21/08/2026
Calebās trip to the Job Centre
This morning Caleb was asked to attend our local job centre to speak to an advisor about work opportunities etc
We tried to get an appointment online so Caleb didnāt have to go but that option wasnāt available.
We asked for a quiet room. The staff member was kind and tried to accommodate and in no way is any of this a fault of the staff. The staff member did what they could and quickly realised Caleb wasnāt going to speak as he was rocking in the chair š„ŗ Iām making it clear I am not blaming the staff they were only doing their job.
Howeverā¦it is the fault of a broken disjointed system. I have to ask is this really necessary? A young person predominantly non verbal who cannot answer questions, who has no mental capacity, who has recently received a Learning Disability diagnosis. Along with having to request a FIT note from our GP before this appointment was madeā¦.is this the best use of time and money?
The government say thereās no money.
I say youāre not spending it wisely.
What a waste of a GPs time and the staff at the job centre. Not to mention the humiliation of my son being marched into a facility to tick a box. It just doesnāt make sense to me at all.
I know others who have had to do this itās not just us. If we had a centralised system where a young person is recorded and a care plan that was underpinned by laws that offer a process. Surely this would remove half of the unnecessary and stressful meetings our young people are expected to attend!
We understand as carers we need to provide evidence but is this really the best way?
What about Calebās choice?
What about the anxiety and stress this causes?
Itās constant for families the relentless paperwork, assessments and meetings.
The sad part is Caleb and many others donāt have a choice.
Departments are not joint up which means our young peopleās lives are not either.
I am sad and a bit angry. Caleb went along said absolutely nothing and left wondering what was happening. Anxious about walking into somewhere unknown where once again his wee life is in the hands of strangers.
Tell me Gordon Lyons MLA is this the best system for the most complex young people with disabilities? Communities NI
Next step we need to now do a working capacity assessment to prove Calebās disability is lifelong and long term š itās never ending!
Iām at a loss. Our government wonders why we fight so hard, well this is why because we believe our young people, adults and elderly matter. Question to our leadersā¦do you?