22/08/2025
University of WOMANHOOD
Women Prestige
Dear women, if you want to be respected, here are some rules:
1. This is the number one rule: make your own money. If you don’t have money, you don’t have a voice and you don’t have a say in any relationship or marriage. Use me and SGM as a case point.
2. Stop running to men for money.
Unless it’s a true emergency, try to handle your needs yourself. Even in emergencies, try first before asking. Do things yourself as a woman.
It’s not every little thing you go running to your boyfriend he is not your father. The more you keep running to him for things you can handle on your own, the more room you give him to insult you.
3. No bride price, no wifey duties.
You are free to visit him Spend some days., don’t play wifey duties when he has not married you, no matter how sweet the prick is, stop being married when you are not officially married. Don’t go and live with a man with the hope he would marry you I Dey warn you.
4. Don’t get pregnant for a man who hasn’t paid your bride price.
Ninety percent of the time you will end up a baby mama, and that same man may use it against you tomorrow. Some anyways.
5. Learn a skill.
When your mind is busy with something useful, you won’t waste time on gossip or unnecessary arguments on social media.
6. Don’t give money to a man who has never given to you. Same goes for men too don’t give your money to a woman who has never even bought you one gift.
7. Don’t throw away your career because of love.
No matter how sweet the love feels, use your head. Someone was supposed to be in the UK but used her money to sponsor her boyfriend abroad, and he later left her. It also happens to men who pay school fees for women. In 2025, have sense. Not all but some.
8. Don’t beg a man to pay your school fees.
If he insists, sign an agreement with him that you’ll pay it back when you have the money. And when you do, pay it back so your dignity remains intact.
9. Never f!ght over a man.
If you fight another woman over a man, you are simply f00lish.
10. Don’t be desperate for marriage.
Some men can smell when a woman is desperate, and they will use it to control you. Marriage is not the prize. Peace of mind and happiness are the goals.
11. Stop dating carelessly.
If the relationship has no direction, cut it off. Both of you should be able to define it. If it has no definition, aga ejikwa amu laa gi nonsense.
12. Lastly, make your own money.
When you have money, you meet valuable men
men who respect women. But when you don’t have anything and you’re always chasing men for what you can gain, you will lose respect. A woman who contributes in her home rarely gets insulted, cheated on, or abused. When you have money, you have a voice and a say in your relationship or marriage.
Udo diri unu. *Ajiboo care's*
