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23/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide

please hide me because I’m so embarrassed right now. 😔

Ngile-issue le-boyfriend yami sesilama 2 years sonke, futhi silomntwana oyedwa. Uboyfriend uthi angisamanelisi ebhedini futhi usethanda ukuthenga ngaphandle. 😭 Manje njalo uma ethola imali, uhlale ebeka imali eceleni ethi uzoyisebenzisa ukuthenga ngaphandle.

Okungiphathisa ubuhlungu yikuthi, sekuphele izinyanga ezine singa-lali ndawonye! Uthi u-enjoya leyo ayithenga. Mina sengihlala ngikhala ngaphakathi, because ngilambile ngempela, ngisala ngimangele nje. 😢 Ngiyabona 🍆 yakhe kuphela uma esebhavu, angisakwazi ukubamba noma ukuyiphiwa.

Kungani indoda ingathanda ukuya thenga lapho ekhaya ekhululekile? Ngabe ngiyiyona inkinga? Ngabe ngenza into engalunganga ngokuzala?😭

23/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide,

Ngicela ngipostelwe ngingaziwa.

Nansi indaba yami. Ngile-girlfriend yami, sesilobudlelwane iminyaka engu-3. Ngelinye ilanga ngomnyaka odluleyo ngathola ukuthi uyangikhohlisa (cheating on me), ngabe ngazizwa ngizibukela phansi kakhulu. Siyizitabane kodwa wangikhohlisa lomfana engimaziyo… kusukela lapho angisamhloniphi ngendlela engangimhlonipha ngayo. Ngisamthanda kodwa inhlonipho yonke yanyamalala.

Kwakukhona omunye owesifazane esontweni engamuzwa esithi ufake igazi lakhe le-period ekudleni kwendoda yakhe, manje indoda leyo imthanda kakhulu. Nami ngagcina sengizame lokhu ku-girlfriend yami… manje izinto sezihamba kahle, she’s now obsessed with me and a control freak.

Yazi ngiyazisola, sengifisa bengingakwenzi konke lokhu 💔angazi ngenze njani

19/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide, ngicela ufihle ibizo lami. Ngimuntu wesifazane ona 35, ngitshadile kodwa sisebunzimeni lomkami. Mina lomkami sihlala ndawonye, sobabili asisebenzi because of udubo to cut the long story short umkami wathola uSugar mama. Indaba engihluphayo angikwazi ukwenza lutho ngakho ngoba lowo sugar mama nguye obhadala zonke izikwelede zethu lokuthenga grocery lapha ekhaya.

Wangitshela ukuthi uyalala laye ngoba siyahlupheka, wathi uzamuyekela uma esethola umsebenzi (kanti njalo lomama akamazi ngami). Uhlala emfonela futhi uyakhuluma laye phambi kwami engibhekile, engelanhloni loba ngikhona.

Ngicela iseluleko: nxa sengithola umsebenzi, kumele ngiqhubeke ngihlale laye yini? Ngiyalimala nsuku zonke kodwa angikwazi ukwenza lutho. Ngingabe ngiyaphambanisa ukumekela nxa sengisebenza, kumbe kuzakuba lobubi ukumtshiya nje ngoba nje wangenzela okunengi ngesikhathi sisesimeni esinzima?

19/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide, phosela kukhasi lakho 🙏🏻

Ngakhupha isisu and ngaqamba amanga kumama ukuthi usisi wakhe wangipha something yokunatha and umama wakholwa. Into leyo iyangidla sekuyiminyaka eminengi bengakaze bekhulumisane. Ngiyafisa ukukulungisa kodwa angazi ngiqale ngaphi. It kills me to see them like this ngoba they were close 😭ngenzenjani😭😭😭💔💔💔

18/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide.

Ngithandana lobaba okhulileyo Kodwa uliphixiphixi Kodwa ecansini angisoli lutho waphiwa. Lubaba asimanga nje mdalo wakhe bakithi. Ngumuntu ohloniphekayo olesithunzi and ebantwini ukhuluma abantu bevume ngamakhanda kodwa amanga le sweet tongue ngapha ekutshayatshaya noma ngithi angimtshiye uyatshona encenge eze akhale inyembezi qede ngiphiwe konke. Liyavumelana something uzwe sekhuluma a different story he’s not someone that you can trust. He’s forever going back on himself then avale ngocansi, lokunakakela sengize ngithula because I feel disrespected when someone constantly lies to me.

Should I just ignore amanga focus on the positive? Problem is that his lies are concerning I don’t know what to believe anymore.

18/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide.
Ngilijaha elileminyaka engu 30, ngokuhlala ngise Goli. Ngafika eGoli ngo 2020 at the beginning of Covid. Kwahle kwaba yiLockdown ngisathi ngiyaqalisa ukusebenza. Emsebenzini kwavalwa.
Kwabanzima kakhulu empilweni. Ngangiphila ngokuphiwa ukudla emaChurch in the area engangikuyo in Thembisa.

Ngelinye ilanga ngabona iphepha lawa abhalwe ukuthi make fast cash what what. Ngaqunga isibindi ngadinga Bathi ngibuye eMidrand. Ngathola omunye ubhudi omncanyana nje ngomzimba ekhuluma isiphuthukezi.

Wathi ngimnike R10k Uzangenza rich.
Ngabuyela endlini Ngaya kudala amathambo eNgqondo.
Ngingazi ukuthi imali ngizayithola ngaphi.

To be continued

10/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide,

Ngiyindoda eneminyaka engu-38. Ngake ngashada kodwa sagcina sihlukanile noNkosikazi ngenxa yokusetshenziswa kwemithi kakhulu ekhaya. Mina ngikhulele endaweni lapho kukhonzwa khona, kanti izinto ezifana nemithi yesintu zazingenziwa ngokwehlonipha futhi ngobunono.

Inkinga yaqala lapho ngiqaphela ukuthi yonke ikona endlini sekugcwele imithi. Ngazama ukukhuluma noNkosikazi ngobumnene, kodwa izinto zagcina ziba zimbi. Uze wathi uma silala, “siloywa ngumama wakho.”

Ngaze ngayeka, ngoba kwaba nzima ukuhlala endaweni lapho uthando selufiphala, kwase kuvela ukwesaba.

MaGolide, ngibuze nje ngabe ukhona umama ongathakatha umntanakhe?
Ngiyesaba abesifazane manje, hhayi ngenxa yothando, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi angisafuni ukuphinde ngiphile ngaphansi kwalesi siphepho. Nceda ungiphe umbono wakho.

Ngingumuntu ophilayo enesilonda esingabonakali kodwa ngilimele kakhulu

06/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide,

Ngiyazi this might sound strange, but nginendaba enkulu engihluphayo.

I have a weak bladder, and ebusuku, no matter how many times I wake up to go relieve myself, I still sometimes end up having an accident. 😞

I have a loving boyfriend, but I’ve been so scared to tell him. I’ve seen doctors, tried everything I could but so far, no real solution. One night, I decided to sleep over at his place, just on the sofa. I only fell asleep around 4 a.m., and by 6 a.m. I had wet myself… it was humiliating.

He found me crying, helped me clean the sofa (thank God it’s leather), and I finally told him the truth. You know what he said? “We’ll beat this together.” 💔🥺

But since then, I’ve been avoiding him. Not because of him but because I’m embarrassed. He’s even come up with possible solutions and support, but I just feel so ashamed.

What should I do, MaGolide?
Ngizizwa nginehlazo, yet I know he loves me. But I’m scared this will ruin us.

05/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide, I’m writing this on behalf of my parents and myself.

My parents sacrificed a lot to give us a better life. They made sure we had access to good education three of my siblings even went abroad to pursue their dreams. For a long time, they supported not just our parents, but also me and I was grateful.

When I had my first child, they continued to help me. But after I had two more, the tone changed. They began calling me a “baby-making machine.” That hurt deeply. Eventually, they stopped supporting me and my children altogether.

What breaks me most is that I am the one caring for our parents on a daily basis. My mother has tried to reason with them, but they now say they’ll even stop helping her claiming that the fathers of my children should take responsibility. I understand that perspective, but I can’t help but feel that they’re being unfair and harsh. I never stopped being their sister, and I didn’t stop being a daughter just because life didn’t go the way we all imagined.

I didn’t choose this path lightly, and I carry my responsibilities with love both as a mother and a daughter. I just wish they could see that. Should I confront them because I mean I deserve better.

04/07/2025

Kuwe MaGolide,

I’m really struggling with something that’s affecting my daily life severe constipation.

It’s not just uncomfortable, it’s frustrating and exhausting. I’ve tried just about everything you can think of more water, fibre, exercise, over-the-counter meds, even home remedies but nothing seems to work consistently.

It’s starting to affect my mood, energy, and honestly, my confidence too. I feel bloated and uncomfortable almost all the time, and I’m starting to wonder if there’s something more serious going on.

I’m writing this because I know I’m not alone, and maybe someone out there has walked this journey and found something that helped. Or maybe I just needed to say it out loud that I’m not okay, and I need help.

Tired, Uncomfortable, and Still Hoping

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