25/09/2025
Before I got married, I didn’t always live right. I dated too much and made choices I’m not proud of. Some would call me a womanizer. I just say I was lost. But those times taught me lessons.
I learned that chasing many women does not bring real happiness. It looks fun from the outside, but inside it feels empty. That’s why I tell young men to be careful.
Marriage does not change bad habits overnight. If you don’t learn discipline early, you will carry the same ways into marriage. You must train yourself to commit and stay steady before saying “I do.”
— Daniel Etim-Effiong
