08/04/2025
The audacity 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 man actually in awe of how much some feel that how they are perceived by most is so important to their ego that it doesnt matter how far from the truth what they portray actually is!! They will trample anyone, tell lie after lie after lie to everyone and anyone, and seemingly themselves too as otherwise I cant get my head around why anyone would value their perception, over their character!!!?? As perception is how you want to be seen and choose what to share publicly to achieve that!! Your character is who you are with no editing or "masked" version! I know what is more important to me!! I know what I show is who I really am!! No MASK!!!
To the Mom Who Left a Toxic Relationship for Her Child and Herself.
I know you didn’t leave easily. You didn’t wake up one day and decide to shatter the life you built.
You stayed far longer than you should have, hoping things would get better. Not for yourself—but for your child.
For the family you wanted so badly to hold together.
You gave chances.
You made excuses.
You kept the peace, even when it cost you your own.
You tolerated manipulation dressed as love. You endured words that left bruises you couldn’t show. You minimized the chaos, thinking if you just tried harder, things might finally settle.
But one day, you looked at your child and realized this isn’t the love I want them to grow up learning. This isn’t the home I want them to believe is normal. This isn’t the life I want to keep surviving.
So you left.
Maybe with shaking hands. Maybe with guilt. Maybe with nothing but a bag and a broken heart. But you left.
And that took more strength than anyone will ever understand. You chose generational healing over generational patterns.
You chose silence over screaming.
Peace over pretending. Freedom over fear.
And yes, it’s hard. There are nights you question everything. There are moments where the loneliness is louder than the old chaos ever was. But You didn’t fail. You saved someone.
You saved your child from thinking love feels like walking on eggshells. You saved yourself from a lifetime of shrinking just to keep someone else comfortable.
You are not a broken family. You are a brave one. A free one. A healing one.
So even when doubt creeps in, and you miss the “what could’ve been” remember:
You did the hardest, bravest thing a mother can do. You chose to break the cycle,
so your child never has to survive what you did. And is the beginning of something beautiful.
✍️credit to the rightful author
🎨credit to the artist via Pinterest
