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Loving someone is so much more than just whispering “I love you” in quiet moments.  It’s about showing up especially whe...
09/10/2025

Loving someone is so much more than just whispering “I love you” in quiet moments.
It’s about showing up especially when life gets rough and the world seems determined to tear them down.

True love means standing in your partner’s corner, no matter what. It means protecting their name and their heart, even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient. That’s the real responsibility that comes with choosing someone.

If you allow friends, family, or anyone else to disrespect the person you love, you’re not just letting them down you’re breaking the trust and bond you worked so hard to build together.

A strong relationship is about unity; it’s about moving through life as a team.
When someone belittles, mocks, or talks down about your partner, they’re not just insulting them they’re insulting you, too.
Because your partner is a part of you, and your silence in those moments can hurt more than any words ever could.

Loyalty isn’t just a sweet gesture or a promise made in passing.
It’s the foundation of real love. It means drawing boundaries, even when it’s awkward. It means telling your family, “That’s not okay,” or reminding a friend that respect is non-negotiable.

It’s about choosing your person, time and time again not just in private, but boldly, in front of everyone.

Some people might not get it. They might think avoiding conflict is more important than standing up for what’s right. But to me, love without protection isn’t love at all. If you can’t defend the one you share your life with, then what you have isn’t partnership it’s just convenience.

No one deserves to feel unprotected in the arms of the person they trust the most.
Because at the end of the day, if you’re not willing to stand up for your partner, who will?

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Marry a man with a provider mindset. Not necessarily a rich man, but one who is responsible and knows how to lead. A man...
09/10/2025

Marry a man with a provider mindset.

Not necessarily a rich man, but one who is responsible and knows how to lead.
A man who will make sure your needs are met without you having to beg or remind him.
A man who shows up because he wants to, not because you had to ask him to.
He doesn’t need millions in the bank, but he needs the kind of character that makes you feel safe, emotionally and mentally.
The kind of man who steps up for you and keeps his word.
A man who carries a sense of responsibility for the woman he loves.
Because a man who truly provides doesn’t just pay bills. He brings you peace.
He protects your heart.
He respects your mind. He considers your emotions. He listens, he values, he stays consistent.
You never have to second guess where you stand with him, because his actions are loud, even when his words are few.
Emotional maturity is far more valuable than wealth.
A man who is emotionally grounded will create a space where you can breathe, where you feel heard and understood.
Where love isn’t a battlefield, but a sanctuary.
You deserve a man who takes care of your soul, not just your lifestyle.
One who gives you effort, not excuses. Time, not silence.
Consistency, not confusion.
The right man won’t just provide you with things. He’ll provide you with peace, presence, and protection.
And that’s worth everything.

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The right one would stay, even in your worst.It’s easy to love someone when everything feels right when you’re glowing, ...
09/10/2025

The right one would stay, even in your worst.

It’s easy to love someone when everything feels right when you’re glowing, confident, and full of life. But the real test of love shows up when life gets heavy. When you’re not smiling as much, when your energy fades, when you start doubting yourself and life feels too loud or too quiet.

The right one won’t disappear just because you’re not at your best. They’ll remind you that your flaws don’t make you unlovable, and your bad days don’t define you. They’ll choose to understand instead of judge. They’ll stay when others would’ve left because love, real love, is not built only for your sunshine; it’s built to survive your storms too. 🌧️❤️

When someone truly loves you, they don’t just want you when you’re “perfect.” They stand beside you when you’re breaking, help you rebuild piece by piece, and still look at you like you’re magic. That’s the kind of person worth keeping.

Never beg for someone to stay. The right one will.
The wrong one will make excuses; the right one will make effort.

💬 What about you?
Have you ever had someone stand by you in your worst moments or did they walk away when things got real?
Let’s talk about it below 👇

Some men say they want a strong woman until life tests what that really means. When she breaks down mentally or physical...
09/10/2025

Some men say they want a strong woman until life tests what that really means. When she breaks down mentally or physically, some men retreat because they can’t handle seeing her vulnerable. Others secretly fear her healing, her stability, her independence, because once she rises, she might not need them anymore. But that’s not love, that’s insecurity in disguise.

A real man understands that strength isn’t control, it’s covering. He becomes her peace when her mind is at war, her anchor when her emotions drift. He speaks life into her when her spirit is tired. Because even the nurturer needs nurturing. Even the woman who holds everyone else down deserves a man who listens without trying to fix her, without judging her, just being her safe place.

True kings protect and pour into what they value. Not out of fear of losing her, but out of reverence for the gift that she is. ❤️‍🔥

Let’s be real for a moment… Somewhere along the line, we forgot that the key word in relationship is “relate.” What’s th...
08/10/2025

Let’s be real for a moment… Somewhere along the line, we forgot that the key word in relationship is “relate.”

What’s the point of being together if there’s no trust, no friendship, no real communication, and no chemistry that connects both your minds and your bodies? Even in the healthiest relationships, couples don’t see eye to eye all the time they might only agree 80% of the time but the difference is, they respect the other 20%. They understand that disagreements don’t mean disconnection.

This microwave generation has made too many people crave instant gratification and validation through titles and temporary attachments. But those surface-level bonds usually lead to ego-driven “situationships” not soulful love.

Me? I’ll take that old-school, spiritual type of connection. The kind where peace feels like home, where energy aligns, and where love has depth. I don’t just want someone to lay next to I want someone I can lay in peace with. Too many men and women are sharing beds with people who only fill space, not hearts. ❤️‍🔥

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❤️ The right person will cherish your love and know exactly how to honor it.  They will choose you with the same passion...
08/10/2025

❤️ The right person will cherish your love and know exactly how to honor it.
They will choose you with the same passion and certainty that you choose them.
With them, you’ll never have to shrink yourself or dim the way you care they’ll embrace every part of you, never making you feel like you’re “too much.”
You won’t find yourself pleading for the affection and respect you deserve.

Someday, you’ll meet someone who meets you right where you are, who sees your heart and holds it gently.
You’ll become someone’s favorite, and there will be no second-guessing or confusion just clarity and comfort.
You won’t feel like you’re fighting a losing battle for someone’s attention or love, because the right person will stand beside you and fight for you, too.

One day, you’ll realize it was never about how hard you tried to hold on to people who weren’t meant for you.
The right ones those who truly see and value you will always find their way into your life, no matter what.
And when they do, they’ll stay, not because you begged them to, but because loving you feels like home.

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Nothing feels better than being loved by a calm man. Someone who is gentle with his words, who doesn’t raise his voice e...
08/10/2025

Nothing feels better than being loved by a calm man. Someone who is gentle with his words, who doesn’t raise his voice even when he is upset.
Someone who takes the time to explain what he means and asks you how you feel too.

Someone who listens, really listens, not just waiting for his turn to speak, but actually paying attention to every word you say.
A man who speaks honestly without blaming or making you feel guilty for having emotions. Someone who lets you feel safe enough to open up about your own thoughts and fears.

Someone who makes you feel seen.
He notices the little changes in your mood and checks on you because he truly cares.
Someone who reminds you that it’s okay to be soft and vulnerable, and that you don’t always have to be strong.

A calm man makes you feel understood in a way no one else does, and with him, love feels peaceful, not exhausting.

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I don’t want a man to buy me flowers just because I ask for them. I want him to bring them because he thought of me when...
08/10/2025

I don’t want a man to buy me flowers just because I ask for them. I want him to bring them because he thought of me when he saw them and because making me smile truly matters to him.

I don’t need a man to take me out on dates just to check a box. I want him to plan something special because he genuinely wants to spend time with me and create memories we’ll both hold close.

I don’t expect a man to open doors or show chivalry out of obligation. I want him to do it because that’s who he is and because he values and cherishes me.

A love that flows naturally from the heart where every gesture speaks of sincerity and every moment feels beautifully real.

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💞 You do not pick partnership based on pleasure, you pick partnership based on purpose.Pleasure feels good it makes your...
07/10/2025

💞 You do not pick partnership based on pleasure, you pick partnership based on purpose.

Pleasure feels good it makes your heart race, your skin tingle, your world light up for a moment.
But purpose… purpose is what makes love last.

See, pleasure might attract you to someone, but it’s purpose that keeps you connected through every season.
When the spark fades, when the butterflies calm down, and life starts to test your bond — that’s when you find out whether your love was built on pleasure or purpose.

A purposeful partner doesn’t just make you feel good; they make you grow.
They remind you of who you are when you start to forget.
They love you with intention, not just emotion.
They walk with you through healing, through rebuilding, through rediscovering yourself.

Love built on purpose doesn’t demand perfection it chooses understanding.
It’s not about always being happy; it’s about being whole together.
It’s two people who see each other’s wounds and still choose to love deeply, consistently, and honestly.

So don’t just look for someone who gives you butterflies.
Look for someone who gives you peace.
Someone who aligns with your soul’s direction, not just your moment’s desire.

Because one day, you’ll realize the kind of love that truly matters isn’t the one that thrills you for a night…
It’s the one that grounds you for a lifetime. ❤️

I don’t want a man to buy me flowers just because I ask for them I want him to bring them because he thought of me when ...
07/10/2025

I don’t want a man to buy me flowers just because I ask for them I want him to bring them because he thought of me when he saw them, because making me smile matters to him.

I don’t need a man to take me out on dates just to check a box I want him to plan something special because he genuinely wants to spend time with me and create memories together.
I don’t expect a man to open doors or show chivalry out of obligation I want him to do it because that’s who he is, because he values and respects me.

And most importantly, I’ll never ask a man to be faithful just because I require loyalty I want him to choose faithfulness every day, simply because he wants to, because he sees my worth and honors it.

I’ll never beg anyone to see my value, and I’ll never settle for someone who needs to be convinced of my worth. My presence, my love, and my heart are treasures I want someone who recognizes that without reminders, who loves me not out of duty, but out of genuine desire.

I’m not looking to change anyone. I’m simply holding out for the man who moves with intention, who chooses me every day, and who loves me right because real love never needs to be forced.

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No one understands my silence.And honestly, sometimes I wish they could. I wish people could just look at me and read th...
07/10/2025

No one understands my silence.
And honestly, sometimes I wish they could. I wish people could just look at me and read the emotions written all over my face the tiredness, the strength, the worries I hide so well.

But then again, maybe it’s better that they don’t.
Because half the time, I don’t even know how to explain what’s going on inside me. It’s not easy being strong all the time. It’s not easy being the one who always keeps it together. Sometimes silence is the only thing that makes sense.

It’s not that I don’t care. It’s just… I’ve learned that explaining yourself to people who don’t really get you can make you feel even more misunderstood. So instead, I stay quiet. I breathe. I heal. I keep going.

To every single parent, every quiet soul, every strong one who’s been carrying their battles in silence I see you. You’re not cold. You’re not weak. You’re just protecting your peace and holding yourself together the best way you know how.

💬 Sometimes silence says more than words ever could.
If you’ve ever felt this way drop a ❤️ or leave a comment. Let’s remind each other that even in silence, we’re not alone.

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