “I’ll change” or “Things will be different.” But she needs to see it. If the issue was communication, talk to her more openly. If it was effort, show her that you’re willing to put in the work. Real change isn’t temporary; it’s consistent.

3. Learn From the Past
She didn’t walk away for no reason. Reflect on what went wrong and take accountability. Own up to your mistakes, not just with words but by actively working to improve.

4. Rebuild Trust, Don’t Just Expect It
If trust was broken, don’t expect her to immediately act like nothing happened. Trust is rebuilt over time with honesty, transparency, and reliability. Be patient and prove that you’re worthy of it.

5. Show Gratitude
Appreciate the second chance. Make her feel valued, not just because you got another opportunity, but because you genuinely care about her happiness and well-being.

At the end of the day, a second chance is a gift. If you take it seriously and put in the effort, it could lead to something even stronger than before. If you waste it, you might not get another one.

~Unknown.
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09/02/2025

28/09/2024

Let people judge you.

Let them misunderstand you.

Let them gossip about you.

What they think of you isn't your problem. Their opinions do not pay your bills. So, you stay kind, committed to love, and no matter what they do or say... never doubt your worth or the beauty of your worth.

You keep on shining and let the haters hate.

------ unknown

📷 ctto hessah_art

11/09/2024

My mother once told me,

“If someone hurts you, forgive them, but never forget what they’ve done.”

For years, I carried those words with me, a silent reminder as I navigated new friendships and relationships. At first, it seemed simple. But over time, it became exhausting. Offering kindness and trust only to be met with betrayal took its toll. Admiring someone, only to discover they’d been speaking ill of me behind my back, left a deep sting.

One day, tired and frustrated, I asked her,
“Do they even deserve my forgiveness?”

She smiled softly, folding the laundry she’d been working on—a daily task she did without complaint.

“Child, everyone deserves forgiveness. If someone wrongs you once, forgive them. If they hurt you again, give them another chance. But if they betray you a third time, then it’s time to forgive yourself.”

Confused, I must’ve furrowed my brow because she set down the clothes, gently taking my hands.

“Forgive yourself for believing in them. Forgive yourself for trusting too easily. Forgive yourself for giving them that second or third chance when you thought they’d change. And most importantly, forgive yourself enough to let go—of hatred, of revenge, and the weight of your past.”

The next morning, I found my mother sitting quietly, tears falling as she stared at an old photo. Her closest friend of fifteen years had betrayed her trust. I sat beside her and asked if she was angry. With a deep breath and a familiar smile, she shook her head.

“My heart has no space for hatred. I don’t deserve to carry that weight. I’ve forgiven her, but that doesn’t mean I’ve forgotten. The next time she sees me smiling, despite everything, she’ll know who truly suffered.”

Wiping her eyes with the handkerchief I’d made her for Mother’s Day years ago, she added,
“The greatest gift you can give to someone who’s hurt you is to show them you’ve moved on. Let them witness the life they could never break. We only get one chance at this, so don’t waste it carrying the pain they left behind. Let them see what they lost—and how, in their own way, they made you stronger.”

In that moment, I understood. Without her wisdom, I might still be held captive by burdens that were never mine to carry.

✍️ Unknown

20/01/2024

I wanna be in love with someone who is equally in love with me and I don’t want it to just be love. I want us to be best friends and to adore and respect each other. I want us to fit together like puzzle pieces.

28/12/2023

Being "needy".

There is nothing wrong with wanting attention from your significant other.

It doesn't make you selfish or "needy".

It doesn't make you desperate or a burden.

We are all human and we deserve to feel seen and valued from the person we love.

Every single one of us genuinely deserve to have those needs met and you are no exception.

You deserve to be acknowledged, cared for and loved unconditionally.

Don't let anyone including yourself, convince you otherwise.

—Cody Bret

Illustrations by. 🎨 mumucomico

26/12/2023

Women are so difficult.
They always change their minds.
At 18, they want handsome men.
At 25, they want mature men.
At 30, they want successful men.
At 40, they want established men.
At 50, they want faithful men. At 60, they want helpful men.

Men are very simple...
They never change their taste...for any changing condition in their lives.
At 18, they like pretty young girls.
At 25, they like pretty young girls.
At 30, they like pretty young girls.
At 40, they like pretty young girls.
At 50, they still like pretty young girls At 60, still they like pretty young girls.
Even at 70 & 80 when they can barely move, they still like pretty young girls

Dedicated to all Men for their constant behaviour.

Ccto

20/12/2023

"When someone has seen the worst parts of you and still decides to stay, that's when you know they are worth keeping. Not everyone is willing to stick with you when times get tough so appreciate those who remain by your side when you're at your worst because they are the ones who deserve you at your absolute best."
Ccto

11/12/2023

"When I say I love you more, I don't mean I love you more than you love me. I mean I love you more than the bad days ahead of us, I love you more than any fight we will ever have. I love you more than the distance between us, I love you more than any obstacle that could try and come between us. I love you the most."