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Oh, how busy is the ego—always chasing, gripping, striving to secure what was never meant to stay.It clings to titles, c...
15/04/2025

Oh, how busy is the ego—
always chasing, gripping, striving to secure what was never meant to stay.
It clings to titles, clutches relationships, obsesses over outcomes—
as if permanence could ever be promised in a world designed to flow.

The ego fears change,
so it builds towers of illusion:
“If I just achieve this, they’ll love me.”
“If I just hold tighter, it won’t slip away.”
“If I control everything, I’ll finally feel safe.”

But life, in its wisdom, doesn’t obey ego’s demands.
It moves with sacred rhythm—
with death and rebirth, ebb and flow, seasons of gain and surrender.
Trying to trap it in certainty is like trying to hold ocean water in your fist.
The tighter you grip, the more you lose.

The soul knows better.
It doesn’t hoard. It honors.
It doesn’t cling. It trusts.
It understands that what is truly meant for you will arrive with ease,
and what isn’t will fade—no matter how hard you chase it.

The ego says, “Secure it all.”
The soul whispers, “Let it breathe.”

So next time you feel frantic—rushing to make it work, forcing it to stay,
ask yourself: Is this love… or is this fear?

Because only the ego scrambles for what is fading.
The soul simply returns to peace, knowing that what’s real can never be lost.
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31/10/2024

𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
|Conversation between child & parent|
𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 : "that teacher is very harsh, always knocking children's heads, he knocked my head today."
𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 : "what did you do?"

Let's look at what Conscious Communication feels like:
1. Validating the child's emotion | feelings:
"that must have been painful"
"I can see you're really hurt"
"I'm sorry about your head."

2. Presence - "I am here for you:"
🌴 empathetic listening
🌴 active listening
🌴 affirmation through body language | gestures (nodding, keeping a steady eye contact, facial expressions matching child's emotion).

3. Provide comfort:
🌴 Compassionate and empathetic choice of words "I'm so sorry that happened to you"
🌴 Touch "hug - reassuring eye contact."

The parent's primary inquiry "what did you do?" can register several messages on the child's subconscious mind.
- You are naughty | stubborn.
- The teacher | leader is always right.
- You cause problems.
- The teacher matters more.
- You are bad.
- How you feel is secondary.
- You are stubborn.
- You love complaining...
Notice that these "offspring" messages are borne from a single statement.

"What did you do?"
This response is;
🌴 Invalidating the child's current emotion | feelings.
🌴 Prioritizing the teacher's behaviour over the child's emotions.
🌴 Casting indirect blame : "you are responsible for what befell you."
🌴 Bypassing the child's present feelings, as if to say "regardless of how you feel in this moment, you must have done something to merit it".

𝐋𝐞𝐭'𝐬 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐥
These questions could serve as beautiful journal prompts that uncover supressed / hidden emotions:
❔Did your primary caregivers ever ask "what did you do" when you complained about a teacher | leader | an authority's demeanour?
❔ Having understood the far reaching impact of this response from primary caregivers - in what ways could you have been affected?
📙 Explore your mind through journaling.
📕 Flow freely as you write to uncover hidden elements in your subconscious mind.

To feel, flow, love, live anew,
We need to consciously peel back,
Uncovering layers of core wounding
Rooted in the subconscious
the foundation which defines how we live, relate and interpret much of life in this moment.

Love Talk Therapy assists you on the healing | recovery path as we journey deep down into the crevices of your psyche | subconscious | soul through a holistic approach spearheaded by love talk therapy.
Reach out today for clarity, guidance or for the purpose of commencing this life transforming journey.

❔Did your primary caregivers ever ask "what did you do?" after you lamented about the demeanour of a superior | teacher | leader?

(Feel free to share. Let's create awareness. Let's heal our planet)


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28/10/2024

26/10/2024

|journal prompt|

Be my guest.
19/10/2024

Be my guest.

Winning Woman Africa, a platform created to inspire, motivate, and empower women to embrace the highest version of themselves presents a 3-day Wellness Retreat bordering on the mental, emotional, physical (holistic) health for women.

I am elated to be the main speaker for this event. I look forward in awe and beautiful contemplation to meeting these women who are setting themselves aside to tend to the nucleus and heart of life in its entirety - their Core.

Other activities during this retreat include
🌴 Heart - heart talks
🌴 Therapeutic journaling
🌴 Healing moments with Lois Love
🌴 Yoga - body connect
🌴 Healing artistry - 'painting my heart out'
🌴 Barbecue

P. S.
Participants may also choose to attend Saturday's programme solely - which would comprise of yoga, painting 'my heart out,' and a talk from the host.
This will cost 20.000fcfa.
For additional details regarding this event, reach out using contact on the flyer.

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17/10/2024

It's okay.
Let the "masks" fall off,
One by one.
Trust me hun you need not one to live.
The brilliance of the Real You
Yearns from deep within,
To be known, felt, heard, seen, by You.

Your deep calls unto You.
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13/10/2024

🔥🖤

A fire 🔥
Raw passion
Creativity
Potential
Possibility,
Is in your "womb,"
Seeking ultimate expression.
You are divinity! Pure magic 🌟
What stands in your way?

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🖤
10/10/2024

🖤

Honey,
You are unstoppable, you are enough.
Allow the voice from withIN trump all other voices.
You, are Enough.
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04/10/2024

Take Charge sweetheart 😊

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