Sister Sister

21/11/2025

Dear Sisters,

My wife and I have been married for eight months, and I love her deeply. I’m 41, and we’re joyfully expecting our first child. I understand that, as a new couple, we need our space and time to build our life together.

However, I’m an only child, and my father passed away when I was just four. My mother raised me alone and is the reason I am who I am today. Lately, her health has been declining. She is no longer as active as she once was, and I worry about her diet and overall well-being. I feel strongly that she should be closer to me so I can care for her properly.

The difficulty I face is that my wife, who is three months pregnant, has expressed discomfort with the idea of my mother coming to live with us. I find this confusing because her own mother visits us weekly, and I always welcome her. When I gently ask my wife about her reluctance, she says she needs privacy to enjoy our early marriage.

I love my wife deeply and believe she loves me too. She is an amazing woman, and I would do anything to protect her peace, especially during pregnancy. I fear that tension over this issue could be unhealthy for her and the baby.

I now find myself at a crossroads between my commitment to my wife and my responsibility toward my mother. I desperately want to find a solution that respects both of them. I am not ready to lose my wife, but I also don’t want to neglect my mother’s care. I feel confused and unsure of the best way to handle this situation without compromising the peace and joy of our new family.

I would greatly appreciate your advice and guidance on what to do.

21/11/2025

Dear Sisters,

My name is Cee, I’m 35 years old, and though I’m not married, I’m currently in a committed relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. He’s sweet, caring, and very loving — and in so many ways, he treats me well. But there is one thing about him that has become a growing concern for me.

He gets irritated very easily, sometimes over the smallest things. If I get home late from work, forget to switch off the TV before bed, or even comb my hair at night after bathing, he becomes visibly upset. These are things I feel should be normal and easy to accommodate in a relationship, but with him, it becomes an issue.

Sometimes he won’t speak to me for days — even weeks — when he’s upset over these things. I love him deeply and have always pictured a future with him, but lately I’m beginning to wonder if this behavior could affect our marriage if we choose to take that step.

A few days ago, something happened that troubled me even more. We were out for dinner when my boss called. I picked up the call briefly, but he got very angry, stood up, and left me in the restaurant.

Sisters, I’m confused. Is he dealing with something internally that I don’t understand, or is this simply who he is? I love him so much, but I don’t know what to do anymore.

Please, Sisters, I need your advice.

— Cee

21/11/2025

Dear Sisters,

I am coming to you today because my heart is heavy and my mind is in turmoil.

I am married with a 5-year-old son, and we welcomed a new baby just three months ago. My husband is a building contractor who truly loves his work. He has always been hardworking, but for a long time things were very tough. Some days he went to work and wasn’t paid. Other days there was no work at all. I did my best to support us with my salary, but after giving birth I could no longer do as much as I used to.

To make matters worse, I lost my dad two months ago. He was the one person who supported us whenever things became difficult. His passing hit us hard emotionally and financially, and since then we’ve been struggling to make ends meet.

Out of love for my family, I used my contacts to help my husband get a good, well-paying job. I thought things would finally get better for us.

Instead, after six months at the new job, my husband has completely changed.

He has started womanising openly — to the extent that he is now in a serious relationship with my own best friend. The betrayal cuts deeply. I am shattered and confused, and so many thoughts run through my mind every day. But I am not a bad person, and I don’t want to act out of anger or do anything I will regret later.

This is why I’m turning to you, Sisters. I feel like I’m breaking down. I need guidance, wisdom, and strength.

Please, advise me.

21/11/2025

Sisters, I greet you warmly. My name is Abena, and today I write to you with a very heavy heart. I have followed your show for years, listening to the stories of others and silently hoping I would never have to write in with one of my own. But life has a way of surprising us.

I have been married for ten years. My husband, Kofi, and I tied the knot with so much love and hope. For the first two years, we built what felt like a strong foundation. We dreamed together, planned together, and believed our future was secure. But everything changed when he left for the United States shortly after our second anniversary.

Sisters, since the day he boarded that plane, I have not seen him again. Ten years of marriage eight of them spent without my husband. He calls occasionally, maybe once every few months, but the conversations are brief, cold, and detached. Anytime I ask about when he is coming home, he says, Soon, but even his voice doesn’t believe those words anymore.

I am now in my mid-thirties. I am not getting any younger. I am a woman with feelings, desires, dreams, and the simple need for companionship. I want someone who can sit beside me, laugh with me, cry with me, and share the little moments of life. What I have now is a marriage in name only, no presence, no affection, no partnership.

Sisters , my heart is torn. Part of me feels guilty for even thinking of letting go. Another part of me feels abandoned, unloved, and trapped in a promise that only I seem to still be keeping. I am tired of living in emotional limbo. I am tired of waiting.

I need your guidance.
Can I file for divorce under these circumstances?
Or, since he has been gone for so long and our marriage has not truly existed for years, is annulment an option for me?

I do not want to do the wrong thing, but I also do not want to waste the rest of my life in loneliness because of someone who has already moved on in every way except on paper.

Please, help me understand what my options are. I want to do what is right, but I also want to choose myself for once.

31/10/2025

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05/10/2025

Dear Sisters,

Please, I need your help.

My name is CJ,

I was a virgin until age 27, and the first time I slept with someone, she got pregnant. At that stage, we had only known each other for about 2 or 3 months, so I wasn’t even sure if I loved her enough to marry her. But when abortion came up, I was scared, so I asked her to keep the baby.

During the pregnancy, things became messy. Her ex resurfaced, claiming she was still his girlfriend, although he admitted the pregnancy wasn’t his. This created tension between us, and my mother was very angry. She told me outright that she would never support me marrying this lady. My father, on the other hand, wasn’t upset and told me to decide for myself.

After the baby was born, my mother and sister refused to visit the mother of my child. When it came to naming, I had to involve my uncle to speak to my mother, and though she allowed it, she still made her stance clear. With her reluctant permission, I went ahead and named my son.

As time went on, I started seeing someone else. We got married, and it’s been 11 months now. But I have some serious issues:

1. My wife is very insecure about my baby mama. She keeps calling her my “lover” and “girlfriend,” even after several fights for her to stop.

2. She has openly said she cannot live with my son. Right now, my son is with my mother, but my wife keeps reminding me that she regrets marrying me. She even admitted she once told my best friend that she would never allow her siblings to marry a man with a child.

3. Over time, I have realized that I love my baby mama more, and part of me wishes I could go back to her. But I know my mother will never accept that.

Now, I feel torn. Part of me just wants to be alone, divorce my wife, not go back to my baby mama, and remain single while I focus on making money to take care of my son.

The truth is, my wife and I are struggling, not financially; we funded our marriage ourselves, but emotionally. I feel like we both need counseling, because things are not working.

Sisters, I am so confused. Please, I need your advice.
- Anonymous

04/10/2025

Dear Sisters,

I’m writing to you with something that has been weighing on my mind.

I’ve been with my partner for some time now, and truthfully, I care about her deeply. But lately, I feel pressure; not necessarily from her, but from society and those around us. Everyone seems to have a timeline for what should come next. First, it was “When are you making it official?” Then it became “When are you getting married?” Now it’s “When will the babies come?”

The truth is, real and lasting relationships don’t follow a script. I believe every couple has their own rhythm, their own timing, and their own way of growing together. But sometimes, I catch myself doubting. Am I moving too slowly? Am I holding her back from what she might want? Or am I letting society’s milestones dictate what should be a very personal journey?

I worry because I don’t want to lose her, but I also don’t want us to build something rushed just to tick boxes others have set. Sisters, how do I navigate this? How do I balance love, personal timing, and the noise from society without letting the pressure break something beautiful?

A Worried Man

03/10/2025

Dear Sisters,

I have been in a romantic relationship with my boss for the past 5 years. Throughout that time, he has taken very good care of me; emotionally, physically, and financially. He even extended his generosity to my family, and honestly, I never lacked anything.

From the start, we agreed on one thing: whenever I found a man I truly wanted to marry, I would introduce him, and we would respectfully part ways.

Not long ago, I met a fine gentleman. He is calm, hardworking, comfortable in life, and above all, he loves me dearly. We planned our wedding, and ironically, it was my boss who paid for almost everything. The ceremony was sacred and beautiful, and I must say, I am truly happy in my marriage.

I still work for my boss, but just a month ago, he approached me and said he wants us to continue from where we left off. He has given me two conditions: either I agree, or I lose my well-paying, decent job.

Sisters, I am torn. I truly love my husband and I don’t want to break his heart. At the same time, I am afraid of being unemployed. My husband is working, yes, but I’m worried about losing my financial independence.

What should I do? Please, I need your guidance.

For the sake of this letter, call me Adom.