08/09/2025
💌Why Prompts to those not streetwise cheaters!
💌The same thing I told a cheater why cheating with a tribe you claimed you cannot marry and the religion denomination of the said sidechic?
💌Why not go to your village if you really wanted 2nd wife?
💌Exactly, what would happen to cheater that upgrade a sidechic to wife instead of finding wife in their village😎
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"Eni awí fún Ọba jẹ́ ọ́ gbọ́, eni sọ̀rọ̀ fún Ọba jẹ́ ọ́ gbà.
This is why we tell you that you MUST look beyond the LUST OR WHATEVER you have for women and check her family first and, in the case of inter-ethnic marriage, her TRIBE.
You need to even check her SPIRITUALITY too.
YOU MUST CHECK THESE THINGS BECAUSE MARRIAGE IS BEYOND JUST YOU AND YOUR WIFE.
When it involves different ethnicities, the MARRIAGE is then beyond you, your wife and your entire family.
IT HAS INVOLVED YOUR WHOLE TRIBE SO YOU MUST BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL IF MUST GO INTO IT.
A man can survive with an unruly and badly behaved wife if the IN-LAWS are good people but when you marry even an Angel from the family of devils or when the person you married is Devil from Devil's family you are a dead man walking!!!!
In the time of our fathers, men took their wives from their VILLAGES or villages nearest to theirs and not just their tribes. They were wiser than us and it is the reason marriages in their time were more stable and divorces much rarer.
This man Bamidele Akingboye was an Ìkálè man from Okitipupa. His first wife Biola Adegboye was Ìkálè from Okitipupa.
They were CHILDHOOD LOVERS.
Childhood lovers from the same tribe and town. What else should a normal man pray for in his life?
But our Elders say when a man is overfed he will soon be stupid to look for another man who knows how to cut stomach to rip it open.
If this man was going to marry a second wife, he didn't get one in Ìkálè, Ìlàjẹ, Ondo, Idanre, Ọ̀wọ̀, Akoko and all those Ondo towns where they have similar cultures. He didn't go to nearby Ekiti. Osun, Oyo, Egba and even the Aworis who are riverine too. He didn't go there.
Because of the affliction on ONDO MEN, he had to find an IBO WIFE
He got Anyanwu.
The first thing she did was to drive away his CHILDHOOD.LOVE, Biola. I understand he did that 24 years ago. How old was the man 24 years ago? He was just 36 so Biola must have been less than 36."
© Adedamola Adetayo
07 September 2025
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