10/06/2026
I bumped into this post from EA, and I can’t help but smile and think, ka-cute ba gyud ani.
JL and her still seem to be doing a great job coparenting Elias, and I even remember EA sharing sa story niya that JL’s wife is the best stepmom ever. Makaingon na lang gyud kog sana all.
Honestly, that was my vision before too. As someone who has kids and an ex, I really wanted peaceful coparenting. Kanang bisan wala na mo as a couple, both parents are still mature enough to put the kids first. Kanang ma friend pa gani nimo ang new partner sa imong ex. Grabe ka peaceful unta ana.
Pero lately, narealize gyud nako nga good coparenting only works when both parents are mature enough to put their children first. Dapat normal ug tarong ang dagan sa utok sa papa sa imong anak, kay kung narcissistic ug ego centric gani na, sus, ayaw na lang gyud. Never mind, sizt. Just raise your kids ALONE!
Neeeeeeever makig co-parent og naay mga gipanglukdo kay ikaw ra’y ma-drain. Not worth the mental exhaustion. 😚💁🏼♀️