02/01/2026
Hello, my little boy of 4 years was playing with my wife’s handbag when a dilldo fell out of it.
I was really shocked when I saw it. She quickly rushed to pick it up and put it back into the bag, thinking I hadn’t noticed.
Later that night, I decided to check the bag and take it out so I could confront her, but it wasn’t there. I searched everywhere until I eventually found it hidden behind the sink in the kitchen—probably the last place she thought I would look.
When I confronted her about it, she got angry and said I shouldn’t have gone looking for it. Later, she explained that she had hidden it there because of our son.
I asked why she had it in the first place, and she claimed it wasn’t hers, but that it belonged to a friend who had forgotten it with her. Honestly, why would a friend forget such a thing with you? Nobody wants to be caught using that, so I asked, “Does this mean this is what you and your friend do?”
She got upset again, saying I was accusing her of using something she had never even thought about using. I then asked her to call the friend immediately so I could hear from her directly, but instead she locked herself in another room.
The next day, she told me she had returned it to her friend and didn’t want to revisit the issue.
But here’s my problem: before I ever saw that thing, she frequently declined me sezz. I’ve tried several times to get us to talk about it, asking if anything is wrong so I can work on myself, but she always says she’s fine—and she’s still saying the same thing now.
I’m convinced that dilldo was hers, but she gets angry whenever I bring it up. What’s the best way for me to move on from this? Because right now, I feel she prefers that d***o over me. And to be honest, the d***o was almost twice my size. Could it be that I’m small and she just doesn’t want to admit it? Someone please advise me, because I’m really struggling to either let this go or pretend it’s not eating me up.
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