07/11/2025
Mothers should do better, nurture your children till they go into the kind of marriage you yourself can beat your chest to it that your child in in safe hands. This is no more the olden days where they bethroth young girls to old men anymore. You should look into the future if your child can survive in there. Don't allow poverty or the love of money push you into taking decisions that wld backfire on you. How can you the mother allow your child go into marriage with a man old enough to be her gran only to depress and torture her physically,emotionally and mentally behind the camera. You can never find a proper western raised kid agree to such. The highest age difference you find them date is 5yrs. You want fame, social status and money in your man desperately then there are things you have to put up with that are not visible to the outside world. Regina is just growing to blossom into a full woman by the time she's 30 and over, there are experiences and maturity she needs to attain before she can settle for such. Don't compare some ladies that has done it before to your own children, every woman has different shock and suffer absorber, we are wired differently by nature. I have a daughter in her age group and my heart bleeds. Regina can not survive it, we have watched it happen before, some in the royal circle too yet they left cos of the heat. Learn from others mistakes, nurture your girl child to a certain age before they go into marriage so they wld have been mentally, physically and emotionally ready for marriage. You don't want to loose your child to a narcissistic man that won't take No for an answer, they play victim after destroying your child, a narcissist don't change they only change victims and this era Internet bashing won't help aswell. Do what you have to do even if it's to beg the man in question to allow your daughter breathe to nurse her children. If your daughter have to marry early pls ensure it's to their age group. An older man will sure abuse them because of years of experience of life above your own daughter. An abusive marriage is a No No, don't follow the trend of everything you see other couples post as PDA online, some of them are suffering badly in the hands of those men but can't afford to cry out like this young girl did so the society doesn't mock them. Do all you can Rita to save your child. Mental torture isn't anything a young girl like her shld suffer, the mistake is done already, rectify it and give her a chance to live better, wiser and stronger again.
