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November has been spicy in a way I did not order.I’m relived to see the back of Mercury retrograde 🪐I’m very much in my ...
30/11/2025

November has been spicy in a way I did not order.

I’m relived to see the back of Mercury retrograde 🪐

I’m very much in my self-care era at the minute. It’s been hectic, emotional, a bit of everything all at once… but I’m accepting it. And for the first time in a long time, I feel like I’m actually living my truth. It’s like I’ve been reborn — not in a dramatic way, just in that quiet ā€œoh, there I amā€ kind of way.

It hasn’t been easy, and it’s definitely not a quick fix, but I’m really enjoying finding myself again. I’ve spent far too long giving too much of myself to people who didn’t deserve it, so actually putting myself first and setting boundaries, I’m proud of that. And I’m genuinely happy for me.

May this energy carry on. ✨


Healing 🄳
26/11/2025

Healing 🄳

POV: Honestly, I blinked and suddenly we’ve teleported straight back into the weekly Hunger Games, and all I have to sho...
24/11/2025

POV: Honestly, I blinked and suddenly we’ve teleported straight back into the weekly Hunger Games, and all I have to show for it are three extremely questionable photos I found in my camera roll this morning, none of which explain anything about my life choices.

Meanwhile, Christmas shopping has officially entered its villain era. Every shop is packed, every person is moving at the speed of trauma, and I’m here wandering around like, ā€œDo I buy gifts? Do ? Do I lie down on the floor of TK Maxx and accept my fate?ā€ Because it’s giving festive chaos, but with a credit card.

BUT listen—if Monday is going to be feral, then so am I.
Today’s plan: drink water (or coffee, let’s be real), spend money I definitely shouldn’t, take blurry photos like it’s a personality trait, and practice a little bit of self-love by reminding myself that I’m doing amazing for a gayer who woke up confused, mildly offended, and already tired.

Happy Monday, bab. We’ve got this… kind of.

20/11/2025

My drinking and TikTok Shop addiction needs to stop. I hit ā€˜Buy Now’ so fast I accidentally bought a pineapple cutter and I don’t even like pineapple. I’m one bad decision away from owning a medieval sword, a pasta maker, and a live goat named Sharon.

Happy International Men’s Day to the men doing their best, rebuilding themselves, and learning to show up with honesty a...
19/11/2025

Happy International Men’s Day to the men doing their best, rebuilding themselves, and learning to show up with honesty and presence.
To those breaking cycles, healing old wounds, and redefining what strength looks like, your softness matters, your voice matters, and your presence makes a difference.

Walked into the charity shop today expecting the usual chaos, but HELLO?? I was not prepared. First thing I clock is a c...
17/11/2025

Walked into the charity shop today expecting the usual chaos, but HELLO?? I was not prepared. First thing I clock is a candle that literally says ā€œWHEN THIS CANDLE IS LIT GIVE ME THAT D*CK.ā€ Next to a basket of crocheted coasters. I screamed, Maureen from beyond the grave would NOT approve.

Then I wander over to the ā€œdesignerā€ section, they’re selling a tatty old Boss T-shirt for Ā£25. For something that looks like it survived a house fire and then a divorce. Be serious. Would you pay Ā£25 for this?

Next aisle: ornament corner, my spiritual home. And honestly? The tat was tatting. On another plane of existence. But there was this one tiny girl ornament I actually liked, so obviously I’m now adopting her and she’ll be coming with me on all future adventures. Sorry to the others; you were too haunted.

And finally—THE TEAPOT. From Jobcentre Plus. Why does this exist? Who made this decision? Let’s pour the tea and discuss unemployment benefits, I guess.

Left the shop cackling, confused, and spiritually fulfilled. Charity shops remain the UK’s greatest source of unhinged joy.

15/11/2025

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I just wanted something sparkly for the tree. A little glitter, a little joy, maybe a hint of ā€œthis person has their lif...
13/11/2025

I just wanted something sparkly for the tree. A little glitter, a little joy, maybe a hint of ā€œthis person has their life together,ā€ you know? Instead, I find myself in a shop where a single bauble costs forty quid. For one tiny sphere of sadness and shame. The shop lady goes, ā€œIt’s artisan glass.ā€ Babe, it’s transparent robbery. Unless it comes with a small man called Claus to hang it up for me and whisper compliments all December, I’m not paying that.

Like, I’m sorry, why does festive joy now come with Klarna payments?

Merry Cost-of-Living-mas, everyone. šŸŽ„āœØ

True šŸ˜‚
04/11/2025

True šŸ˜‚

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