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Ayo Moments - eat, explore, unwind, Aberdeen (2026)

02/09/2026

Birthday lunch in Banff 🤎

[02.09.26]

After a very wholesome little visit to Crovie , one of the smallest and most remote fishing villages on the Buchan coast , we definitely earned ourselves some lunch. And after nearly dying walking back up that hill at eight months pregnant, Kafé in Banff was a very welcome sight.

Luckily, we hit the sweet spot and managed to grab a table, because this place gets pretty busy.

I started with the banana bread pudding latte, which was bloody phenomenal. Honestly, it was SO good. I then went for the crispy chicken wrap, while Matty had an apple juice and the crispy chicken bagel, which he really enjoyed.

This was actually my first time eating here. We’d previously popped in for matcha, but this time we decided to properly sit down for lunch, decompress and just enjoy the atmosphere.

We ended up sitting outside, enjoying the weather before the heavens opened and we got a proper downpour , which, if you know me, I actually loved. I genuinely love the rain, so I wasn’t complaining.

Kafé is such a lovely little spot, and if you’re in the area I’d definitely recommend stopping by. There are also so many gorgeous coastal villages around here to explore, and I’m really glad we got to see a few of them on this trip.

And honestly, nothing beats ending a birthday with good food, a little exploring and a dramatic Scottish downpour. 🤎

Kafé.
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29/08/2026

The last stretch 🤎

[29.08.26]

I think weekend coffee runs have become a bit of a routine for me during these last weeks of pregnancy.

I don’t really do much during the weekdays because looking at a computer all day completely exhausts me, so I really cherish my weekends. It’s a chance to actually get dressed, make a little bit of an effort, get out of the house and, of course, take far too many photos.

I think I’ve probably taken more photos of myself over the last 8 months than I ever have before, but I’ve especially loved documenting my bump. There’s something so special about having these photos to look back on and seeing how much I’ve loved this little bump of mine.

I don’t want to get too emotional about it, but I think I’m genuinely going to miss it.

This pregnancy hasn’t always been easy. There have been some really difficult moments, including being in hospital and experiencing some pretty severe pain, and maybe one day I’ll talk a little more openly about that side of it. But despite everything, she’s thriving in there.

She’s just living her best life, taking up her own little space and doing exactly what she wants.

And I think that’s what I love most about my bump. No matter what has been happening around her, she has just continued to grow, thrive and make her presence known.

She’s already a little fighter, and I have a feeling she’ll be just as determined when she gets here.

I’m just really grateful that I’ve taken all these photos to look back on one day and remember this little chapter , the good, the difficult, and everything in between.

08/08/2026

A little coffee run 🤎

[08.08.26]

It was meant to be a coffee run, but somehow I ended up not actually having any coffee 😂

Still, it was nice to get out with my favourite accessory (bump) and just enjoy a little bit of time together.

And honestly, a huge thank you to everyone who has sent me messages over the last few days. There have been so many, and I genuinely can’t thank you all enough for how thoughtful and kind you’ve been. It really does mean so much.

We’re doing very well over here, living it up, enjoying life and spending time with the people we love. Just taking things as they come, making the most of these little moments and keeping a smile on my face. 🤎
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25/07/2026

A new menu at Sober 🍸✨(invite)

[25.07.25]

We recently popped back into Sobr Bar (SOBR )because they’ve just launched The Functional Edit, and I have to say, I really like the concept behind it.

Rather than it just being a new cocktail menu, they’ve created 12 functional cocktails designed around three different moods: Energise, Elevate and Unwind. Depending on how you’re feeling (or how you want to feel), you can pick a drink from one of those categories, which I thought was a really fun idea.

I started with the Sobr Inferno, which is an elevated take on the spicy mango margarita that used to be on the menu. It now sits within the Energise section of The Functional Edit, and I was so happy to see those familiar flavours make a return. It was every bit as delicious as I remembered.

Matty started with the Wild Eve from the Elevate section before finishing with the Prism, which was probably the most interactive drink of the evening. You pour the final ingredient yourself and watch the colours change, which made it feel like a little science experiment at the table.

Before we headed home, I couldn’t resist trying one more from the Unwind section - the Coconut Noir. With coffee, coconut and vanilla flavours, it was smooth, comforting, and honestly felt like dessert in a glass.

Another lovely touch is the little passport that comes with the menu. Every time you try one of the 12 cocktails, you collect a stamp, and once you’ve completed the collection, you’ll receive a complimentary drink. I love little interactive ideas like that - it definitely gives you a reason to come back and work your way through the menu.

One thing I’ve always appreciated about Sobr is that the drinks never feel like an afterthought. Whether you’re not drinking, you’re the designated driver, you’re pregnant, or you simply fancy something different, it still feels like you’re getting the full cocktail experience.

I already know we’ll be back to tick a few more drinks off the passport.
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22/07/2026

Trying to make the most of summer ☀️

[22.07.26]

The number of times I’ve been asked how I’m coping in this heat… I’m really not. 😂

I definitely cherish the cooler mornings and evenings a lot more these days. I know if I wasn’t pregnant I’d probably be absolutely loving this weather, but pregnancy and heat are just not the best combination.

That being said, I’m still trying to make the most of it. Even if it’s just getting out of the house for a couple of hours, going for brunch, grabbing an iced drink, or just wandering around somewhere new.

I keep thinking that every day brings us a little closer to meeting our little girl, but it also means these are the last few months of life as just the two of us. It’s a really strange feeling because I’m so excited for what’s to come, but I’m also very aware that this chapter is coming to an end.

So I feel like I’m trying to squeeze everything in. The little trips, the brunch dates, the spontaneous drives, catching up with friends… all the things that are a little easier to do before life changes completely.

I know life doesn’t stop once she’s here, it’ll just look a little different. But for now, I’m just trying to enjoy this season for what it is, even if I am melting through most of it.
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13/07/2026

A brunch to remember 🤎

[13.07.26]

I’m slowly making my way through the backlog of food content because, although we haven’t been eating out as much recently, there are still so many lovely places I never got around to sharing.

One of those is Wild Goose (Wild Goose ).

We actually visited just after our gender reveal scan, so it was really nice to sit down together, let it all sink in, and enjoy a good brunch after such a special morning.

The food was absolutely delicious. I went for the smashed avocado on open toast with chorizo and, on the recommendation of one of the lovely team at Oliver Bonas (she absolutely knew what she was talking about!), we added a side of hash browns… and they did not disappoint.

Matty went for the Full Shire with a side of halloumi, and safe to say we both left very happy.

One thing I really appreciated was how much they champion local produce. The menu highlights where so many of the ingredients come from, and even a lot of the furniture has been sourced locally from around Aberdeen and Aberdeenshire. It’s those little details that make somewhere feel even more special.

I never quite managed to capture the interior properly, but it’s a beautiful space - full of natural light, lots of greenery, and somewhere you could happily spend a slow morning over brunch.

If you haven’t been yet, I’d definitely recommend giving it a visit.
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10/07/2026

A little Paris photo dump 🇫🇷✨

[10.07.26]

Usually when I’m on holiday, I’m very much in my “take every single photo possible” era… but this time I decided to just enjoy it a little more and be present.

The main reason for our Paris trip was Disneyland - yes, at my tender age of 30+ I had somehow never been, so it was very high on my bucket list before life changed completely later this year.

And honestly, I loved it. Even though it was absolutely heaving, seeing Princess Tiana had me fully screaming.

But outside of Disneyland, Paris itself was just beautiful. I loved wandering around and taking in all the little details - the gorgeous storefronts, the architecture, the slightly dramatic and extravagant feel that makes Paris feel so unique.

There were lots of walks, lots of “Matty can you take a photo of me?” moments, a boat ride along the Seine, and plenty of ducking out of the rain when the weather decided to do its thing.

We didn’t have a strict itinerary, we just took each day as it came and did whatever we felt like doing. And honestly, sometimes those are the best trips.

So here’s a little Paris photo dump because this city deserves to be photographed 🤎
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18/06/2026

Ayo Gets Deep 🤎

[18.06.26]

How’s everyone doing?

I feel a little out of the loop lately. Not in a bad way, just in a “what’s actually going on?” kind of way. What’s happening in Aberdeen? What’s the gossip? What have I missed?

I don’t feel like I’ve been overly present online recently, but I also don’t feel like I need to apologise for that. Sometimes you just show up when you can show up.

Life has changed quite a lot over the last few months, and naturally my priorities have shifted with it. I’ve also taken a bit of a step back from the whole content creator side of things. Not because I don’t enjoy it anymore - I still take loads of photos and videos - but somewhere along the way I realised I don’t really want to chase visibility.

The older I get, the more I think social media should be enjoyable. Post because you want to. Take a break when you need to. Share because it makes you happy, not because you feel pressured to keep up.

I think a lot of the pressure we feel online comes from ourselves. We convince ourselves we need to be more consistent, more visible, more present. But why?

So I guess this is just a little reminder to slow down, take it easy, and enjoy things for what they are.

Anyway, enough from me. How are you all doing? 🤎
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18/06/2026

A brunch stop in Dundee 🌿

[18.06.26]

It’s safe to say that Dundee is becoming one of my favourite places to visit when it comes to food and drink. Every time we visit, it feels like there’s somewhere new to discover, which definitely gives me more incentive to keep coming back.

This trip was originally meant for baby-related shopping, but naturally we had to fit brunch into the plans.

We stopped by The Bach Bistro, a New Zealand-inspired café and bistro, and honestly, I loved the vibe of the place. The first thing I noticed was all the greenery. It felt cosy , relaxed, and the sort of place you could happily sit in for a few hours.

We visited for brunch and everything was delicious. I went for the smashed avocado on sourdough with halloumi and poached eggs, while Matty opted for the East West fried chicken - fried chicken and waffles topped with a fried egg. Safe to say we both cleaned our plates.

One thing I found really interesting was learning a little more about the New Zealand influence behind the menu. I’m definitely not an expert on New Zealand cuisine, but the owner is from New Zealand, and it was lovely to see those influences woven throughout the food and menu.

The food was great, but for me it was the atmosphere that really stood out. Sometimes a place just gets the balance right between good food and a space you genuinely enjoy spending time in, and this felt like one of those places.

So if you find yourself in Dundee, whether you’re there for the day or staying a little longer, I’d definitely recommend stopping by.
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06/06/2026

A building I’ve wanted to visit for years 🤎

[06.06.26]

I finally made it to Tarlair Swimming Pool , and honestly, it was every bit as fascinating as I’d hoped it would be.

Most people on here probably don’t know that I studied architecture (and still work within the profession), but I don’t tend to talk about that side of my life very often. What I do talk about, though, is places that make me stop, look, and wonder. And Tarlair Swimming Pool definitely did that.

I’ve wanted to visit for years, even before the café opened. There’s something about historic buildings that completely captivates me. The stories they hold, the lives they’ve seen, the way architecture reflects a particular moment in time. Getting to experience this Art Deco gem in person and imagine what it must have been like in its heyday was genuinely fascinating.

The location itself is stunning. I could have happily sat there for hours just taking it all in and being completely snappy happy with my camera.

What makes it even more exciting is knowing there are plans to bring the swimming pool back into use. Just imagining the space full of life again - children learning to swim, families spending time together, people enjoying the sea pool as it was originally intended - feels really special. It’s the kind of restoration project that reminds you why preserving historic spaces matters.

It was also lovely to share the visit with .lives . One of the unexpected joys of social media is meeting people you might never have crossed paths with otherwise and getting to experience places like this together.

As someone who grew up in Moray, it’s slightly embarrassing how much of the north-east I still haven’t explored. I’d hoped to spend more time discovering places like this this year, but life had other plans. Hopefully there’ll be plenty of opportunities in the years ahead.

Until then, Tarlair will definitely stay high on my list of favourite discoveries.
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