
17/09/2025
My relative is probably a better parent than I am cause when Arunne is sleeping and he feels she has slept for too long and it's been long she ate last, he would wake her up and feed her and put her back to sleep and this can be either in the daytime or at night if they are co-sleeping. sometimes he wakes her to eat and that's it - she can't fall back asleep
Me as the lazy parent, if she sleeps Omo she go sleep that sleep till she wakes by herself and she will eat when she wakes up.
I only used to wake her up to eat back when she was at that newborn stage cause that's what the midwives advised. Now that to get her to nap in the daytime is by connection, I'll now come and be waking her to eat. As how? I can't take that risk abeg but he said he's a nursing father so I guess, it is what it is ππ
My best days now are his off days