Kassi Martin Transforming Lives

27/12/2025

Just ONE tiny part of my ENTIRE Library inside Planet Kas for Women.

Includes:
70+ Creative Therapies
Paint The Tree of Your Life
Goddess Unleashed
Honouring Your Yoni
Erotic Thaw
Let Yourself Be Loved
Your Sacred Heart

and starting 1 January:
“YOU CAN COME OUT NOW”

15 Daily Prompts to explore your Inner child all within Planet Kas.

Monthly membership - leave any time.

You can connect and work with me in my group.

You could never be bored or lonely in my beautiful little Planet, Kas 👑♥️👑

Come home to your body, your art, your pleasure, your power. No more hiding. No more waiting. Just you, uncensored and fully alive

23/12/2025

♥️This is for women who learned to survive by moving fast👑

Not because they were broken,
but because they were paying attention.

Women who are intelligent,
perceptive, emotionally literate,
and deeply relational,
and whose bodies learned early
that staying with first reactions
was not safe.

Women who could explain harm, contextualise it,
forgive it,
metabolise it,
yet often felt the truth of it
only later, once they were alone.

Women who were praised for being reasonable, understanding, mature.

Women who were not unaware,
but trained to override themselves
in order to preserve connection.

This is for women
who have done years of
insight-based work and still
sense that something essential
was missed,
not because they failed,
but because speed intervened.

If this is familiar,
nothing is wrong with you.

This piece is not about feeling more.
It is about refusing erasure.

Interrupting Anaesthesia

Anaesthesia is not the absence of feeling.
It is the speed that prevents feeling from forming.

It is the rush past the moment
when the body first registers
that something is not okay.

The jolt.
The tightening.
The recoil.
The breath that catches.

The instant of knowing
that arrives before language.

In many women,
this moment is interrupted
almost immediately.

Explained away.
Contextualised.
Normalised.
Intellectualised.
Turned into information.

This interruption
is not accidental.

It is learned.
It is adaptive.
It is how women have survived
in relationships,
families,
systems,
and cultures
where staying with their
full bodily response
was not safe.

Anaesthesia allows harm
to be spoken without impact.

It is how something that felt wrong
in the body
becomes manageable in the mind.

Violence becomes abstract.
Violation becomes historical.

A woman’s body becomes a concept
rather than a lived reality.

When anaesthesia is active,
words remain
but sensation disappears.

Horror becomes
“that’s just how it was”.

Disgust becomes theory.

Anger becomes opinion.

Shock is erased
before it can be felt.

Gaslighting and coercion
succeed in this exact place.

Not later.
Not gradually.

But in the flash moment
when the body says no
and the system rushes on anyway.

The work is not to force feeling.

The work is not to manufacture
anger or outrage.

The work is not emotional expression.

The work is to protect
the moment before erasure.

Interrupting anaesthesia
means slowing the system
just enough
for the body’s
first response
to be acknowledged.

Not analysed.
Not acted on.
Not explained.

Simply recognised.
Something just happened.

That recognition alone
restores agency.

Shock is not immaturity.
It is a form of intelligence.

Disgust is not exaggeration.
It is a boundary signal.

Horror is not overreaction.
It is the nervous system
recognising violation.

These responses
do not need to be amplified
or resolved.

They need to be allowed to exist
without being rushed into meaning.

Anaesthesia thrives on speed.
Interruption happens through pause.

This pause cannot be forced.
It cannot be demanded.
It cannot be moralised.

It must be safe.

Which is why the capacity
to interrupt anaesthesia
does not come from insight alone.

It comes from relationship.

Many women learned early
that staying with their bodily truth
risked abandonment,
conflict,
or withdrawal.

So the system learned
to override itself
in order to preserve connection.

Later in life,
anger or grief
often arrives after the fact,
once the danger has passed.

But the original moment
has already been lost.

Interrupting anaesthesia
restores that moment.

It allows a woman
to stay internally aligned
even if she does not
confront, explain,
or change
the situation externally.

Internal non-collusion
is already a boundary.

Speed may still be present.
The jolt may still be fast.
The attachment wobble
may still flicker.

What changes
is not pace,
but loyalty.

The woman no longer abandons
what she knows.

This capacity is often learned
through being met by another
long enough
for safety to internalise.

A secure base teaches
the nervous system
that truth does not
equal abandonment.

Over time,
that experience moves inside.

The woman becomes
her own place to land.

Interrupting anaesthesia
is therefore not a technique.

It is a relational
and somatic capacity.

It protects the body
as an authority.

It restores moral feeling
without force.

It prevents violence
from becoming abstract.

It returns women to themselves
at the exact point
where they were trained
to disappear.

This is not about feeling more.

It is about refusing erasure.

And that refusal
changes everything.

Because the woman remains.
Present.
Inside herself.

Love
Kas
👑Planet Kas ♥️

21/12/2025

I am in love with my own little planet kas - rich and full of love, hope, support, care, learning, growing and so much creativity!

Have you taken a look at my beautiful new invitation to explore my planet??? NO???

Well how are you ever going to know what's available to you if you don't even have a peek???

I know, I know... my cheeky, fun, wild, self is here inviting you in... and there's nothing wrong with her.

Who knows... all of YOUR wonderful, exciting Parts of Self will come out to play and connect in my little planet too!?

So come and have a look... AND bear in mind "EROTIC THAW" begins Feb 1st.

And if your inner child is most in need, begin with "YOU CAN COME OUT NOW" my beautiful, gently paced creative therapy process for your Inner Child. We need to build a solid loving relationship with our inner child.

This begins 1st January.

You can do one, both or explore the entire Library inside planet kas... it's all there for you, however you want it, self paced, unstructured or being gently guided within my group.

Did I mention you can leave any time? Belong month-by-month and stay as long as you choose?

The all important L🔥I🔥N🔥K
in c o m m e n t s

16/12/2025

It's COMING.... are you?

There is a moment many women recognise quietly, privately.

It’s not dramatic or loud.
It’s a soft, almost secret noticing.

Something like:
“I’m alive… but I’m not fully here anymore”.

Not dead. Not broken.
Just… braced.

Holding. Containing. Managing.

But somewhere along the way,
your body learned to go quiet.

If you feel numb.
If you freeze when things get intimate.
If your jaw tightens,
your breath shortens,
your pelvis disappears.

Maybe you perform instead of feel.
If you’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t touch.

Please hear this gently.

You were never broken.
Your erotic body was protecting you.

Freeze is not failure.
Numbness is not dysfunction.
Shutdown is not weakness.

They are intelligent, adaptive responses to a world that asked too much, too soon, for too long.

Your body tightened to stop intrusions you couldn’t prevent.

She numbed to survive sensations that felt overwhelming.

She disappeared because compliance was safer than truth.

That wasn’t a flaw.
That was brilliance.

Erotic Thaw™ is not about more s🔥e🔥x.
It’s about more life.

It’s a slow, somatic, 52-day guided journey inside Planet Kas for women who are done with pushing, fixing, performing, and overriding themselves.

One gentle invitation a day.
Nothing to catch up on.
Nothing to prove.
Nothing to share unless you want to.

This is not a course for women who want more to do.

It’s for women who are ready to soften.
To listen.

To let the body come back online in her own time.

Erotic Thaw™ walks with you through everything your body had to do to survive — not to relive it, but to free what froze.

Because your desire didn’t die.
Your pleasure didn’t vanish.
Your erotic aliveness didn’t leave you.

It went underground.
Into the breath.
Into the pelvis.
Into the jaw, belly, thighs, heart.

And it waited.

If something in you is stirring as you read this, that’s not coincidence.

Erotic Thaw™
begins 1 February 2026

This is an invitation.
A doorway.

You don’t have to rush.
Your body already knows her way back.

And you know where I am if you’re curious, or interested and you can find out more here -->https://www.kassimartin.com/et

Love
Kas 🔥👑🔥

16/12/2025

You Don't Have To Set Yourself On Fire
from 55 Truth Bombs for Women: UNF**KWITHABLE by Kassi Martin and read by Athena from athenalovesluna.com

https://youtu.be/U4QzJ9prJbA?si=l7GY7i7kzgIzk22e

Thanks to the wonderful Athena from athenalovesluna.com who has read another Truth Bomb from my book UNF**KWITHABLE by Kassi Martin 55 Truth Bombs for Women....

14/12/2025

and when the s**t hits the fan, even the strongest among us need somewhere safe to land...

For women 40+ who’ve done the inner work and still feel something missing. Why real change happens through being met, not doing it all alone.

13/12/2025

EROTIC THAW™ Begins 1st Feb🔥

A precious space for women whose bodies froze, numbed, tightened or disappeared
not because they failed, but because they adapted.

For women who have lived full lives, achieved, loved, endured, held others, carried responsibility — and somewhere along the way, lost access to their own erotic aliveness.

🔥Erotic Thaw™ is not something you push your way through.

It is not about performing, fixing, forcing, or producing an outcome.

It is a slow, somatic return to the part of you that learned to shut down in order to survive.

If you’d like to hear more, no obligation, you know where I am 👑♥️👑 or take a look here https://www.kassimartin.com/et

Love,
Kas 🌟

12/12/2025

There is a moment many women recognise quietly, privately.

It’s not dramatic or loud.
It’s a soft, almost secret noticing.

Something like:
“I’m alive… but I’m not fully here anymore”.

Not dead. Not broken.
Just… braced.

Holding. Containing. Managing.

But somewhere along the way,
your body learned to go quiet.

If you feel numb.
If you freeze when things get intimate.
If your jaw tightens,
your breath shortens,
your pelvis disappears.

Maybe you perform instead of feel.
If you’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t touch.

Please hear this gently.

You were never broken.
Your erotic body was protecting you.

Freeze is not failure.
Numbness is not dysfunction.
Shutdown is not weakness.

They are intelligent, adaptive responses to a world that asked too much, too soon, for too long.

Your body tightened to stop intrusions you couldn’t prevent.

She numbed to survive sensations that felt overwhelming.

She disappeared because compliance was safer than truth.

That wasn’t a flaw.
That was brilliance.

Erotic Thaw™ is not about more s🔥e🔥x.
It’s about more life.

It’s a slow, somatic, 52-day guided journey inside Planet Kas for women who are done with pushing, fixing, performing, and overriding themselves.

One gentle invitation a day.
Nothing to catch up on.
Nothing to prove.
Nothing to share unless you want to.

This is not a course for women who want more to do.

It’s for women who are ready to soften.
To listen.

To let the body come back online in her own time.

Erotic Thaw™ walks with you through everything your body had to do to survive — not to relive it, but to free what froze.

Because your desire didn’t die.
Your pleasure didn’t vanish.
Your erotic aliveness didn’t leave you.

It went underground.
Into the breath.
Into the pelvis.
Into the jaw, belly, thighs, heart.

And it waited.

If something in you is stirring as you read this, that’s not coincidence.

Erotic Thaw™
begins 1 February 2026

This is an invitation.
A doorway.

You don’t have to rush.
Your body already knows her way back.

And you know where I am if you’re curious, or interested and you can find out more here -->https://www.kassimartin.com/et

Love
Kas 🔥👑🔥

09/12/2025

Your “Niceness” is a cage built for women.

You weren’t meant to be nice.
You were meant to be true.
You were meant to be honest.
You were meant to be rooted in your own power.

Midlife is when niceness finally cracks —
and the truth steps forward.

If you’re feeling less tolerant, less accommodating, less willing to carry other people’s emotional debris…

👑 Thank FCK 🔥It’s been a long time coming 👑🥰👑

Your liberation is beginning.

Planet Kas is for the women who are done performing.

Reach out 🔥♥️🔥
Love
Kas

08/12/2025

If you have a little time…

Please cast your eyes over my new Planet Kas invitation?

I spent around 9 hours creating this. Fiddly but I love that it is finally sounding like me and exactly what I offer. 🔥

Any spelling mistakes?

If you’ve worked with me in any capacity do you recognise me and our work?

Thank You 👑🔥👑♥️♥️♥️
Love
Kas

A Sanctuary for Midlife Women Who Are Ready To Feel Alive Again

06/12/2025

Would You Like Your Wild Self Back?

Step inside Planet Kas — a bold, rebellious sanctuary for women 40+. Explore a massive library of creative therapy, Goddess Unleashed teachings, yoni art rituals, The Cosmic Come, and deep erotic reclamation. For women ready to heal, awaken, and experience pleasure without shame.

06/12/2025

There comes a point in midlife 🔥when you stop outsourcing 👑 your life to everyone else’s needs, moods, or expectations.

You feel something rising in your chest — not chaos, not crisis… clarity.

This is the part of your life where you Stop abandoning your own authority and start living from your centre.

👑Planet♥️Kas🔥 is where you step into that version of yourself without having to do it alone.

If your truth is stirring… follow it.

👑It’s now YOUR time👑

L🌟I🌟N🌟K in C o m m e n t s

Love
Kas ♥️