24/08/2026
Day 24/30
Plot twist: I haven’t posted in a week and I’m no closer to 10k 😂
But I think I’m realising this challenge was never really about the followers.
I know what I don’t want anymore.
I’ve outgrown the version of me who stayed in jobs, situations and identities because they were safe, sensible or what I thought I was supposed to want.
What I didn’t realise was how strange the space after that would feel.
Because the old identity is gone…
but the new one isn’t fully formed yet.
For so much of my life, I outsourced the question of what I wanted. There was always someone or something telling me what success should look like, what I should want, what I should do next.
Now I’m trying to sit in the silence long enough to hear my own answer.
And maybe I don’t need to rush to figure it out.
Maybe part of expansion is learning to tolerate the space where you genuinely don’t know yet.
Where you stop asking “what should I do?”
and start asking:
“What do I actually want?”
6 days left.
I still don’t know exactly where I’m going.
But for the first time, I’m the one choosing the direction. 🦋
personal growth, finding yourself again, figuring out what you want, what do I actually want, changing your life, becoming your future self, outgrowing your old self, navigating change, life transition, starting over, starting over in your 30s, reinventing yourself, creating a life you love, choosing yourself, external validation, letting go of expectations, living authentically, personal transformation, becoming who you want to be, feeling lost in life, finding your own path, expansion
