11/06/2025
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the power of our thoughts.
You know that thing where two people can go through the exact same situation, and one comes out saying it was amazing while the other shrugs and says, “meh”? I think it’s wild how much our mindset affects what we actually feel about life. How much the stories we tell ourselves shape our experience of the world.
You see, I’ve had my share of “glass half empty” vibe kind of people who focus on what’s missing or what didn’t go quite right. Growing up, I was surrounded by people who, no matter how beautiful the setting, how delicious the food, or how thoughtful the service etc they always found the one thing that wasn’t quite right. And honestly? It was exhausting. Heavy. Draining.
Mainly for them.
I have learnt to surround myself with people who say 'yes' to life - in fact, I’m so lucky to have enough friends who see what IS. Who notice the light, the joy, the effort, the little wins. They have this “yes” energy that’s just... contagious. Being around them feels good. Lighter. Brighter. And I swear, that kind of energy attracts more of the same.
And it’s not about ignoring the hard stuff or pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about choosing where you put your focus - because there’s always going to be a mix of good, bad, and blah in everything. Every day. Every experience.
But the real question is:
What do you want to see more of?
Because that’s probably what you’ll keep finding.
