20/11/2025
Just because players in your band turn up and are surrounded by other people, doesnโt mean they donโt feel lonelyโฆ..
Yep, you read that rightโฆ
Itโs common for people in organisations, like bands, to feel lonely and isolated even though they are surrounded by others.
I get it, Iโve felt it too - and that sense of loneliness and a lack of connection is a huge driver for poor mental health.
Plus, these feelings can be heightened around the festive period.
So please ๐๐ผ as we spend more time together in our bands over the thousands of Christmas gigs we will collectively give in the next few weeks, take a moment to check in with EVERY member of your band. Donโt just assume that because they are busy or surrounded by friends, family or colleagues that they donโt feel lonely or disconnected because whatโs going on for them.
Check inโฆ itโs that simple. Ask what they have going on and have an intention to listen to them. Just knowing someone is willing to listen can change so much for someone.
No one should ever have to feel lonely, especially in our bands
Thank you ๐๐ผ๐๐ผ๐๐ผ
Tabby x