10/09/2025
Why DNA Testing Matters More Than Naming Ceremonies
Let’s be honest.
We celebrate births with music, prayers, and naming ceremonies. But behind the joy, there’s a silent truth no one wants to address: certainty of fatherhood is more important than celebration.
Because while a woman always knows the child she carries is hers, the man never does—unless DNA speaks.
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1. A Naming Ceremony Doesn’t Guarantee Truth
A name can be given to any child. But what if the name rests on a lie?
Every year, countless men unknowingly raise children who are not biologically theirs. They pour in love, money, and sacrifice—while the real father walks free of responsibility.
A naming ceremony without DNA is like building a house on sand: beautiful to look at, but shaky underneath.
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2. DNA Testing Protects Men From Fraud
When a man misses child support, the law is quick to punish him. He can be jailed, fined, or stripped of his dignity.
But when a woman commits paternity fraud—presenting another man’s child as his—there are no penalties. No law steps in. No justice is served.
This double standard is not protection. It’s oppression.
If men can be jailed for failing their duty, women should be held accountable for deceiving a man into raising a child that is not his.
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3. Emotional Manipulation Isn’t an Excuse
Many women say, “It doesn’t matter. He has always known you as daddy.”
But that’s manipulation, not truth. Because in most cases, when the real father shows up, the child forgives him anyway. The man who was tricked ends up broken—financially, emotionally, and spiritually.
This isn’t just unfair—it’s cruel.
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The Real Solution: Make DNA Mandatory at Birth
If DNA testing were mandatory at every child’s birth, before issuing a birth certificate:
• Innocent men wouldn’t be trapped in fraudulent responsibility.
• Women would think twice before committing paternity fraud.
• Families would be built on truth, not secrets.
Because a real celebration should start with certainty. A name is powerful, but the truth behind that name matters more.
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Final Word
The world is not balanced. Men are punished for their failures, but women face no consequence for deception.
If justice is truly justice, then DNA must come before naming.
Because a child deserves truth. A man deserves fairness. And a family deserves honesty from the very beginning.
— Iamdaprof