22/08/2025
When ladies that left a toxic marriage talk about how marriages can be successful, many people tend to bash on them, telling them to shu£t da ef up that if they know too much why didn’t they save their own marriage.
Now i need to say this and to also educate the people in that category.
You see that institution called marriage?. It’s not that difficult and it can only be successful when the two people involved have one goal and are willing to walk together.
You don’t expect one person to carry the whole burden.
This is not about money. Once you can’t be pleased by the little things a woman does for you, once you can’t appreciate her even though she appreciates every bit of your good deeds towards her but she is only good at receiving no appreciation from you then that marriage won’t work.
I understand that a woman is more of the keeper of a home but she needs support and that support must come from you and not from any third party. This is not about money.
Appreciate a woman for carrying your child for good 9months and pushing out a full human being from herself. It’s not the matter of “na two of us enjoy am”. If you love her, that won’t be the case.
So when people that came out of a broken marriage give their insights on how marriages can be successful, allow them! You have no idea how they fought to save their marriages while their partners was determined to sabotage it.
Allow that woman to meet a man that truly loves her and see the difference. Marriage is not difficult. It only takes the two adult to make it work and make it easy.
If you don’t love her, leave her alone and if you don’t love him, then let him be.
Nicky Sommy Ugom 1.
