Vera Aji, Brighton and Hove (2026)

26/07/2026

Living well is also a form of gratitude..

And creating options for yourself changes the way you experience life.

26/05/2026

For a long time, I felt like wanting more freedom, more flexibility, and a softer life meant I wasn’t appreciative enough of where I am.

But both can exist.

You can be grateful and still want growth.

You can love what you do and still build beyond the shifts. ✨

A lot of carers and immigrants will understand this feeling deeply.

- The long shifts.

- The exhaustion.

- Wanting more time for yourself and your children.

- Wanting extra income without constantly sacrificing your health and peace.

And the truth is… there are other ways to create more options for yourself today.
Sometimes all it takes is your phone, internet, willingness to learn, and consistency.

That’s exactly why I started learning new digital skills and quietly building something alongside my job.

Not to escape work… but to create more freedom, flexibility, and choices for my future. 🤍

If this resonates, message me “MORE”. ✨

25/05/2026

Wulililililililili 🔥🔥🔥
So happy and proud to celebrate my incredible Coach Arlette for reaching another massive milestone in this online business journey! 🎉👏🏾

Watching her growth continues to inspire so many of us. Proof that consistency, faith, hard work, and refusing to give up can truly change someone’s life. 🙏🏾❤️

From humble beginnings to creating extraordinary results… such a beautiful journey to witness.
One thing I’m personally grateful for is being in environments that stretch my mindset and remind me that bigger things are possible. ✨
Congratulations once again Coach Arlette! Your story continues to inspire many of us to dream bigger and believe in ourselves more. 🤍
If you’re curious about the kind of business and mentorship I’m learning from, you can watch the free workshop on:

www.ajisdigital.com

19/05/2026

Big congratulations to an amazing woman who decided to step into something new with zero experience but a willingness to learn, stay consistent, and trust the process.

Just 14 months later, she has unlocked a new milestone in her business journey and is now earning monthly incentives/bonuses. 🤍

A reminder that one decision, consistency, and the right guidance can truly change someone’s life.

So proud of you Coach Vi 💐

✨ Everyone starts somewhere.

17/05/2026

𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗰𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁…
𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗹𝘀𝗼 𝗮𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗼𝗺 🤍

As a carer, I understand exhaustion in a way many people may never fully understand.

As carers, we are so used to checking on everyone else that we rarely stop to ask ourselves:

“How am I actually doing?”

And unless you’ve worked in care before, it’s hard to explain the level of exhaustion that can come with constantly pouring into other people while quietly neglecting yourself.

- The long hours standing.
- The back pain.
- The swollen feet after shifts.
- The emotional stress.
- Being physically tired but still forcing yourself to keep going because responsibilities do not stop.

The truth is, caring for people can slowly make you neglect yourself without even realising it.

And burnout does not always look dramatic.
Sometimes burnout looks like:

• Constant tiredness
• Irritation over small things
• Emotional numbness
• Body pain you keep ignoring
• Smiling outside while quietly feeling drained inside
• Resting physically but still feeling mentally exhausted

And honestly… I reached a point in my life where I got so tired, and that was when I knew I wanted more balance for my life.

Not because I hated my job as a carer.

I genuinely love what I do and will always respect this profession deeply.

But I realised I wanted more freedom too. • More peace
• More flexibility
• More options for my future

Because self care is deeper than just sleep and rest.

That mindset shift changed everything for me.

• I started learning new skills
• I started my online business
• I became part of an amazing community filled with people who saw life differently, people who were hungry for growth, change, and a better life

And slowly, I started learning, applying the knowledge, and following the step-by-step process… and over time, that became my reality.

It helped me start creating more options and more time freedom for myself beyond the shifts.

Sometimes self care is also:
• Sleeping properly
• Taking your annual leave seriously
• Taking care of your feet and body after long shifts
• Protecting your mental health
• Going outside and meeting people
• Learning new skills
• Creating more options for yourself beyond survival mode

Sometimes growth only happens when we dare to stretch ourselves beyond what feels familiar.

And that’s also why I’m passionate about helping carers, nurses, and immigrants who feel stuck in survival mode realise that they can create more balance, freedom, and options for themselves too

Because deep down, many of us are not just tired…

We are tired of living life only around shifts.

For every carer, nurse, or immigrant silently trying to hold everything together… I see you.

Just know you are not alone 🤍

✨️ Beyond the Shift 🤍

14/05/2026

𝗕𝗲𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱 𝗮 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 🤍

A lot of carers, nurses silently carry so much responsibility.
Long shifts. Bills. Family responsibilities. Exhaustion. Trying to survive abroad while still showing up every day with compassion and strength.

And honestly… I understand that life deeply because I live it too.
There was a point where life became just work, sleep, repeat.

Somewhere along the way, I slowly forgot about myself too. I lost confidence in myself, stopped truly enjoying life, and became so used to surviving that I forgot what it felt like to actually live.

But one thing I’ve learnt is: you can genuinely love your job and still desire more freedom, flexibility, growth, and options for your life.

That’s part of why I became passionate about creating conversations and opportunities beyond endless shifts.

Because life should not only be about surviving… it should also be about living ✨

And if you’re currently in that season where life feels like nothing but work, bills, and survival… I just want you to know there is another way.

13/05/2026

𝗧𝗢 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬 𝗖𝗔𝗥𝗘𝗥 𝗧𝗜𝗥𝗘𝗗 𝗢𝗙 𝗥𝗘𝗟𝗬𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗢𝗡𝗟𝗬 𝗢𝗡 𝗘𝗫𝗧𝗥𝗔 𝗦𝗛𝗜𝗙𝗧𝗦🤍

A side hustle could be the decision that changes your life.

Not another stressful job…
but creating another stream of income that fits around your schedule.

You can love care work and still desire:
✨ more time freedom for yourself
✨ more income
✨ more flexibility for your future
✨ the ability to enjoy life outside work

That’s one of the reasons I started my online business quietly alongside my care job.

One thing I appreciate about my side hustle is the flexibility and time freedom it has added to my life outside shifts 🤍

Because life shouldn’t only be about surviving shifts.

If you’ve been thinking about starting a side hustle or creating another stream of income around your schedule, send me a DM

13/05/2026

If it's free,
You are the PRICE..

11/05/2026

𝗜𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗺𝗲, 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀: 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗷𝘂𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲’𝘀 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆

From my last two posts, I’ve had some people messaging me asking if I’m okay.

And honestly… yes, I’m okay, thank you all for asking

Those posts were simply me speaking about realities many people quietly go through but rarely talk about openly.
When I left Cameroon, the only things I truly had were faith, hope, and God.

No certainty. No guarantees. Just prayers and the belief that somehow life would make sense again one day.

There were seasons I felt confused, and simply trying to survive quietly while still smiling in front of people.

But one thing I refused to do was stay stuck in my situation.
I kept working. I kept praying. I kept showing up.

And one thing I will always say: whatever work you do in this life, do it with all your heart.

Whether people notice you or not. Whether somebody is supervising you or not.

Do it well anyway.

Because looking back now, I realise some of my greatest blessings came from seasons where I simply stayed humble, worked hard quietly, remained patient, and trusted God completely.

After about a year of struggling, settling in, and wanting more for myself and my family… I eventually came across this online business
I keep talking about today.

And honestly? Taking that leap of faith scared me too.
I did not know if it would work, but deep down, I knew I could not allow fear to keep me stuck forever.

So I took the risk. I started learning. I started growing. And slowly… my life, mindset, and confidence started changing too.

That is why I always encourage people: sometimes your next level in life is hidden behind the very thing you are afraid to try.

And please… be kind to people without a motive. Do not envy people’s journeys.

Because you never truly know what someone had to survive privately before becoming the version of themselves you see today.

I’m not where I want to be yet, but God has been faithful and I am so grateful to my journey and how far He has brought me
I'm still growing. Still learning. Still trusting my own process… slowly but surely 🤍

09/05/2026

𝗠𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗯𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗱 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘃𝘂𝗹𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗰𝗲𝘀.

One day after coming back from a 12-hour shift, I was tired and decided to scroll through TikTok for a while.

Then I came across this video… and honestly, something about the message really spoke to me.
So I couldn’t help but share it.

One thing I realised after moving abroad is how easy it is to become influenced by your environment without even noticing it.

When you move to a new country, everything feels unfamiliar at first.

New environment.
New people.
New system.
New way of living.

And honestly, sometimes it can feel a little lonely too because you’re still trying to adjust and find your place again.

And during that period, everybody suddenly has advice for you.

Which honestly is not always a bad thing.

Some advice genuinely comes from love.
Some from concern.
Some from people’s own experiences and perspectives about life abroad.

And honestly, I’m grateful for the guidance and support my older sister Sheila - Nurse Career Coach and her husband gave me during different stages of my journey abroad.

If you’re new to care or nursing abroad, you can also connect with her page for guidance....

But somewhere along the way, I also realised something very important:

Not every opinion should become your reality.

That message made me start thinking differently about mindset, environment and association.

Because the people around you will eventually influence the way you think, dream and move in life.

If everybody around you only speaks about survival, struggle and limitation… after a while, you may start shrinking your own vision too.

But when you start listening to conversations that inspire growth, possibilities and thinking differently… something in you starts changing quietly too.

And honestly, I think that season was the beginning of my mindset slowly shifting.

Sometimes growth starts with changing your environment before anything else changes physically.

Vera Aji

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