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12/09/2025

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for some time now, and I recently realized that he smokes a lot. At first, I thought it was just occasional, but it has become a regular habit. I am concerned about his health and the future, especially if we plan to live together or start a family. I have tried talking to him about it gently, explaining my worries, but he either laughs it off or promises to cut down and then goes back to smoking the same amount. I don’t want to control him or make him feel judged, but I also can’t ignore how this habit affects me emotionally and physically, especially when I think about secondhand smoke and long-term health risks. I feel caught between wanting to support him as his partner and needing to set boundaries for my own well-being. I am unsure whether I should continue the relationship as it is, keep encouraging him to quit, or consider stepping back if he refuses to make a change. I want to approach this in a way that is loving and respectful, but also honest about how I feel. I am looking for advice on how to handle a partner who has a habit I strongly dislike, without creating unnecessary conflict, and how to maintain my peace while still caring about him.

12/09/2025

I recently discovered that I am pregnant, and while I was initially overjoyed, my happiness has been dampened by my baby’s father. From the moment I told him, he has been denying that the pregnancy is his. He refuses to acknowledge any responsibility and even questions whether I am truly carrying his child, despite knowing the truth of our relationship. I feel hurt and confused because I had hoped he would share in this joy and at least be willing to discuss the future. Instead, I am left feeling unsupported and alone as I try to navigate this unexpected chapter in my life. I have tried talking to him calmly, explaining the situation and asking him to take responsibility, but he either laughs it off, changes the subject, or blames me for the situation. It is very stressful because I am now trying to make plans for myself and the baby without his cooperation, and I worry about raising a child without any support from him. I am also struggling with the emotional toll this is taking on me; I expected this moment to be one of happiness, not conflict and denial. I don’t want to create unnecessary tension or push him away completely, but I also need to protect myself and my baby. I am unsure what steps to take next. Should I involve family members, seek legal advice, or try to reason with him further? I am looking for guidance on how to handle a situation where the father of my unborn child refuses to acknowledge his responsibility while keeping my peace of mind and ensuring my child’s future is secure.

12/09/2025

I have a friend I’ve known for years, someone I trusted deeply. We’ve shared so many moments together, good times, bad times, and even secrets. I’ve always believed that honesty is the foundation of our friendship, so I made sure to be open with her about everything happening in my life. Recently, I discovered something that left me confused and hurt. I found out that she has been keeping a major secret from me, something that directly affects both of us. At first, I didn’t want to believe it. I thought maybe I was misunderstanding the situation, but the evidence is clear. What bothers me the most is that I would have expected her to tell me herself, considering how close we are. The fact that she chose to hide this makes me question our friendship. I keep replaying our past conversations, trying to remember if there were signs I missed or if I ever gave her reason not to trust me. Part of me wants to confront her directly, but I’m also scared that bringing it up might ruin our friendship. I keep asking myself if it’s better to let it go, forgive, and move on, or if I need to know the full truth and understand why she hid this from me. My conscience keeps saying that keeping malice will only hurt me, but my feelings are tangled with disappointment and confusion. I feel like I am at a crossroads where I have to decide whether to trust her again or protect myself from potential future betrayals. I want advice on how to approach this without creating conflict, but at the same time, I want to be true to myself and not ignore my feelings. Have any of you ever faced a friend hiding something important from you, and how did you handle it?

12/09/2025

I have been married for 12 years now, and God has blessed me with five beautiful daughters. They are my joy, my pride, and I love them with everything in me. But the truth is, I am not at peace because of the pressure I face every day. My husband’s family keeps reminding me that I have not given him a son. Some even say openly that a home without a male child is incomplete. Their words cut me deeply, and sometimes I cry in secret, wondering if I have failed as a wife and a mother.
My husband has been supportive in his own way. He always says children are gifts from God and that we should be grateful. But I can’t help noticing the way he changes whenever the topic of having a son comes up. He tries to hide it, but I can feel his disappointment. At family gatherings, people throw subtle comments like “We hope the next one will finally be a boy.” It is so painful that I sometimes avoid going to family events just to save myself from the embarrassment.
I’ve gone to the hospital and doctors have assured me there’s nothing wrong with me. They explained that it is the man’s chromosomes that determine the gender of a child. But in our society, people always point fingers at the woman. I am emotionally drained. I look at my daughters and I don’t want them to feel less valued because they are not boys. They deserve love and equal treatment. Yet, I fear for their future in a culture where male children are seen as more important.
Right now, I don’t know how to handle this situation. Should I keep trying for another child in hopes of a son, or should I focus on raising my daughters without bowing to pressure?

11/09/2025

I have been married for 9 years, and along the way, I have tried my best to build a peaceful home. My husband is a good provider, he takes care of the children, and from the outside, people see us as a happy family. But inside, I carry a pain that I can no longer hide. My husband has cheated on me more than once. The first time I caught him, he apologized, begged for forgiveness, and even swore it would never happen again. I forgave him because of our children and because I wanted to believe in our marriage. But not long after, I discovered he was back to the same behavior. Sometimes it’s with women from his workplace, other times it’s someone new. The worst part is, he doesn’t even try to hide it anymore. He still comes home, provides for us, and acts like nothing is wrong, but I feel broken inside. Each time I catch him, he says, “Men are like that, just ignore it and enjoy what you have.” But how can I ignore something that eats me up every day? I can’t sleep well at night, I can’t even look at him without remembering the betrayal. I try to smile for my kids, but deep down I am hurting. I have asked myself if I am overreacting. Many people say no man is faithful, and that women should just endure if the man is responsible at home. But is that really true? Should I continue in a marriage where I no longer feel respected and valued, or should I walk away and find peace even if it means starting life all over again? I don’t want to destroy my children’s home, but I also don’t want to destroy myself in the process.

10/09/2025

I never thought I would one day be among those who say they walked away from their marriage. I grew up believing marriage was for life and no matter the challenges you stay and fight for it. That was my mindset when I met my husband. In the beginning everything looked perfect. He was caring, he made me laugh, and he promised to stand by me forever. I gave him my heart completely and believed I had found my safe place. But as the years went by things began to change. It started with small issues that I ignored because I thought love would cover them. He stopped spending time with me and the children, always claiming he was busy. He no longer spoke to me with kindness, sometimes he would not even look at me for days. Whenever I tried to open up about how I felt he would dismiss me and say I was exaggerating. Slowly, I realized I was living with a stranger. The house became so cold that even when he was present I still felt lonely. I prayed, I tried to make things better, I even blamed myself thinking maybe I was not doing enough as a wife. But the truth was, he had already checked out of the marriage emotionally and there was nothing I could do to force him back. The final straw was when I realized my children were growing up watching us live like roommates with constant tension. I did not want them to believe that marriage means unhappiness. Walking away was the hardest decision of my life because of the vows I took, but staying was breaking me slowly. I chose my peace of mind and the future of my children over holding on to something that no longer existed. People judge me and some say I should have endured, but they don’t know the tears I cried at night or how empty I felt. I left because I wanted to live again, to breathe again, and to find myself outside of pain.

Good day everyone from here
09/09/2025

Good day everyone from here

08/09/2025

I am a single mother in my early 30s, and life has not been easy for me. After the father of my child left years ago, I focused on raising my little one and doing everything I could to survive. But deep down, I always wished to have a complete home. I wanted to be loved, cared for, and treated as someone’s wife, not just someone’s mother. That desire made me vulnerable, and I now realize I rushed into something I didn’t understand fully. Last year, I met a young man who was charming and full of sweet words. He told me age didn’t matter, that he loved me and was ready to marry me regardless of the fact that I already had a child. At first, I was hesitant, but his persistence made me believe him. He met my family, spoke confidently about marriage, and promised to make me happy. For the first time in a long while, I felt hope. I thought my dream of being settled with a partner who would love both me and my child had finally come true. Out of excitement, I even invested part of my savings to support him when he claimed he needed money to “prepare for our marriage.” I bought clothes, helped him pay rent, and even introduced him to some of my close friends. Then, just when I believed everything was falling into place, he changed completely. He started avoiding me, no longer answered my calls, and eventually confessed that he wasn’t ready for marriage. He said he only wanted companionship and was too young to be tied down. My heart sank because I had trusted him, supported him, and even allowed myself to dream again. I don’t know how to heal from this or how to trust again.

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years. Things were not always perfect, but I believed we ...
07/09/2025

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost two years. Things were not always perfect, but I believed we loved each other and were building something meaningful. Recently, I discovered I was pregnant. At first, I was scared but also hopeful that even though it was not planned, we could face the situation together as adults. When I told him, his reaction shocked me. He immediately denied responsibility and insisted the pregnancy could not be his. I felt crushed because I have been faithful and committed to him all through our relationship. Instead of supporting me, he started avoiding my calls, giving excuses, and even telling his friends that I was trying to trap him. It hurts deeply because I trusted him, and I never imagined he would treat me this way. Right now, I am confused and don’t know what to do. Part of me feels like walking away completely, but another part of me keeps remembering the good times we shared and wonders if he is just acting out of fear. I don’t want to force anyone into fatherhood, but I also don’t want my child to grow up without knowing the truth about their father. I keep asking myself if I should fight to make him take responsibility, or if I should accept the situation and focus on raising my baby in peace. This experience has left me emotionally drained because I feel abandoned at a time when I need support the most. I need advice on how to handle this please

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06/09/2025

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