01/07/2025
In a world where people trust comment sections more than counselors, is it any surprise relationships are falling apart?
People who have sense can tell you that what I’m saying or have been saying is nothing but the truth.
“Hide my ID” has done more h△rm to relationships and marriages than good. That’s just facts.
Just cos something is popular doesn’t mean it’s right or helpful.
I’ve said it before: show me one person who ever gained true clarity from anonymous posts on social media, and I’ll show you 99 others who ended up confused, traum△tized, and depre55ed.
People don’t argue with me cos deep down, they know they’d be arguing for nothing.
Many men today are genuinely afraid of getting involved with ladies who are overly attached to and influenced by random content on social media. It’s a serious issue.
And by the way, do you know that the majority of “hide my ID” cases are from women? Go and do your research.
It’s really sad that, out of all the sources of knowledge and wisdom in this world, some people choose to learn from the comment sections of anonymous posts. That’s cr△zy.
Honestly, who has relationship advice ever really helped? No two relationships or marriages are the same, cos the people involved are not the same.
Advice may work well in bu$iness or other areas where the principles are universal… but not in relationships.
In marriage, what destr❍yed one couple could be a non-issue for another.
So I’ll never understand how people put their trust in the crowd… a crowd that often lacks compassion, depth, and wisdom to guide them in matters as delicate as love and commitment.
The only third party that is safe to involve in your relationship or marriage is a qualified counselor.
Not your parents, not your friends, and definitely not your in-laws. Talk less of involving netizens who do not even know you or your story.
Trust me, the consequences of involving the wrong people are real and plenty.
To those of you who are following me with intention and understanding, I’m happy for you. Lack of wisdom is not your portion.
In this world full of noise, guard your mind and your relationship. Don’t let public opinions shape your reality. Choose wisdom, not popularity.
That same lady in the comment section who is advising you to leave your relationship or marriage cos your man made a mistake, claiming that she can never take that from a man, is a side chick.
That same man in the comment section who is telling you not to marry a baby mama is seriously chasing after one baby mama in the quarter and she is not peeking his height.
If this post makes sense and you’d like to keep drinking from my cup of wisdom, go ahead and 𝐟𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐦𝐞.
Share the post as well… someone on your timeline may need it more than you know.
I remain your noble relationship coach and marriage therapist Courage Sorbe aka Wisdom Bank. 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞, 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫.
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