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How do you stop your man from bringing their phone to the dinning during meal times?
18/09/2026

How do you stop your man from bringing their phone to the dinning during meal times?

17/09/2026

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Hello Chi,I'm 29 and dating a man who is 41. He has a good job, owns a house and says he's ready for marriage. The only ...
17/09/2026

Hello Chi,
I'm 29 and dating a man who is 41. He has a good job, owns a house and says he's ready for marriage. The only problem is that he has never been married and has no children.
My friends keep asking why a man his age is still single.

Should I be concerned?

“Your mother-in-law moves in ‘temporarily’... and six months later, she's still there.”At first, everyone is excited.She...
17/09/2026

“Your mother-in-law moves in ‘temporarily’... and six months later, she's still there.”

At first, everyone is excited.
She's helping with the children.
She's cooking.
She's supporting the family.

Then slowly, disagreements begin.
She doesn't like how you discipline the children.
You don't like how she interferes.

Your spouse feels caught in the middle.
And suddenly, what was supposed to be temporary is threatening the marriage.

Should married couples ever allow a parent to move in with them permanently?

Ten Things Men Find Unattractive in WomenMen, what makes you look at a woman and think, “She's beautiful, but I can't do...
16/09/2026

Ten Things Men Find Unattractive in Women

Men, what makes you look at a woman and think, “She's beautiful, but I can't do this”?

Let's talk about it:

1.Constant disrespect
2.Excessive jealousy
3.Entitlement
4.Poor communication
5.Constant drama
6.Comparing her man to other men
7.Refusing to apologise when wrong
8.Expecting everything but contributing nothing
8.Publicly embarrassing her partner
10.Treating kindness as weakness

Nobody is perfect.
But there is a difference between having flaws and refusing to work on them.

Hi Chi,"I'm 33 and married for four years. My husband is a very good man, but whenever we have an argument, he calls his...
16/09/2026

Hi Chi,
"I'm 33 and married for four years. My husband is a very good man, but whenever we have an argument, he calls his mother and tells her everything that happened.
Now his mother doesn't like me because of things I said during our arguments."

Should spouses involve their parents in marital problems?

I'm 32 years old and my husband says if I decide to become a stay-at-home mum, I shouldn't expect him to pay for luxury ...
16/09/2026

I'm 32 years old and my husband says if I decide to become a stay-at-home mum, I shouldn't expect him to pay for luxury items because I'll no longer be earning.
Should a stay-at-home parent have equal access to family money?

THE “PERFECT” COUPLE“That couple you envy online might be the couple you should be praying for.”They post beautiful pict...
16/09/2026

THE “PERFECT” COUPLE

“That couple you envy online might be the couple you should be praying for.”

They post beautiful pictures.
They travel together.
They celebrate anniversaries.
They write long birthday messages to each other.
Everyone comments, “Relationship goals!”
But you don't know what happens when the camera is turned off.

Social media shows moments—not marriages.
So before you compare your relationship to someone else's, remember that you're comparing your reality to their highlight reel.

Have social media made people expect unrealistic things from relationships?

Why and why? Are they not overgrown responsible adults as their women counterparts???Wife dies, a man who has finished ...
16/09/2026

Why and why? Are they not overgrown responsible adults as their women counterparts???

Wife dies, a man who has finished having children will still be looking for another woman to look after him? Do they have leprosy in their hands?

ALIKO DANGOTE DOESN’T NEED A MALE HEIR? 🤔Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote, has reportedly said in an interview that h...
15/09/2026

ALIKO DANGOTE DOESN’T NEED A MALE HEIR? 🤔

Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote, has reportedly said in an interview that having a male child is not a priority for him at this stage of his life.

At 69, he appears comfortable putting his trust in his three daughters, believing they are capable of carrying on his legacy and taking over the empire he has built.

But this raises a BIG question, especially in a society where some traditional cultures still strongly believe that a man must have a son to inherit his name, wealth and legacy.

Imagine you were in Aliko Dangote’s position…
Would you:

👉 Be completely satisfied with your daughters and trust them to carry on your legacy?
👉 Try for a male child?
👉 Take another wife because of the pressure to have a son?
👉 Or would you say, “My daughters are my heirs. I don't need a son to prove anything”?

And what if your culture strongly insisted that only a male child could be the heir?
Would tradition influence your decision, or would the wealth and legacy you built be enough to change that tradition?

LET’S TALK:
If you had Dangote’s wealth and three daughters, would you still go looking for a male heir? WHY OR WHY NOT?

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