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Beyond The Therapy Box Speech & Language Therapist. | EYP |
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Let’s see learning differently 🤸🏿‍♀️
Neuroaffirming ideas for communication, literacy & maths.

Real life learning & play count too 😊
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http://bit.ly/44Rvxvn Independent Speech and Language Therapist offering a service to children of all ages, adults with Learning Disabilities and people living with dementia.

19/06/2026

What’s the most important part of being child led - whether that’s for learning opportunities or therapy activities ?

Helping a child feel SAFE .

Without this anything else you try to offer will make no difference.

Their brains aren’t ready to learn if they are just trying to survive …

Most people focus on phonics to help children read. But they forget that phonics is just one part of developing literacy...
15/06/2026

Most people focus on phonics to help children read. But they forget that phonics is just one part of developing literacy skills.

Phonics focuses on linking letters to spoken sounds and decoding sounds in words … and for some children, that works well. If they have the foundation skills in place . (There are a lot of skills that are needed before they are ready for phonics)

But lots of children, including autistic children, seem to take a different route into reading.
Rather than building words sound by sound, they may recognise whole words as complete units first, gradually building up a bank of words they know on sight.

This isn’t “cheating” or “not really reading.” It’s a different path to the same place.

If phonics hasn’t clicked yet, it doesn’t necessarily mean “they need more phonics .”
It might mean
- this child’s route into reading looks different
- or this child is still building their awareness of sounds in spoken language generally
- or even that the books being looked at just aren’t meaningful to them

All of these are worth paying attention to, not correcting.

Do you have a child who has learned to read without phonics

or where phonics is just confusing ?

Or a child who is reading by recognising whole words …

Tag someone who needs to hear “this still counts.”

(PS If your child is having difficulty with phonics or literacy you might be surprised to hear that a speech and language therapist can also help to think through what’s happening for your child specifically. Language skills are the foundation of literacy 🙃)

If all your child is focused on right now is football, that’s more than ok 👌🏼 Special interests are our brains way of de...
10/06/2026

If all your child is focused on right now is football, that’s more than ok 👌🏼

Special interests are our brains way of deep diving into learning, not the things getting in the way.

Before we dismiss a deep interest as “just football”, it can help to look at what might be happening inside it.

They may be practising:

movement
timing
balance
coordination
body awareness
memory
prediction
sequencing
planning
pattern spotting
emotional recovery
communication
regulation
social connection
confidence
identity

And if they are watching football, talking about football, replaying goals, checking scores, looking at averages, learning the history, recognising flags, learning about different countries, maybe “just” lining up cards, copying celebrations or asking the same questions again and again…

That still counts as language development, social interaction, memory, maths, literacy, geography, and so many hidden meaningful learning opportunities.
You can map many skills against those listed in a curriculum …

Why not try making one small shift in your thinking today :

Instead of asking,

“How do I move them on from this to something ‘educational’ ?”

Try asking,

“What is this interest making easier for their brain to access?”

Or what concepts are they maybe exploring ..

(Oh and resist turning it into a worksheet please 🙏 🙈)

The interest might not be getting in the way of learning.

It actually might be the doorway in.

What hidden learning have you spotted from football ?

10/06/2026

Every therapist, teacher, educator , “professional” needs to listen to this ..

A lot of children’s speech & language goals are written as if the child is the only thing that needs to change.“Child wi...
08/06/2026

A lot of children’s speech & language goals are written as if the child is the only thing that needs to change.

“Child will follow before/after instructions.”

“Child will answer questions.”

“Child will use words to request.”

“Child will concentrate on a task for X minutes”

“Child will take turns.”

But what about the support around the child?

What about the language load?

The sensory environment?

The child’s processing time?

Their need for movement?

Their communication system?

Their working memory?

Their relationship with the adult?

Their interest in the activity?

Their right to say no, stop, help, not yet or I don’t understand?

Or to tell you they haven’t finished yet, or don’t want to take a turn.

I don’t dislike clarity.

I don’t dislike noticing progress.

I don’t dislike helping children access communication, learning and life.

But I do struggle with goals that place all the responsibility on the child.

So instead of :

“Child will follow before/after instructions.”

It might be:

“Adults will support understanding of order and time using real routines, simple language, visuals, gestures and meaningful experiences.”

Or:

“Adults will reduce language load and model first/next/after in real moments, so the child has more ways to understand what is happening.”

Or maybe the goal needs to support regulation first:
“Adults will notice sensory overload and reduce demands, so the child has more capacity to process spoken information “

That changes the focus.

Not “make the child perform”.

But “make the world more understandable”.

Not “prove you can do it”.

But “we will support you to get there .”

That is where communication support starts to be more child led ,

and most importantly rooted in connection, not compliance .

06/06/2026

FREE YouTube Communication board 👇🏻

Your child’s favourite YT videos could be the start of communication, choice and early literacy.

Not because you turned YouTube into a lesson.

Because you use what they already love.

Favourite videos can support choice-making, requesting, commenting, shared attention and early word recognition, especially when a child has more visual ways to show what they want.

I’m just finishing the free YouTube choice + communication board.

Great for supporting those who find speaking (and reading) tricky.


If this would help in your house, comment YOUTUBE and I’ll send you the download link as soon as it’s ready.

I was meant to post on here much earlier this evening ! 🙈Instead, one idea led to another, and before I knew it I was ma...
04/06/2026

I was meant to post on here much earlier this evening ! 🙈

Instead, one idea led to another, and before I knew it I was mapping out courses, resources, frameworks and about 47 future possibilities 🙈

But it did make me think…

We talk so much about getting children to follow the adult’s plan.

Sit here.

Do this.

Finish that.

Move on now.

But sometimes deep learning happens when we follow the thread.

When one idea connects to another.

When interest takes over.

When the brain finds a pattern, a problem, a possibility, and wants to stay with it.

Of course, adults and children still need food, rest, movement, support and gentle anchors back to real life.

But flow matters.

Interest matters.

Momentum matters.

And maybe we don’t always need to interrupt it just because it wasn’t on the plan.

Following our flow counts too.

If your child “just” lines up toys, please don’t rush to change the play.It can be tempting to jump in with:“Can you cou...
03/06/2026

If your child “just” lines up toys, please don’t rush to change the play.

It can be tempting to jump in with:

“Can you count them?”
“What colour is that?”
“Let’s make them crash.”
“Shall we build something else?”

But for many children, lining things up can be deeply meaningful.

And those moments can be the best times to try adding some language …

So instead of testing, quizzing or redirecting too quickly, try pausing, noticing, and then joining gently. You can sit alongside without interrupting their flow.
And add some words or useful phrases. Take the pressure off.
Just comment about what they are doing .

Offering language.
Modelling phrases

Without trying to take over ..

That is respecting the play. And facilitating child led learning.

I’m thinking of making a simple
“What to say when your child lines things up” sheet. With some example words and phrases.

And a tracker to help you notice more about their play.

Would that be useful?

Comment LINE UP if so and I’ll send it over when it’s ready.

Lining things up is not doing nothing.Whether it’s:carstoy charactersstonessnacksblocksbooksor tiny objects only they un...
02/06/2026

Lining things up is not doing nothing.

Whether it’s:

cars
toy characters
stones
snacks
blocks
books
or tiny objects only they understand

It might look like “just lining things up” from the outside.

But there may be so much happening underneath:

pattern
order
sequence
same and different
first, next and last
visual attention
early maths
predictability
calm
a plan
a way to make sense of the world

There can be communication here too:

“same”
“different”
“next”
“move”
“stop”
“again”
“finished”
“don’t touch”
“look”
“I fixed it”
“I need space”

Try not to move it, “quiz” it or turn it into something else too quickly.

The most helpful thing may be to notice.

To model a little language.

To respect the pattern.

Lining up toys is valid play.

It can be meaningful play.

And yes, it can be learning too.

Does your child line things up, arrange or organise things in a way that clearly matters to them?

Before children understand written maths, they need real experiences of quantity, sorting, grouping and comparing. They ...
01/06/2026

Before children understand written maths, they need real experiences of quantity, sorting, grouping and comparing. They need to understand the concepts and learn the spoken language …

They need to move things around.

Make piles.

Notice what is the same.

Notice what is different.

See small groups without counting every single item.

Add one more.

Take one away.

Share out equally

Notice when something is missing.

These are all foundations of maths

Concept development begins with real experiences.

And when it’s child led and meaningful that learning goes deeper.

This is language learning too:

“more”
“less”
“same”
“different”
“how many”
“enough”

This might just look like snacks on a table.

But there is so much learning happening here.

So when you’re worrying that your child can’t sit and do “work”

Remember , not all learning looks like a worksheet.

This counts too.

Have you noticed your child sitting or grouping items in their play ?

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