Love Codes - Relationship & Marriage, 35 ASTRAL Close, LOWER STONDON, HENLOW, London (2025)

17/10/2025

5 THINGS YOU SHOULD DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE

You should be adequately prepared before heading into marriage.When you jump into marriage without adequate preparations, you jump out of it sooner than expected.
Just because you love him/her isn’t enough criteria to get married. There are certain things you should discuss with your partner before saying “I do”.
Check them out below

1. MONEY
Never underrate the power of money in a marriage. I have seen several marriages crumble due to money problems. Before getting married, you need to have a discussion about each other’s finances. You both need to understand if you both can support a family, how bills should be paid and if any of you have a debt.

2. ABOUT BEING A PARENT
You should understand not everyone goes into marriage with the intention of having babies. You need to talk about having babies with your partner to know if your partner wants same too. You might be in for a shock later in life if you don’t discuss this.

3. WHERE TO LIVE
Where to live when married is a conversation you need to have with your prospective partner. Some people prefer to stay close to their family while others might want to stay far from their family.
If you are both living in different cities before marriage, then this discussion is a must.

4. YOUR GOALS AND VALUES
You shouldn’t agree to get married without talking about each other’s goals and values. If your goals and values are different and conflict with each other,
you need to reevaluate the relationship.

5. YOUR PAST
You might think this isn’t important until your past comes up in future and destroys your marriage. It’s important you clear the air about any unresolved issues in your past which has the potential to resurface in future.

Good morning 🌅

16/10/2025

MARRIAGE TIPS FOR THE SINGLES:
It is better to marry late and enjoy happy
marriage with the right person than to marry
early and suffer in marriage with a wrong
person. It is not how far but
how well that matters.
Some people rush
into
marriage due to pressure from family and
friends. At the
end, they marry a wrong person. Sometimes it is
good for you to take your time and search for
the
right person.
Marriage is a life time contract in
which you spend the rest of your life with your
spouse.
Therefore take your time to search and pray. Do
not rush into marriage because of family
pressure or friends pressure. They will not be
there when you will
be suffering bad marriage.
Therefore, take your
time and
search for the right person.
“ Marry the one you love but make sure he or she
becomes your best friend. Marry someone who
you
wouldn’t mind waking up to every day for the
rest of
your life. The one who makes you glad to be
alive.
Marry someone who drives you crazy. The one who
calms you.
Marry the one you don’t mind fighting with,
because
they will be fair about it.
Don’t marry someone who gives
their ego more importance, than they give you.
Marry someone who makes you the best version of
yourself.
The one who believes in you, even when you
don’t. The
one who stands by you, through thick and thin.
Marry
someone you can’t
imagine your life without. Marry the one you are
insanely in love with.
Marry the one who knows what you want to say, when you’re too tired to say it with
words.
The one you can spend comfortable silences with from time to time. Marry your soul mate. Marry your best friend.”

Good morning 🌄

15/10/2025

Marriage isn’t just about the butterflies.
It’s not about the cute date nights or the perfectly posed pictures.
It’s about the person who will sit next to you when your world falls apart.
Who will hold your hand through labor.
Who might have to help you shower if your body ever gives out.

It’s about the one who keeps showing up.
Even when things are messy.
Even when the grief feels like too much.
Even when they’re tired and scared and don’t have all the answers.

Because love alone isn’t always enough.
It’s about choosing someone who can stay.
Someone who shows up for the hard stuff.
The ugly stuff. The real life stuff.

Romance doesn’t hold you together when life gets heavy.
Character does. Commitment does.

Forever only works when you’re with someone who knows how to stay,
even when it’s hard to love.
Even when it’s not easy.
Even when it hurts.

That’s what makes a marriage real.

Good morning 🌅

14/10/2025

IT IS NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT WOULD LEAD TO MARRIED.

It is not every relationship you go into that would definitely lead to marriage, some relationships are meant to teach you a lesson, to strengthen you and to prepare you to be fit for the right one.

There are experiences that you need that should help shape your life and help you become a better person, there are certain wrong mentalities you have that you need an experience in relationship to help you gain proper understanding about them.

There are certain relationships that you go into but at the end of the day it does not work out, when you sit to analyze what really happened you will understand your wrongs and the mistakes you made, this will help you get better in your next relationship.

Its not every relationship that must lead to marriage, most relationships are channels that prepares you for the better future with the right person.

Good morning 🌄

❤️

11/10/2025

𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗡𝗘𝗘𝗗 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚!

Yes, you read that right, you have to heal yourself Not because you're responsible for what happened, but because you're the only one who can truly take control of your own healing.

You can't change the past, but you can shape your future.

That means focusing on yourself, your growth, and your well-being.

It's not about making excuses for the person who hurt you; it's acknowledging that you deserve better.

Healing looks different for everyone, and that's okay.

Maybe you need therapy, self-care, or just some time to figure things out.

Move forward, no matter what.

Your worth and value come from within, and you have the power to create a life that makes you happy.

Don't wait for someone else to fix things or apologize take control of your own healing and create the life you want.

You're strong, resilient, and capable of overcoming anything.

Be gentle with yourself, and remember that healing takes time. But with patience, compassion, and a willingness to take control, you can heal and move forward.

10/10/2025

You can't force anyone to be committed to you. They're either willing or not.
If their act or behavior makes it clear that they're not ready, then don't start lying to yourself to keep them around or Convincing yourself that you're fine with it when you're not will make you resentful.

Just leave and focus on meeting someone who shares the same feelings and desires as you.

You might not be someone’s first choice, but to the right person, you’ll always be a GREAT choice.

09/10/2025

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗖𝗮𝗻 𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘁𝗵𝘆 𝗢𝗻𝗲
In a healthy relationship, you should feel comfortable talking through your emotions.

You should feel encouraged to speak about what is going through your mind or what is concerning you.

If you happen to have a problem with something your partner has said or done, you should feel comfortable talking to them about it to them without fear of the conversation escalating into a fight.

You should feel confident that no matter what is wrong, you are going to overcome the problem and find a solution as a team because it's called a partnership.

You shouldn’t feel compelled to hide what is bothering you in order to keep the peace.

You shouldn’t feel like you have to walk on eggshells, otherwise it will cause complications in the near future between the two of you.

You shouldn’t feel like you need to hide any part of yourself, because your partner should want to know how you’re feeling at all times.

Even if it hurts to hear what they’ve done to upset you, they should still want to hear it because they care about your opinion.

After all, if you never tell them what is wrong, they are never going to realize why you are upset.

They are never going to have the chance to change their behavior.

They are never going to be able to work towards bettering themselves and down the line, you are going to end up resenting them for it.

That is why your best option is to act straightforward from the start.

Tell your partner what is on your mind, even when the words are hard to say.

Refuse to hold anything back, because in a healthy relationship, you should show them every side of yourself.

You should be completely and utterly you.

Remember, you being honest about your feelings isn’t the same as you causing drama.

You shouldn’t feel like you’re doing your relationship a disservice by bringing up complaints, because really, your relationship would suffer more if you bottled everything up inside.

Even though you might feel awkward bringing up the things that have been bothering you, you should be rest assured that not every single problem in your relationship should lead to an argument.

You should be able to talk to your partner about things that you are unhappy about without them getting upset at you, without them attacking you, without them accusing you of acting overly emotional.

Good morning 🌅

08/10/2025

Relationships are not always easy. There are times when you may feel like you're fighting an uphill battle, and it can be hard to know if all your efforts are worth it. But before you give up on your relationship, it's important to take a step back and ask yourself: is this worth fighting for?

If you're in a relationship where both parties are committed to making things work, then it's likely that it's worth fighting for. But how can you know for sure? One way to tell is to evaluate the quality of your relationship. Are you happy? Do you feel fulfilled and loved? Are you both willing to compromise and work through challenges together?

Another way to tell if your relationship is worth fighting for is to consider your future together. Do you see a future with your partner? Are your goals and values aligned? If you can imagine a future where you're both happy and thriving, then it's a good indication that your relationship is worth fighting for.

But sometimes, even if you love someone and see a future with them, the relationship may not be healthy or fulfilling. In these cases, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. If your partner is not willing to put in the effort to make things work, or if the relationship is causing you more pain than joy, it may be time to let go and move on.

Remember, it's okay to fight for your relationship, but it's also okay to walk away if it's not serving you. Trust your gut and prioritize your happiness and well-being above all else. Whether you stay or go, know that you are strong and capable of making the right decision for yourself.

Good morning 🌅

07/10/2025

TIPS ON HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE..

A healthy marriage requires ongoing effort, communication, and mutual respect. Here are some practical tips to nurture and strengthen your relationship:

1. Open and Honest Communication:
Share your thoughts, feelings, and concerns with your partner regularly. Be open about your needs and listen actively when they express theirs.
Avoid bottling up emotions or resorting to passive-aggressive behavior.

2. Prioritize Quality Time Together:
Make time for each other, whether it's a regular date night, a shared hobby, or just quiet moments together.
Even in busy schedules, prioritize your connection and intimacy.

3. Respect and Appreciate Each Other
Show gratitude for the little things your partner does and acknowledge their efforts.
Respect each other's differences and create space for individual growth.

4. Solve Problems as a Team:
Approach challenges as a partnership rather than opponents.
Avoid blaming or criticizing; instead, focus on "we" instead

5. Maintain Intimacy:
Physical and emotional intimacy are key to a strong marriage. Make sure to stay connected in ways that feel comfortable for both of you.
Regular affection, both physical and verbal, helps strengthen your bond.

6. Give Each Other Space:
IGive each other the freedom to pursue personal interests and friendships outside the marriage.
Respecting each other's need for personal time strengthens trust and reduces feelings of suffocation.

7. Keep Humor Alive:
Don’t take life too seriously. Shared laughter can help you both navigate tough situation.
Being able to laugh together enhances emotional bonding.

8. Support Each Other’s Growth:
Encourage your partner’s personal and professional goals. Be each other's cheerleader, not a competitor.
A healthy marriage involves both partners evolving and growing together.

9. Address Issues Early:
Don’t wait for problems to escalate.

10. Create Shared Goals and Dreams:
Have a shared vision for the future, whether it’s financial, family-related, or personal goals. Working towards mutual objectives strengthens the sense of partnership.

Remember, a healthy marriage is built on continuous effort. consistent actions often make the biggest difference in maintaining a strong and lasting relationship.

06/10/2025

FEW TIPS ON HOW TO IMPROVE INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE

Intimacy is an important part of any healthy marriage, and there are several things that you can do to improve intimacy in your marriage.

Here are a few ideas:

1.Make time for each other: Set aside regular time to be alone together and focus on each other, whether it's a weekly date night or simply setting aside time to talk and connect every day.

2.Communicate openly and honestly: Share your thoughts, feelings, and desires with your partner, and encourage them to do the same. This can help you to better understand and connect with each other.

3.Be physically affectionate: Physical touch is an important part of intimacy, so make an effort to be more physically affectionate with your partner, whether it's through holding hands, hugging, or cuddling.

4.Try new things together: Trying new things can be a great way to bond and add excitement to your relationship.

5.Practice empathy: Showing empathy towards your partner's feelings and experiences can help to strengthen your connection and improve intimacy.

6.Practice forgiveness: Forgiving your partner when they make mistakes or do something that hurts you can help to strengthen your relationship and improve intimacy.

7.Actively listen: Pay attention to what your partner has to say and show them that you are interested in what they have to say.

8.Seek help if needed: If you're struggling with intimacy in your marriage, it may be helpful to seek the help of a therapist or counsellor.

Remember, intimacy in marriage is a journey and it takes effort and commitment from both partners to nurture and maintain it. With efforts and patience, you can improve intimacy in your marriage and strengthen your bond with your partner.

Happy new week

04/10/2025

Here are some valuable tips for nurturing healthy relationships:
Good CommunicationActive listeningExpress emotions openlyClarify assumptionsSchedule regular check-ins
Trust & Respect
Be reliable and dependable, set boundaries, show appreciation and gratitude, embrace each other's differences, foster independence.
Address issues promptly, stay calm and objective, focus on solutions, not blame, practice empathy and understanding, seek common ground.
Prioritize quality timeEngage in meaningful activitiesShow physical affectionPractice emotional intimacy
Support each other's goals, encourage self-improvement, embrace change and growth, celebrate milestones, seek counseling when needed.

Every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. Prioritize open communication, empathy, and mutual respect.

03/10/2025

Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it's hard to know if you're in the right one. If you find yourself questioning your relationship, here are a few tips to help guide you:

♦️Lack of communication: Healthy relationships thrive on open and honest communication. If there is a constant lack of communication or difficulty discussing important issues, that could be a red flag.

♦️ Constant fights and disagreements: While every relationship has its ups and downs, constant fighting and arguments may signify deeper underlying issues that need to be addressed.

♦️Lack of trust: A strong foundation of trust is crucial for any healthy relationship. If there are major breaches of trust or continuous doubts, this could indicate an unhealthy dynamic.

♦️Lack of support from partner: In a good relationship, partners should support each other through both successes and failures. If your partner lacks empathy or belittles your achievements,it's time reevaluate things.

♦️Unhappiness: The most telling sign that something isn't working in the relationship is when one or both parties feel consistently unhappy. A happy partnership should bring joy into each other's lives rather than unwanted stress.

Remember, every situation is unique so ultimately only YOU can decide what's best for you.

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