02/08/2025
Marriage Won’t Kī11 You..
But the Wrong Wife Will Bury You Alive
The most dangerous mistake a man can make Is marrying the wrong woman.
As a man, your greatest asset is not your career or your Shares, stocks, bonds, or Lexus Jeep
It's who you choose to build your legacy with.
Because one bad decision at the altar,
You lose 50% of your adult life to mystery
It will cost your peace, your purpose, your kids, and ultimately your legacy.
Let me break it down.......
1. A wrong woman adds nothing to your life but will only drain you
She is like a leech who sees a good place to suck from
She is not willing to build with you
She’s only there for her self interest
She wants to be there as the trophy wife
she feeds off your money and glow
She will desperately separate you from your family
While you get drained.
Marry the wrong woman and you just might not recognize yourself when she’s done with you.
2. The life you think you have built for years, she’ll bring it down in months
You have sacrificed your years by working so hard
You planned your future with so much intentionality
You knew what you wanted for your life
You were on that route until she came in.
She came in without understanding your vision
You were doing fine before her
And now, you are walking on eggshells
Because of her constant disrespect and silent treatments when things are not going her way
The crazy part is, your focus starts to run down
Because you are too busy trying to amend fights and not have a broken home
It gets too late before you realize you are not in love but in a war zone.
3. The wrong woman is a slow poison. she doesn’t kill immediately
Funny enough, she might not be a cheat
She might not divorce you either,
She knows respect is a big deal for a man
So she withholds it from you,
There can’t be two men in a home
But she challenges your leadership
These are enough to disturb your growth as a man
The place you should find peace
Is the reason for your constant headaches
That’s the perks of marrying the wrong woman
4. A wrong wife will cost you divorce—in worst cases, your destiny
Who needs an enemy when you have one in your house?
She doesn’t see what you see
She can’t understand your vision
Where you are headed to,
every minute you spend trying to explain yourself to someone who refuses to understand you
Is a minute you could’ve been building your life,
You’ll spend years trying to help a short sighted woman who can’t even see your worth.
And all because you married someone who didn’t believe in your vision.
5. She’s not a multiplier, she’s a substraction
Women are naturally multipliers,
The saying is accurate, you give a woman a house
She makes it a home
But the wrong woman?
She a big subtraction!
She takes your energy,your money
and your focus.
In return, she gives you stress
You spend more time explaining and patching emotional tantrums
At a point, you start praying for silence
6. Give a wrong woman a ring and watch her weaponize it
That’s what she’s good at,
Manipulation and gaslighting
And of course, she knows she has the backing of the law.
Society won’t see her misbehaviors
Even when you speak,
There goes the expected phrase “Man up”
Her best way to ruin you is to leave
You lose half your assets
And still pay for child support
In worst cases, you will lose access to your children
7. Dear men, you future is too important to marry the wrong wife
Marriage is not just about love,
It’s a ministry, a convenient
And if you marry wrong
You are not just putting yourself at the risk of hurt
But of losing EVERTYTHING
Because marrying the wrong woman is like being locked with retrogression .
Final Word:
For a man, you dont need a woman that just needs you
You need a woman that sees you
And when i say this, I mean she sees beyond who you currently are
And who you are growing into
You need a woman who respects, supports and brings peace to your life.
Because a wise man once told me
Marriage is one of the greatest decisions you can make
Marry the wrong spouse and you are standing the chance of losing 50% of your life.
Gentle men is not too late to take that decision.
Take red flag seriously and choose wisely.👌👌🙏💯
