13/11/2025
๐ฟ๐ค๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐ข๐๐ง๐ง๐ฎ ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ช๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐จ๐ค๐ฃ.
๐๐ฃ ๐ค๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐ค๐ง๐๐จ, ๐๐ค๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐๐๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ก ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐ค๐ฃ ๐ก๐ค๐ซ๐ ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฃ๐.
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Simply put, ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ด๐ต.
Love is just one piece of the puzzle. You need other pieces of the puzzle to make it a whole- a concrete reason to marry the person.
Check the other pieces of the puzzle..
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You love the person, good and fine. But does the person also love?
The love must be mutual.
One of the mistakes you will make in marriage is to marry someone you love who doesn't love you in return.
You've sign in for trouble.
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Are you guys suitable for each other?
It's not every shoe that is your size.
Likewise, it's not everybody you should marry.
So, does this guy or lady suits your personality, purpose, vision, values, convictions, aspirations, ambitions?
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Are you guys compatible?
Is there an agreement? Is there an alignment in vision? Is there similarities in interests, hobbies, values, convictions? Are you guys heading in the same direction? Is your health compatible, your genotype, blood group, rhesus factor?
Ok, even if the person didn't believe in most of the things you believe in, does the person accepts for you to practice your beliefs without interference?
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How's the character of this person, good or bad?
Is he arrogant and proud? Is she madam keziah? Is the person trustworthy, understanding, discipline, hardworking or lazy? Does he smoke, drink, gamble or club?
๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐.
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As a Christian, the Bible says that we should not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever.
Is he or she a believer like you?
Remember that God and Satan cannot be in-laws.
Does the person has the same or similar belief and convictions as you?
Even as a Christian, it's not every Christian you should marry. We have different beliefs in Christianity today. Some believe in Trinity, tongues, miracle, jewelry, wearing trouser as a lady, some don't.
Now, you can see that love is not enough. Other factors need to be considered and if the the facts do not collocate, sadly you will have to let go.
In conclusion, what I am trying to say is that you should not marry someone only because you love the person, you need to check other factors and make sure there's no issue.
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