26/08/2025
Perception is Reality
When I first stepped into the world of catering, I was not the most experienced, nor did I have the fanciest equipment or the most sophisticated menu. What I had was passion, a willing heart, and the determination to serve food that told a story.
In those early days, people’s perception of me often became my biggest challenge. Some looked at me and saw “just another beginner,” a small player in an industry filled with established names and glamorous setups. Others judged my ability by the simplicity of my tools, or the modesty of my presentation. At times, their doubts echoed louder than my confidence.
But I quickly learned a powerful truth
"perception is reality" How people saw me wasn’t always about who I truly was—it was about the image I presented, the confidence I carried, and the excellence I consistently delivered. If I wanted to be seen as professional, I had to act, speak, and show up like one, even when I was still finding my feet.
So I paid attention to details—how my meals were plated, how my staff dressed, how my service felt from start to finish.
I practiced introducing myself not just as someone “trying” catering, but as a caterer who had something valuable to offer. With each event I took on, I made sure my food spoke louder than any doubts, my service shined brighter than any limitations, and my presence carried the dignity of someone destined for greatness.
Slowly, the perception changed. Guests began to speak about me with respect. Clients returned with referrals. What once seemed like a fragile dream started becoming a strong reality.
Looking back, I realize that success wasn’t just about what I cooked in the kitchen—it was about what I cooked in people’s minds. By shaping how they perceived me, I shaped my reality.
And that is the lesson I carry till today: in business and in life, perception often becomes the foundation upon which reality is built.
Your journey may be small today, but the way you present yourself can transform everything. Believe in your vision, carry yourself with confidence, and let excellence speak louder than doubt.
Start shaping the reality you desire — because how people perceive you can become the foundation of your success.
