Tova Leigh - My Thoughts about stuff

13/11/2025

Little reminder to anyone who needed it today… 🥰

12/11/2025

12/11/2025

There’s never a “perfect time” to take a leap of faith. Life has a way of piling on excuses - work, family, fear, guilt, or the belief that you’re not deserving.

But what I’ve learned is this: the best things often happen when you just say yes (or even fck it*) and go for it.

That’s how many of the women who’ve joined my retreats decided. At 3 a.m., they saw my ad, felt a pull in their gut, and pressed apply - before their mind could talk them out of it.

And you know what? Those “impulse yeses” changed their lives. Together we’ve celebrated bodies, set boundaries, tackled shame, expressed sexuality, and rediscovered joy.

If you feel like you’ve lost yourself, crave confidence, new friendships, pampering, or simply six days with no dishes - this is your sign. 🙌🏻

Last few places left so don’t wait! Apply now https://tovaleigh.com/retreat

Portugal, May 2026. I’ll see you there ❤️

12/11/2025

Recently France rewrote its r**e law - and it finally puts CONSENT at the centre.
Not how hard you fought.
Not how loud you screamed.
But whether you were able to say a free, informed YES in the first place.

The case of Gisèle Pelicot, who was drugged by her husband for years and 🍇 by multiple men while unconscious, exposed how terrifying those legal “grey areas” really are. Her courage in going public helped push France to change the law 🙌🏻

11/11/2025

Alright, gang, let’s talk solo play, the ultimate self-love ritual 🥰 Yes, it’s all about giving yourself the care and attention you deserve. Welcome to my LELO Switch review - because if you’re treating yourself, why not do it with something that feels straight out of a Bond movie?

If you think solo play is just a quick moment, think again. It melts stress faster than a margarita on a hot day, lifts your mood, and even helps you sleep better. Plus, it’s 100% judgment-free and totally on your terms.

If you’ve never used a pleasure toy, you’re missing out on the next level of self-love - devices designed to make you wonder why you didn’t start sooner!
Meet The LELO Switch: the Swiss Army Knife of solo play toys. Two ends, two motors, ten modes, sixteen intensities, basically, it’s like a full DJ booth dedicated to your key pleasure points. Switch it up, experiment, and find what works for you.

Some highlights:
• Two motors = targeted stimulation for multiple pleasure zones.�
• 10 vibration modes + 16 intensities = something for every mood.�
• Ultra-soft sensorial ribs = gentle, effective stimulation.�
• App control = customize your experience, solo or with a partner.�
My Experience:�The first time I tried it, I honestly felt like I was launching into orbit. The double motors had me giggling, gasping, and fully enjoying every second, quietly enough to not disturb anyone!
Whether you’re a solo play pro or curious newbie, the Switch is all about inclusivity and zero judgment. Pleasure is for everyone, and self-love is your birthright.

The Bottom Line:�Treat yourself. Get playful. Explore. The LELO Switch takes solo play to the next level - a luxury self-love experience designed for maximum enjoyment.
LELO has amazing Black Friday discounts and you can get an additional 20% off by using my code TOVA20 👇🏻

https://lelo.to/TovaLELOSwitch

10/11/2025

I am back from a week of Ta**ra in Portugal with 💕

The PTA mums this morning wanted to know if I can now or**sm from any part of my body… and honestly the only accurate review I could give was:
amazing and awful, best and worst, loved it and hated it - all at the same time.

There were tears, daddy issues, pillow-grinding, soul stretch marks, so much laughter and a version of ta**ra that is veryfar from my original Austin Powers fantasy 😜

I’ve poured the whole, raw, funny, messy, heart-cracked-open experience into a new piece:
“Ta**ra baby, Ta**ra”.

If you’re curious about what actually happens on a ta**ra retreat (beyond the clichés) and what it cracked open in me, go have a read 👇🏻😜

I signed up for the Living Ta**ra retreat in Portugal on a bit of a whim. You know those moments when you’re vaguely scrolling, see words like “be worshipped as a Goddess,” and think, “Yeah, go on then”? That was me. Before this retreat, my understanding of ta**ra was basically Austin Powe...

08/11/2025

Anyone else? 🤪😂

07/11/2025

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07/11/2025

On a ta**ra retreat with my friend Faye… playing with our feminine and masculine energies… kinda like our inner dudes 🤪 what do you think? 

05/11/2025

Still hopeful though 🤪