Illuminating Loss

Illuminating Loss “Honoring loss, illuminating the way through grief and life’s losses.”

28/11/2024
Grief and LossThere are so many different types of loss. Believe it or not, there are 16 different types. Many of which ...
27/11/2024

Grief and Loss

There are so many different types of loss. Believe it or not, there are 16 different types. Many of which I have experienced.

This photo was the last Christmas that Rhiannon could see (she lost her sight shortly after this). This is the last year that I truly enjoyed the joy of Christmas.

This time of year is extremely difficult when it comes to remembering our loved ones who are no longer with us.

With gratitude I hold on to, that cannot be taken from, my memories. I remember this day like it was yesterday.

Rhiannon experienced what is called chronic loss. Every day, she faced loss and smiled in spite of it.

What a teacher I had!

Her middle name should have been 'resilience'. I had never seen a child who could fall flat on her face 100 times a day and get up and laugh in the face of it.
The suffering that we experience when we are grieving is excruciating at times. However, it doesn't have to stop you.
Fall down 7 stand up 8....a wee quote that I have had on my fridge for the past 5 years. That's all you have to remember, grief and loss can bring us to our knees, but all you have to do is get up one more time than you fall down.
I'm so excited to bring my new plans to you all in the new year to speak about facing adversity and living with grief and loss as a result.
For now, I will leave you all with this beautiful 😍 photo of my warrior princess, my teacher, my mentor, my purpose, my joy, my reason for existing Miss Rhiannon Bates. 😇🙏💪♥️

This is for anyone living with any type of chronic physical/emotional/mental pain. This book is a must read. It's a Chri...
26/11/2024

This is for anyone living with any type of chronic physical/emotional/mental pain. This book is a must read. It's a Christian book but anyone could read it and take a massive amount away from it. It has been a life saver for me at times 💪♥️🙏xx

Amen to that 🙏 🙌 ❤️
10/10/2024

Amen to that 🙏 🙌 ❤️

04/08/2024

04/08/2024

Here is a truth you often don’t hear: Traumatized women have the potential to become the most powerful people in this world.

The most ignorant members of society call this type of woman “damaged.” But she is the most powerful type of woman there is.

What they forget is that survivors have the most dangerous advantage of all: resilience.

When you try and you try but you can never bring a woman down, you’ll know there is no going back.

Don’t fool yourself. You could never defeat her. You never will.

This is the woman who will always rise from the dead; Lady Lazarus, after going through hell and back.

This is the woman who has burned her feet in the flames time and time again and always lives to tell another tale – even if she has to crawl back to life. . . .

When someone tells her, “You can’t do it,” she says, “Watch me.”

She is fiery light birthed out of wintery darkness. Brought into the underworld by Hades, Persephone brings forth spring and rebirth when she reemerges finally from the cold.

She owns her shadows and seamlessly weaves them into the fabric of her freedom, creativity, imagination and independence. . . .

She lived all of her nightmares in high definition. She was given every reason to give up, handed every justification to never believe in herself or anyone.

But there is raw magic in the ways in which she cultivates a faith in herself, to manifest the dreams her soul was meant to bring forth.

Despite it all, she still conquers.

She still survives and thrives.

The “damaged” woman is capable of immense manifestation not just in spite of, but because of the traumas she has gone through.

There is no one more motivated than a woman who has constantly been told what she cannot do or who she cannot be throughout her lifetime.

There is no one more determined to succeed than someone who has nothing left to lose.

The “damaged” woman doesn’t sign up for the hardships of her journey – but she plays the hell out of the cards she’s been dealt.

The “damaged” woman is not damaged at all – she is wounded, and in channeling and healing her wounds, she becomes the source of incredible energy, the site of unbelievable potential for abundance and change.

She possesses the power to use her wounds for the greater good and her highest good.

She builds her own success and becomes her own rugged hero; tends to her own scraped knees.
She uses every stone thrown at her to build the foundation for her empire.

Brick by brick she builds – and despite every attempt to tear her walls down, she rescues herself again and again.

Despite it all, this type of survivor may still face hatred, envy, greed from those around her. . . .

As a result, she becomes the survivor of countless witch hunts, the target of many persecutors. Yet when they try to burn her at the stake, she does what comes naturally: she resurrects herself. . . .

Now when she creates, she creates new worlds and transforms and manifests on a level that cannot be recreated by someone who never had to struggle to survive.

When you hear the voice of a powerful survivor and the will of a warrior – there is nothing you can do but to stop and listen.

She is the voice of a million lifetimes lived.

She is the voice of the hopeless and the powerless when the fire is brought back to their eyes. She is the harbinger of the justice that the voiceless have longed to hear and feel and touch.

Regardless of how much you try and how it may seem, you can never truly bring a survivor like this to her knees; she already knows the value her scars bring.

She knows how to fill the cracks between her wounds with gold.

She knows how to transform each bitter word cast upon her into an iron-clad will that will set her and other caged birds free.

You can’t ever defeat a “damaged” woman, because she knows exactly how to save herself.

SHE IS POWERFUL

- Via Ginger Renee

🎨 Steve Hanks

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31/07/2024

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