Littlelifesteps

23/08/2026

Some of my mummies have come up with their own creative ones.

Stick with your children's interest and they will engage more.

Sue x

21/08/2026

20/08/2026

This week's Thursday tiny shift is swap the compliment for a description

Last week I talked about handing pride back to children rather than making it about pleasing us.

This week, a related shift.

For some children, especially those who are a little more sensitive or self-conscious, even well-meant praise can feel uncomfortable.

"You're amazing" can actually make a child more self-critical, not less, because it doesn't match how they see themselves.

The fix is the same one that works for a nearly 4-year-old giving up her dummy.

Instead of the big comment, describe what actually happened.

Not, “Brilliant, well done.”

Try, "You worked out that puzzle piece went there."

Not, "You're amazing"

Try, "You finished that all by yourself."

It feels smaller, but it's easier for a child to accept, because it's simply true.

There's nothing to argue with, nothing to live up to next time, no audience to perform for.
Just a quiet, reflection of what they did.

Tiny shift, give it a go.👍

Sue x

19/08/2026

One book I often recommend is
What If, Pig? by Linzie Hunter.

It's a gentle, funny story that opens the door to talking about anxiety and worries in a way that young children can understand.

I have also written a blog about why I love it and questions to ask whilst you read it.

If you want the link to the blog drop me a DM
or comment the word pig below.

Sue xx

16/08/2026

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Sue xx