30/06/2026
Sorry for radio silence for a while, it's all been a bit overwhelming for the last couple of weeks, whilst dealing with the lodger from hell...
Total destruction of my attached apartment, flea infestation of biblical proportions, electrical problems, which I think have been caused by rodents enticed by the desgusting environment. Having been asked for months to clean up, by myself and his friends, with no change and his contract broken on so many fronts, I had run out of the ability to cope any longer and notice was given. There is so much else I could add in here, but I won't just to protect his children...
Then followed abuse from his girlfriend, his cat being abandoned without food, water and clean litter tray during a heatwave, threats of reporting me to local and government departments, and then finally police arriving at my gates, as he was trying to porter plainte against me, for illegally accessing the property without permission.
Thankfully, I had logged and recorded everything, but still the collection of his items was not forthcoming. I have had to pay to have the apartment emptied, cleaned, insecticide bombs, and god knows what else I will find out during the next few weeks of decorating.
Finally, last Saturday he arrived and took the last of his effects, but refused to sign for taking them, so I am just sitting waiting for what he's going to throw at me next...?! Loss of non existent money, broken items, who knows? Oh and I still need to get all of the rubbish he left taken away!
This absolutely throws my ADHD, no matter what medication I'm on, as it's not able able to deal with stress of this kind of level, on top of everything else going on! This was also the place were Garry peacefully passed away, with his hand in mine, so it's an added level of upset thrown into the mix...including my first panic attacks in years.
So, thank you to friends who have supported me through this, especially the French contingent, who have been outraged and have stepped into the breach to help resolve this situation. I am so grateful for everything ❤️
Hopefully, I can now go back to concentrating on getting my injury fixed, focusing on my animals and getting my apartment back to the lovely space it was, and my home back to being a safe and peaceful space! 🤞
N.B. The attached video is the weekend his contract ended and he only took one car load. So just imagine it 10 times worse beforehand, and that'll be about I walked into, as needed emergency entrance due to electrical problems, and found an abandoned cat...😢
