23/04/2026
I need your advice. My girlfriend (26f) and I had the idea of trying a th*****me, MMF and FFM. MMF was much easier to find, so we started with that. The other guy was really attractive and super relaxed. We went out with him a few times and realized we clicked and could move on to the serious part. After one night, we went back to my place and started things off slowly. Everything was great, exactly as we had imagined, until we got to the s*x. I started, and she gave him a bl***ob, and then after a few minutes, we switched. I could see she was really enjoying herself, which is totally fine, but after about 10 minutes, I wanted to switch again, and she said, "Sure, in a minute." After 5 minutes, nothing had happened, so I said, "Sure, let's switch again," which he agreed to, and we switched. Not even two minutes later, my girlfriend suggested we switch again. I said, " little bit longer please I have so much fun" and literally not a minute later, she turned around, and we switched again. Well, it continued like that the whole time, with her only really wanting the other guy (would say 90% the other vs 10% me). My ego's a little bruised, but I mean, that's okay, we still had fun and it was a beautiful experience. What bothers me, though, is that when I brought it up afterward, she just said I was imagining things and it wasn't true, but we could try again and she'd show me that it wasn't like that. My question is, is this normal for a first th*****me because it's kinky and the other person is "new"?