01/07/2021
In light of the EURO 2021, dubbed EURO 2020, the idea of giving those stomach-churning feelings of fear the red card is quite apt. Whenever you venture out of your comfort zone the feeling of fear is automatic for most people, but it doesn’t have to be. As a baby, we have only 2 types of fear; fear of loud noise and fear of falling; the rest of them are learned behaviour.
You can also unlearn any behaviour that doesn’t serve you like procrastination, doubt, low self-esteem, shyness, low confidence etc.
As a transformational coach, I have seen it all. Some of the people in high places that you admire so much are empty inside and the veneer of success is just a cover up for inner turmoil. What are you thinking right now? Most people think their personality is fixed and there is nothing they can do about it but that’s so untrue, as I have seen this with so many of my clients achieving change. They never thought it was possible.
I talked a little bit about this phenomenon in my book ‘Goldmine of Your Mind-Your Fast Track to Abundance’. I coached a woman who heads a very large government agency but she was miserable and depended on medication to get through her day. Her major concern was that one day she would be found out as an impostor and everything would come crashing down. How long has she been suffering from this false belief? More than 20 years! I coached her for 3 months and she had the insight (ha ha moment) that this thought was not only false but it was also stupid! Yes, you may say that it is stupid because you are looking from the outside. The truth is that the mind is not logical!
The only way to change beliefs is through insights! What does that mean? The moment you have seen something, you cannot unsee it! Does that make sense? If I showed you a faster and more convenient route to your workplace that would only take 30 minutes instead of 90 minutes, would you still be using the old route? Nope, therefore, when you get the insight about a belief and you know the truth, then you are free. Even the bible states, you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. I did a webinar on how to achieve this transformation and it is called ‘Rapid Change Program- Mindset Transformation for Success’, if you want a recorded version of it. Please click on the link below to get it immediately.
https://ayobenson.com/rcp-instant-training/
How would your life change if you could get rid of that belief that is holding you back? It is not who you think you are that holds you back but who you think you are not’ Dennis Waitley. That’s what this is about.