22/07/2024
The Narcissists have an, “I don’t care mentality”. Communicating your concerns, and offering suggestions will always be met with some form of manipulation. When they’re not raging and having a fit, they’re controlling their facial expression and reactions to further manipulate the situation. You’ll think they’re truly listening, accepting accountability and willing to do what’s right. However, both the cute puppy dog eyes and Mr. Hyde reactions are used to regain control. While you’re thinking you’ve touched their heart, or said something wrong, In their mind, they’re already thinking of ways to do exactly what you’re asking them NOT to do. If you’re asking them to step up and do more, they’re plotting how to do even less! Your words were dismissed the moment the conversation pointed out their poor behavior. They’re not going to tell you this because then you’ll make the decision to walk away. That is the last thing the Narcissists want because they know someone more deserving will eventually find you. Which means, their days of using you would be over with.
