Kassi Martin Transforming Lives

26/07/2025

Wondering what to give your friend for her birthday?

Give her something she’ll never forget.
NOT a scented candle (full of toxins)
Nor a bottle of wine (to suppress her emotions and deaden her feelings)
Or a bath bomb set she’ll re-gift at Xmas.

No! What she really needs…

Is to feel seen.
Held.
Loved in the places where her mother couldn’t reach.
She needs a safe place to land after all the years she spent being the strong one.

My book is for the woman who aches quietly.
Who’s tired of pretending she’s fine.
Who’s spent years surviving relationships that mirrored her mother’s love — distant, conditional, confusing.

This book is for the woman who’s doing the work.
The one who’s softening, raging, healing.
The one who’s rewriting what love means.

It’s not fluff.
It’s not surface.
It’s fierce tenderness wrapped in raw truth.

Yes it’s brutally honest…
Yes it’s rich in psycho-education…

Give her a birthday gift that meets her in her heart ache.

That says:
“I see you. I love you. You don’t have to carry it all alone anymore.”

A book that feels like a hand in hers.
A mirror.
A sacred place to write, weep, rage, and begin again.

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👑 the all important link 🔥

Tag your friend who needs all this.
Or buy it, wrap it in ribbon, and gift her a piece of herself she thought was lost.

And have YOU gifted it to your self??? ♥️👑♥️🔥🔥🔥

25/07/2025

I always wanted to be a writer as a teen...

but I didn’t have the kind of childhood where that dream was possible ♥️

I spent much of my childhood on hyper-alert, checking out danger on the horizon so not much space in my mind for learning.

I was abused — for 13 years. He’s dead now. I reported him to the police.

I survived.

And somewhere deep in that mess — beneath the silence, the shame, the shattered innocence — there was still this small, fierce voice inside me whispering: “Don't give up... keep pushing on” and I did, always.

I went on to educate myself as a young woman. I went to Middlesex Polytechnic - now Middlesex University, then onto St Martins College University - now University of Cumbria.

Completed 9 years of Psychotherapy Training and went on to blog and create Planet Kas, whilst clocking up 27 years as a Counsellor, Psychotherapist and Transformative Coach. When I reached 23,000 hours of Practice, I stopped counting.

This is my 'middle finger' to all that went before!

As a woman, with raw edges and wild courage, I kept going... Through pain and healing. Through horses, art, and years of walking beside others as they healed too.

And finally, I published a book.

I felt an array of emotions from excited to terrified...
and this week… I received a review from a woman I don’t know in USA on Amazon: here's a clip from her review

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “The most honest and powerful work you’ll ever read. I wish we all grew up knowing this information. This book discusses ‘old-fashioned’ ways of thinking (continually passed down through generations) that limit women’s feelings of worth and keeps them stuck in unfulfilling and/or abusive situations. It assures you that you are meant to be yourself and live a life you love…

Kas Martin’s writing is powerful and intensive. Her style is perfect for presenting these difficult topics in a loving, understanding, supportive, and empowering way.

This book contains acknowledgment and assurance that you CAN start living the life you want and deserve.”

Thank you Kayla - I really appreciate hearing your feedback ❤

I sort of stared in amazement, because somewhere out there, a woman I’ve never met read my words — and found herself inside them. I am so happy!

That’s why I write. Not to be perfect. Not to be polished. But to be real. To tell the truth that heals others.

If you’ve ever felt silenced… If you’ve ever been told to “get over it”... If you’ve ever wanted to live wild and free but felt stuck in the weight of what came before…

This book is for you.
And so is Planet Kas.
And so am I.

With love,
Kas 💜

https://amzn.eu/d/0ymGOzq

24/07/2025

“Hi Kas

Your book arrived today and I can't put it down. I'll be honest, I hesitated because of the title, but I'm so glad I bought it.

It's amazing, and is already touching me in so many different ways!

I particularly like the way you have presented it, in poetic form, which makes your words really jump out at me.

I'll have a look at the companion workbook, too, as I think there will be so much to journal on here!

Anyway, it's wonderful, and thank you! Xx

Jacqui du Rocher”

https://amzn.eu/d/71mtTr2

Hi Jacqui

Thank you so much for pushing past the title of my book! I hear how much you’re loving it! I love that you can’t put it down!!

Thank you for your feedback ♥️👑♥️🔥

please tell all your Women friends 🔥🔥🔥

Kas 🌟

23/07/2025

👑 Why THIS Title? 🔥

Definitely not to make light of women shaving themselves bare.

It’s a scarlet flare fired into the sky of patriarchy.

We’ve been groomed our whole lives. As were our mothers and their mothers…

We were taught to silence our hunger, smile when we wanted to scream, and flatten ourselves into something palatable.

We were taught to keep it neat. Keep it pretty. Keep it small.

Even our p***c hair — something so deeply ours — was colonised by beauty standards and called unclean.

We were taught that to be loved, we must be tidy. Trimmed. Polished. Acceptable.

Perfectly fkg coiffed.

And this is about obedience.

It’s about the unspoken rules that shape us from birth:

Don’t be too loud.
Don’t be too hairy.
Don’t be too much.
Don’t speak about your body.
Don’t speak from your body.
Don’t name what’s been done to your body.

And above all: don’t make other people uncomfortable with your truth.

Well, this book does. Purposely. 🔥

Perfectly Coiffed P***s is a book of poetic-prose, and fiery psychoeducation for women who have been shaped by patriarchy and are finally ready to burn the script.

It’s trauma-informed.
It’s loving, furious and unfiltered.
It holds women who have been shamed, silenced, sexualised, and erased —

and it says:

“You are not here to be pretty or polite. You are here to be free.”

It’s funny. And it’s deadly serious.

The title is a mirror.

It invites you to notice your first reaction — shame, discomfort, laughter, intrigue — and then look deeper.

Who taught you to feel that way?

Who benefits when women keep quiet?

Perfectly Coiffed P***s is a reclamation. Of language. Of body. Of story.

It’s a sacred rebellion.

It is designed to disrupt, crack open, and make you feel what’s been buried.

This is for the woman who’s done being manageable.

For the one who’s holding trauma in her womb and rage in her throat.

For the one who tried to be good, and found herself disappearing.

For the one who’s ready to un-groom her entire existence and come home to the messy, glorious truth of her.

So why the title?

Because I wanted you to stop.

Because I wanted you to feel your conditioning rise up.

Because I wanted to speak the unspoken with so much fire and love that it scorched the shame clean off.

Because if we can’t say p***s out loud, how the fk are we supposed to talk about abuse, violation, disconnection, healing, pleasure, or freedom?

How could you come to my studio and paint your Yoni in a MASSIVE canvas and be held in Love as you share your story in the group.

Because your body was never the problem.
The culture that taught you to hate it was.

And because…
If you can read the words Perfectly Coiffed P***s without flinching, you might just be ready to read the rest of what I have to say.

And I promise you — it will change everything.

AND there’s more coming…

My next book will be available in Autumn 🍂 so you better put your safety belt on because I’m full metal jacket when it comes to Truth-Bombs

Perfectly Coiffed P***s is available from Amazon… https://amzn.eu/d/0Qb1CM5

For EVERY Adult woman 🔥♥️👑♥️🔥

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21/07/2025

You Don’t Need To Be Invited… 👑

A love letter to the woman standing at the edge of her own life — waiting to be chosen, invited, or seen. This tender, rebellious invitation reminds you: you don't need permission to step into your power. You are the invitation. Planet Kas is waiting for you.

19/07/2025

👑 PERFECTLY COIFFED P***S 🔥

“Start with a Match and Set Fire To The Lie”

Do you have a copy of my book yet?

It has nothing to do with coiffing your p***s, that’s for sure!

I received an email from Tracy who told me:

“I went for a quick ten minutes read with your book and 2 hours later the kids came looking for me! 🤩😃 I can’t put it down”

🔥 Thank you Tracy 🔥

It’s available from Amazon in paperback or kindle.

There are 55 pieces in my book - which I believe the majority of women will identify with.

Some of the 55 Pieces include:

The Virginity Myth

You’re Such A Drama Queen

Even When I Was Thin, I Was Fat

The Inherited Gag

Hell-Bent On Misunderstanding You

Whose Body Is A Woman’s Body, Really?

Why Doesn’t She Just Leave Him?!

The Violence Of Being Ignored

“It’s Not My Fu***ng Hoover”

You Can Get Tablets For That

A Woman Called Crazy

What Happened When I Stopped Ironing

No-One Will Die If You Speak Your Truth

Your Messiness Is Your Brilliance

You Were Born Full Of Stars

I Will Not Be Your Dirty Secret Anymore

And MANY more….

I’d love to hear your feedback 👑🔥👑

Please consider buying a copy for another Woman 🔥a friend, relative, or colleague - especially if she can’t understand why she feels like everybody’s punchbag.

👑 Unleashing & Unblocking Women ♥️

PERFECTLY COIFFED P***S by Kassi Martin

Reading from my book… see video below:
Hell-Bent On Misunderstanding You

Kassi Martin reads another piece from Perfectly Coiffed P***s her new book available from AmazonPerfectly Coiffed P***s by Kassi Martin is not a polite book....

17/07/2025

“Good” all your life….? And how has this worked out for us???

I definitely don’t mean “be bad”….

I mean remove the “good” mask and Be Yourself!

Feeling lost after a lifetime of being 'good'? You're not broken—you're awakening. Come home to yourself inside Planet Kas. Reclaim your life, your way.

16/07/2025

👑 Thank you so much Ange Louise Graham for your testimonial about my new book 🔥♥️ much appreciated 👑

***s

14/07/2025

Received a Wonderful review today 👑🔥👑♥️

Much appreciated 🔥

my new book:
Perfectly Coiffed P***s
is available from Amazon

14/07/2025

Find out more
…about what’s coming up next!!!

👑♥️👑🔥🔥🔥

Step inside Planet Kas — a raw, loving space to uncover your inherited story, rewrite your truth, and plant Wild Love Seeds for your becoming. I'm Kas, here to walk with you through the fire and out the other side as the woman you were always meant to be.

13/07/2025

You know what I’ve been told my whole life?
“Kas, you’re way too ahead of your time.”

…And you know what? They never meant it as a compliment. Nope! 😁

It was a way to say no to me.

To say Kas, you’re Too much. Too wild. Too soon. Too raw. Too real.

“Maybe one day, Kas, but the world’s not ready for you yet.”

And here we are — 10, 15 years later, I watch as what I was doing back then starts showing up everywhere, all watered down and packaged so it doesn’t scare the fricking patriarchy running through their veins 🙄🤯

Meanwhile, I’m still here — way ahead of the times — doing it real, gritty, loving, and true.

So …here’s my next delicious offering:

I’m inviting you — yes, YOU ♥️👑♥️ — to come with me and three other brave, glorious, rebellious women in my gorgeous studio and paint your yoni.

Yes… you read that right:

👑 your yoni, 🔥 your sacred, fierce, powerful portal ♥️

This is about reversing patriarchy’s shame, and its grip on your freedom, reclaiming your power, and worshipping your capacity for creativity and production — and I’m not talking about making babies.

I’m talking about making truth 🔥

I’m talking about making beauty ♥️

I’m talking about making raw freedom 👑

Yes! Making a true version of you that changes the f🌟king world because she finally belongs to herself.

It’s one whole day — paint in your hair, tears on your cheeks, wild laughter, tea, cake, deep talks, the whole works.

Beginners to creative therapy and painting most welcome. In fact the less you know the better this works and if you know lots… I’ll invite you to break all the f rules! (You can be a rule breaker and law abiding so please don’t worry!!!)

You’ll leave with your wonderful Yoni painting, proudly displayed, a piece of your true self, and a signed copy of my book: “Perfectly Coiffed P***s” — a potent, loving reminder that your yoni and all of her potential deserves to be seen, loved, and never hidden again along with masses of other juicy learning they’ve kept hidden from you.

Four women only.

£135 each - All materials provided.

Friday 2nd August, 9:30am to 4pm.

In my cosy garden studio, quality materials supplied, masses of loving heart. If it’s warm and you want to paint barefoot in my garden, you can.

Message me to claim YOUR place — come paint your yoni and get way ahead of the times.

Women only… all you have to bring is your open heart, love and willingness to embrace my rich, deep process.

Mums, teachers, nurses, therapists, coaches…

Everything will be provided by me.

Come On!!!! Stop wasting your one precious life!!! You’re going to learn So Much whilst you paint your VJ on a Huge Canvas!!!

You’ll be glitterising and bejewelling your canvas to speak of her magnificence!!!

Be assured - there will be no holding back any more!

Love
♥️ Kas 🌟

13/07/2025

My book is on its travels again 😃🥰♥️👑🔥👑

Today it is in York… about to board a train…

Apparently “Perfectly Coiffed P***s is a great  conversation starter… all that luscious, exciting pinky red and delicious, rich content! ♥️🤩🥰

It’s also been shipped to San Francisco, South America, various locations around the Uk, Peckham (🤣 Del Boy? Kidding!!) …the top of Scotland, the Highlands, Fife, various parts of Cumbria, Newcastle…

Please send me more photos of where Your copy is!! …And a few words about how you’re experiencing my book ♥️🔥♥️

♥️ Much appreciated 🔥👑🔥♥️♥️♥️

Love,
Kas