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04/10/2023

Men called Bayo

09/07/2023

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There are people who look for every opportunity to punish their partners. “If you don’t cook, I won’t pay the children’s school fees, if you don’t make sales and bring money home, no s*x for you, if you don’t do this or that, I will leave.” If you marry an unkind person, they would see you struggling and they would feel indifferent about it.
They don’t care how you do it. Just make sure you satisfy them. If you die while doing it, they will call it destiny.

As you pray for a kind partner, make sure you are someone’s kind partner too. Don’t think people will keep being kind to you when all you do is show them how devilish you can be.

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FinestDove Official

09/07/2023

Marry a kind person.

They will tell you a lot when it is time to get settled, I mean when it is time to get married. Your religious leader will quote scriptures for you regarding obedience, love, perseverance and patience.

Your motivational speaker will ask you to discuss things like religion, finance, child care, work, chores and sometimes s*x.

Your parent will ask you to avoid anything that will lead to divorce because of the stigma that comes with it.

Your married friends will give you a lot of advice regarding issues that are likely similar.

Your “unmarried self” will speak to you once in a while to do things you know marrried people should not do.

Where am I going with this?

You see, you can never discuss everything. Everything you discuss is a hint to reality. While it’s good to discuss basic concepts of raising the family of your dream, it is also very important to look out for the attribute of kindness in your partner.

Have you heard of a woman who just delivered and the husband is asking her to pound yam? Or the woman whose husband was struggling with rent and bills but uses her savings to buy an attire for a her “friend’s cousin brother’s younger sister’s wedding ”, someone who is no way related to her?

When reality sets in, you will forget about your discussions. Wait, did you discuss what will happen if your husband loses his job and you are the one feeding the family? did you discuss what would happen if your wife could not bear a child for a very long years? Did you discuss what will happen if an accident happens and one of you loses his or her sight? Or what will happen if one of you get paralysed? Did you discuss what will happen if for one reason you can’t have s*x for a long time? I bet you didn’t and wouldn’t.

The solution to this is to find a kind person. Find who they are outside the euphoria of love and lust. How they relate when they are broke. How they treat people around them in their lowest point.

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14/06/2023

Ladies confuse a rich man to a good man. He has cars, houses, successful business, etc, and that's the reason you are picking him over that struggling guy with great potential. Is any of the properties in your name? Lol... Some will even say, it is okay to cry in a Lamborghini than in a tricycle. Well, some people did not even cry alone, they also died, while some cannot see anymore because they were turned to punching bags.

You want a man that party, but when he comes back, he comes drunk. He has not married you, yet he hit you at any slightest provocation.
You see, you can’t eat your cake and have it. You either stick to a man who has a proven record or maturity and manage the flip side of being disciplined or follow a man who act “boyish” and enjoy the temporary euphoria and excitement.

Some women confuse a protective man to a controlling man
You want a man who will see you doing wrong but keep quiet? Relationship is all about responsibility and if you ain’t ready to be questioned , you rather stay single.

Find a disciplined, God-fearing & forward-thinking man & help him to achieve peace and comfort and money will come.

25/05/2023

Life has its way of regulating our success. You can have everything going smoothly for you, and suddenly, something beyond your capacity happens to you to slow you down.
It could be sickness, death of loved ones or sponsor, failure in academics or business, depression and what have you.
But what do we call a disadvantage mindset? It is when you subconsciously blame every obstacle for your lack of progress. You will find yourself saying, "If not for my dead parents, If not for the sickness, It is because I was born into a poor family" etc.
While I am not underestimating the influence of circumstances, it is paramount to note that there are people who have it worse yet adjusted and strive to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
No successful person had it easy. They all had to burn those midnight candles, see beyond why they were disadvantaged, and pick up all the pieces to come out refined.

Remember, if you want to be successful, you must always see reasons and not excuses. Think big, see opportunities in every circumstances and use them to your advantage.

You are not disadvantaged. You are only yet to readjust.

22/05/2023

When we ask men not to settle for less, we are not asking you to be splitting bills with your partner at every slight opportunity.
What we are asking you to do is to accept the kind of love you deserve.
Say no to a manipulation
Say no to one way gift
Say no to partners who never apologize.
Say no to stylish domestic violence
Say no to love out of pity.
Say no to a scarcity mindset.
Love yourself so that you can teach people how to love you. Love yourself so that you can set a standard.

You are not a second option. You are the price.

18/05/2023

SHILOH IN DECEMBER
"I can't suffer with any man. If you want me to love you, you have to spend on me," she said. On her first date with Kunle, her first question was, "How much do you earn?" Kunle said he earns 80k. She asked, "You mean 80k dollars per month?" Kunle replied "Are we in America?" She stood up with anger and left the local eatery where the date took place.
Two weeks later, she met Tayo. Tayo kept sending her love text without gifts. She picked her phone to call tayo... Hello Tayo, next week is my 35th birthday. I need to buy a new dress, have photo shoots, and plan a little "get2gether." I would need 180k for all of that.
Tayo replied, "God will provide," and that was the last time she heard from tayo.
They say you attract what you wish for, and this time, she met Femi. Femi is a tech "guru" who worked remotely. He had all of the time for the lovey-dovey money based relationship that she wanted. He would buy gucci bags and expensive wristwatches and even take her on a dinner date from time to time.
After three weeks, she gave in for s*x, and it kept on going for a while until, One day, someone came to harras femi for not paying his debt. But as "ogbon sodiqi," he said it's one of his projects in ikoyi that he needed to finish on time so that he could rent it out and pay his debts.
It's been 3 months now, with no gifts, no date, no phone calls. She went to femis house, but the key has been changed. The young chap who came out of the building said the house is not a residential one. It is a short-term stay facility, and the last tenant left that morning. Moreover, the last tenants name is not femi but Bayo.
Her only compensation was to sell the gold wrist watches and gucci bags for her rent.
"Madam, this wrist watch na pake," the aboki replied.
Kemi is pregnant and is now staying with her sister in a one room apartment in Lagos and will be attending shilloh in December.

16/05/2023

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16/05/2023

Those who are dead were once up and about. Those who are sick were sometimes hale and healthy. Those who are divorced were once lovely couples. Time and uncertainties are mutually exclusive. Therefore, live before you are only trying to survive. Not everything has a good ending

13/05/2023

MY ADVICE FOR MEN

1. Don't marry until you have something that can feed you and your wife.

2. Vet your woman very well before you marry, don't gamble, and don't pity anyone to marry. They will find who is good for them.

3. Don't rely on your wife's income for survival. It will shock you that when you are looking for rent, she is looking for a bag or wig online to buy. Live within your means, rent a house you can afford, eat what you can afford, but never rely on her promise to support.

4. If you have a kind-hearted wife, don't take it for granted.

5. Don't send all your friends away because you are married. You need them.

6. Don't start what you can't finish. If you start washing clothes, just know that it's forever, it doesn't mean you should not help, but be moderate.

7. Don't test your wife. She will fail & you will cry.

8. Don't let love becloud your sense of judgement. A woman can blame you for her mistakes. She will say, "Are you not the man?"

9. Forgive cheating at your peril.

10. Be a leader, not a ruler.

29/04/2023

Select your friends....

28/04/2023

Those who are dead were once up and about. Those who are sick were sometimes hale and healthy. Those who are divorced were sometimes lovely couples. Time and uncertainties are mutually exclusive. Therefore, live before you are only trying to survive. Not everything has a good ending.

25/04/2023

SHILOH IN DECEMBER
"I can't suffer with any man. If you want me to love you, you have to spend on me," she said. On her first date with Kunle, her first question was, "How much do you earn?" Kunle said he earns 80k. She asked, "You mean 80k dollars per month?" Kunle replied "Are we in America?" She stood up with anger and left the local eatery where the date took place.
Two weeks later, she met Tayo. Tayo kept sending her love text without gifts. She picked her phone to call tayo... Hello Tayo, next week is my 35th birthday. I need to buy a new dress, have photo shoots, and plan a little "get2gether." I would need 180k for all of that.
Tayo replied, "God will provide," and that was the last time she heard from tayo.
They say you attract what you wish for, and this time, she met Femi. Femi is a tech "guru" who worked remotely. He had all of the time for the lovey-dovey money based relationship that she wanted. He would buy gucci bags and expensive wristwatches and even take her on a dinner date from time to time.
After three weeks, she gave in for s*x, and it kept on going for a while until, One day, someone came to harras femi for not paying his debt. But as "ogbon sodiqi," he said it's one of his projects in ikoyi that he needed to finish on time so that he could rent it out and pay his debts.
It's been 3 months now, with no gifts, no date, no phone calls. She went to femis house, but the key has been changed. The young chap who came out of the building said the house is not a residential one. It is a short-term stay facility, and the last tenant left that morning. Moreover, the last tenants name is not femi but Bayo. Her only compensation was to sell the gold wrist watches and gucci bags for her rent.
"Madam, this wrist watch na pake," the aboki replied.
Kemi is pregnant and is now staying with her sister in a one room apartment in Lagos and will be attending shilloh in December.

25/04/2023

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