30/05/2026
Recently, I nearly let self doubt talk me out of a room I deserved to be in...
Sometimes the hardest part of saying yes is not the event itself. It’s everything that happens inside you before you get there.
The overthinking.
The self doubt.
The fear that you are not qualified enough, polished enough, confident enough, or somehow not the “right” person for the room.
I was honoured to be invited to Jessica May’s Bloom Event. I was grateful. I was excited. But I also had to face the question underneath it all:
“Can I still show up with courage when I feel out of place?”
I looked at the people I was going to be on a panel with:
Their influence.
Their confidence.
Their success.
And then there was me, trying to convince myself I belonged there too. The answer was not instant confidence. The answer was movement:
One step at a time.
One train at a time.
One conversation at a time.
One decision to not let fear have the final vote.
That is often how courage works. Sometimes it is trusting that your story still carries value, even when it feels different.
What I found at The Bloom Event was honesty, resilience, humour, vulnerability, and people using lived experience to make others feel less alone.
It reminded me of something important:
Your story does not need to be identical to someone else’s to connect with them. It just needs to be honest. Presence over performance.
Afterwards, I connected with amazing people and was moved by the stories and challenges they have been courageously moving through.
So let this be our reminder; meaningful impact is not always about perfect words. Sometimes it is being present enough to listen, honest enough to share, and humble enough to connect.
That just so happens to be the essence of the Go In Courage Podcast.
Huge credit and love to: Jessica May