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Alex Harper, Bolingbroke Road, Coventry (2026)

03/01/2026

Having kids just to dump them on your parents every weekend is wild to me.
Some of y’all wanted the title of “mom” or “dad” but not the responsibility. At some point, you should want better for your kids than being raised by tired grandparents while you’re outside.

02/01/2026

Can you still get pregnant from backdoor s*x or nah¿🤔

01/01/2026

My baby daddy came back the moment he saw I wasn’t waiting anymore.
Not when I was struggling.
Not when I was overwhelmed.
Not when I was drowning.
But when I stopped explaining myself.
When I stopped calling.
When I stopped asking.
When I started moving different.
That’s when he came back.
Suddenly he worried about who around the kids.
Suddenly he concerned about my dating life.
Suddenly he wants to “talk about us.”
Funny how he wasn’t this invested when he left.
He says, “I don’t want another man raising my kids.”
“I see you happy, that hurts.”
“I want my family back.”
But where was this energy when I was doing it alone?
Some men don’t return because they want to fix things.
They return because they see they no longer control the narrative.
They don’t like seeing you strong without them.
They don’t like seeing you loved properly.
They don’t like realizing you figured it out.
And the wildest part?
When they come back, they expect access
without repair.
No accountability.
No plan.
No consistency.
Just jealousy and entitlement.
And that’s when I understood
that not every comeback deserves a second chance.

01/01/2026

11 months to 2027!!

What have you achieved¿

01/01/2026

My 2026 goal:

12 periods.

31/12/2025

Last tax season, my baby daddy suddenly remembered he had a child.
Not when school started.
Not when daycare was due.
Not when the doctor bills came.
No.
January.
Out of nowhere, he started checking in. Asking how the baby was doing. Being extra friendly. Calling more than usual. I already knew what time it was. Then one day he finally said it.
“So what we doing about taxes this year?”
I asked him a simple question.
“What did you pay for last year?”
Silence.
No daycare.
No school clothes.
No medical bills.
No groceries.
But he felt entitled to the refund.
When I told him I was claiming the baby, he got mad.
Started saying I was bitter.
Started saying I was using the baby against him.
Started saying he’d take me to court.
Court… over a refund.
But never court to be consistent.
Never court to set real child support.
Never court to be present.
That’s when it hit me.
Some men don’t want to be fathers. They want benefits.
They want the title when money is involved.
They want the credit without the work.
They want the refund without the responsibility.
And the wildest part?
He told people I was “keeping him from his child”.
No sir.
I’m just not letting you profit off a child you barely helped raise.
If you were absent for eleven months,
don’t show up in January acting confused.
Parenting isn’t seasonal.
And children are not tax write-offs.

30/12/2025

I used to be angry at my baby daddy.
Angry at the excuses.
Angry at the inconsistency.
Angry at always being the only one showing up.
Then one day something shifted. I wasn’t mad anymore. I just stopped expecting him.
I stopped waiting on calls.
Stopped hoping he’d help without being asked.
Stopped believing his “I’m trying.”
And that’s when it really hurt.
Because anger still has hope attached to it.
Silence doesn’t.
I realized I had been grieving someone who was still alive.
Not dead.
Not sick.
Just choosing not to show up.
I love my child with everything in me.
But loving my child doesn’t erase the exhaustion of doing it alone.
It doesn’t cancel out the disappointment.
It doesn’t make absence easier to swallow.
People tell single mothers to be strong like strength was the goal.
Strength was never the goal. Support was.
And the hardest part is nobody talks about how quiet it gets
when you finally accept that you’re doing this alone.
No more arguments.
No more begging.
Just responsibility and reality.

29/12/2025

Cops finds missing teen’s body
in soldier’s bedroom
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29/12/2025

My baby daddy don’t miss a chance to say “I’m taking you to court.”
But peep this.
He don’t wanna take me to court to be a better dad.
He wanna take me to court because he mad he can’t control me anymore.
When we were together, he was “too tired” to help.
When I needed diapers, he was “broke.”
When the baby cried at night, he would roll over like he ain’t hear nothing.
But the SECOND I got my peace back?
Now he wanna be Father of the Year.
And it’s always the same pattern
They don’t want more time with the kid.
They want more access to YOU.
So let me ask y’all something for real.
Why do some men only get passionate about “being a father” when the mom stops letting them stress her¿

28/12/2025

To be honest, I feel like everything that happened this year needed to happen.
It taught me that not everybody is for me, to set boundaries, to stop oversharing, & stop overplaying my part.
This year didn't break me, it made me.

27/12/2025

My baby daddy only shows up when it’s time to LOOK like a dad.
He can go weeks without checking on our child. No diapers. No “you good?” No “what he need?” Just ghost.
But the second his new girlfriend posts one of them “bonus kid” captions, here he come. All of a sudden it’s:
“Send me a pic.”
“Tell him daddy said hey.”
“What size he wearing?”
“What time he go to sleep?”
Not because he miss his child.Because he miss his IMAGE.He don’t want to co parent, he want content. He don’t want to raise a kid, he want a highlight reel.
He’ll ignore every real need, then pop up on a random Sunday talking about, “I’m pulling up to see my son.”
And when he gets here, he don’t play, he don’t help, he don’t ask what the routine is.
He takes selfies.
He’ll hold him for 7 minutes, record a video like he Father of the Year, then disappear again until the next time somebody asks him, “So you got kids?”
And it be the girlfriend too wanting to post my baby like a trophy.
Putting little heart emojis over his face like she bought him from Target.
Meanwhile I’m the one up at 3AM with fevers, school forms, tears, bills, and a child asking why daddy don’t come around.
So yeah, I stopped sending pictures.
If you want updates, you can send support.
If you want memories, you can make them in real life.
If you want a relationship with your child, you can build it without needing an audience.
Because my child is not your proof of “growth.”
My child is not your social media rebrand.
He’s a human being.
And I’m done letting y’all use him to look good while I do all the hard parts alone.

27/12/2025

Cutting people off isn't always about hate or jealousy!
Sometimes it's just a difference in mindsets. Some people lack loyalty,some are users,some drain your energy, and some are just two - faced. Not everyone wants to be around that.💁🏻

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