01/07/2024
Bisola sat across from me, her eyes brimming with tears. At 32, her life seemed to be crumbling around her. Unemployed for months, childless despite years of trying, and her once-solid marriage to James teetering on the brink of collapse.
"I just can't take it anymore," Bisola whispered, her voice barely audible. She pulled out her phone, showing me the latest in a series of job rejection emails. "I feel like such a fraud. Like I'm not good enough for anything or anyone."
My heart ached for my friend. I knew the weight she carried, especially after yesterday's devastating news of another miscarriage – her third in two years.
Leaning forward, I took her hands in mine. "Bisola, listen to me. When everything else seems lost, hope is the one thing you must hold onto. It's your lifeline in this storm."
She scoffed, but I pressed on. "Pray like it's your last resort, but work like it's your only hope. Keep upskilling, keep applying, and have you considered volunteering?"
Bisola’s brow furrowed. "Volunteering? Friend, I need a paying job."
"I know, but hear me out. It's experience, it's networking, and sometimes, it's the doorway to unexpected opportunities."
Reluctantly, Bisola agreed to give it a try. She found a position at a local community center, helping with their outreach programs. The work was demanding, and the lack of pay was frustrating, but slowly, I saw a change in her.
Three months flew by. One evening, my phone buzzed with a text from Bisola: "Juliet, you won't believe it. I got a job!"
The community center had created a new paid position, and Amelia's dedication during her volunteer work had made her the perfect candidate. But the good news didn't stop there.
Six months later, I sat with Bisola again, this time in a cozy café. Her eyes sparkled as she spoke about her job, the renewed connection with James, and their decision to start couple's therapy.
"And my friend," she said, her voice trembling with excitement, "we're pregnant. The doctor says everything looks good this time."
As I hugged my friend, I thought about the journey that had brought her here. It was a powerful reminder of the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of hope.
As we step into the second half of the year, Bisola's story serves as a beacon of hope for all of us. Just as she found new beginnings in unexpected places, the coming months offer fresh opportunities for growth and success in our personal and professional lives.
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Happy new month, happy second half.
