26/08/2026
Life Lessons at Our Doorsteps: A Reflexive Exercise. Take a moment and breathe deeply.
Salifu Manneh.
Wednesday, 26.08.26.
Life lessons are in our faces and on our doorsteps every day, but do we ever heed the signs and warnings?
Walk into a hospital ward and look around. Almost every bed is occupied. The smell in the air feels medicated. Different people, different ages, different backgrounds, different towns and villages, and different reasons for being there. Yet, despite all their differences, almost every patient shares one simple hope: to get better and go home.
Sadly, some will never go back home.
Some may never again sleep in the houses they worked so hard, for so many long hours, to build or pay for. Houses that once represented success, security and achievement may suddenly become distant memories.
The savings they carefully put away year after year may no longer mean very much to them.
The expensive car parked outside may soon be driven by somebody else.
The beautiful clothes hanging in the wardrobe remain untouched.
The expensive bed at home may have been empty for months, while its owner lies in a hospital bed longing simply for another chance to walk through their own front door.
And suddenly, the things we spend much of our lives chasing become strangely insignificant.
Life- what does it really mean?
Perhaps this is one of the greatest reflexive exercises available to us.
We spend years competing, accumulating, arguing, holding grudges, worrying about status and comparing ourselves with others. We postpone happiness because there is always another target to reach: another house, another car, another promotion, another amount of money to save.
But illness can change the meaning of everything overnight.
The person who once wanted a bigger house may now want to go home.
The person who wanted more money may now willingly surrender everything for more time.
The person who was always too busy for family may now desperately wait for the sound of familiar footsteps approaching the hospital bed.
The person who worried about tomorrow may suddenly discover that today itself was the gift.
This does not mean that we should stop working hard, saving, building homes or aspiring to improve our lives. These things matter. We have responsibilities to ourselves, our children and our families.
But perhaps the lesson is that we should own our possessions rather than allow our possessions to own us.
There must be room for living while we are busy making a living.
Room for family.
Room for friendship.
Room for forgiveness.
Room for kindness.
Room for gratitude.
Room for the people we love.
And room simply to sit down occasionally and appreciate the extraordinary privilege of being alive.
Hospitals quietly teach these lessons every single day. So do funerals, illnesses, accidents and the sudden departure of people we assumed would still be here tomorrow.
The warnings are everywhere.
The question is not whether life is teaching us.
The question is whether we are listening.
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