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12/09/2025

Dear Sisters,

I was legally married, but along the line, infidelity crept into my marriage. To be honest, both my husband and I were guilty—we were both unfaithful.

One day, something I never imagined happened. My husband and I coincidentally ran into each other at a hotel—with our respective partners. A fight broke out right there, and in the heat of the moment, my husband started beating me, calling me a cheat. He dragged me back home, only to later throw me out of the house.

He justified his actions by saying the house belonged to him and that I was supposed to stay there and take care of the children. He further claimed that as a Muslim, he was entitled to marry up to four wives and was merely “testing the waters” for a second marriage.

Using his authority as “the man of the house,” he sacked me and divorced me.

Now my question is: was he right to divorce me on the grounds of infidelity, when both of us were guilty?

And should I accept this divorce, or do I have a right to challenge it?

Sisters, please help me.

11/09/2025

Dear Sisters,

I have a very delicate issue and I really need your advice.

I’ve had a male best friend for about 10 years now. We are extremely close, we go everywhere together, do almost everything together, and basically share our lives.

The challenge is that anytime either of us tries to get into a relationship, it doesn’t work out. In my case, whenever I introduce someone to him as my boyfriend, he gets upset. This has made it very difficult for me to sustain any relationship.

To make things more complicated, we’ve actually been intimate a couple of times. I truly care about him, but I don’t know where we stand. Are we in love with each other, or what exactly is happening between us?

Sisters, I am really confused and I need your advice.

11/09/2025

Dear Sisters,

On 6th August 2025, my girlfriend and I marked five years together. But recently, we had a serious issue.

She has a habit of chatting and video calling men abroad, usually those helping her with favours. In the past, one even proposed to her, and although she rejected him, she still entertained his friendship. Recently, she started doing the same thing with another man after getting a job through his mother.

I confronted her about always being on her phone, even when we were together, but she claimed I give her attitude and ignore her sometimes. Because of stress from work, I can be quiet and moody, but I explained this to her. What hurt me most was that she checked on this other man more than she checked on me.

Two weeks ago, I discovered she had changed her phone password and refused to unlock it. I told her to either open it or leave the house. She refused, so I sent her out that night. Later, I even explained the situation to her friend.

We have since reconciled, admitted our mistakes, and gotten back together. However, she says whenever she sees me, she remembers that night and feels angry with me, even though she still loves me. I also love her and regret throwing her out.

My question is, how can we move past this incident, rebuild trust, and be truly happy together again?Sisters, please help me.

11/09/2025

Dear Sisters,

My name is Cee, and this is my story.

Back in high school, I was dating a guy I really liked. Unfortunately, my teachers at the time forced me to end the relationship, and I obeyed. He tried to reach out, but I never explained the real reason why I left. He was so hurt and angry that he completely shut me out. Whenever we met at interschool competitions, he would not even speak to me.

Many years passed, but for some reason, I never stopped wondering about him, where he was, what he was doing, and how life had turned out for him. Eventually, I reconnected with him, hoping we could talk things through and maybe even give our relationship another chance.

But then he told me he was getting married 😭. My heart sank. I congratulated him and ended the conversation, but we managed to remain on good terms. Recently, I finally explained to him why I had left back then. Now, I cannot help but wish I had told him earlier, maybe things could have been different.

The truth is, I think I still love him. But he is married now, and I would never want to interfere with his marriage. Still, the feelings are there, and I do not know what to do with them.

So Sisters, I need your advice:
Should I cut ties with him completely and move on with my life?
Or is it okay to remain just friends with him?

How do I manage these lingering feelings?

29/08/2025

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14/08/2025

Dear Sisters,

When I met my boyfriend, he was a virgin — patient, calm, and everything I thought I wanted. But the moment we had s*x for the first time, it was like a switch flipped. Now he’s obsessed! He gets aroused just by looking at me.

Here’s the problem: he’s terrible in bed. He doesn’t know where to start, always “misses his way” when trying to pe*****te, and no matter how ready he is to learn… he still gets it wrong. S*x with him is boring and awkward.

Sometimes I want it, but the moment he comes close, my mood dies. He guilt-trips me whenever I say no, and it often turns into an argument. I’m even starting to worry he might cheat.
I don’t mind his s*x drive, I just wish he knew what he was doing.

Sisters, should I keep trying to teach him, or cut my losses?

14/08/2025

Dear Sisters,

My 22-year-old friend is having an affair with a 54-year-old married man. They’ve been seeing each other for about four months. He’s been with his wife for 24 years and they have two children — the eldest is 24.

The wife has no idea, and my friend doesn’t know that I’m aware of the affair. She knows he’s married with kids but doesn’t care because of the gifts and money she gets from him. I feel guilty keeping this to myself and need advice, should I tell the wife or stay out of it?

Please help me!

14/08/2025

Dear Sisters,

My fiancé is proposing we get married this December but I feel like ending it now. He came home to ask for my hand in marriage last year and we've bought almost everything on the list including our rings but unfortunately I'm scared I'll not be happy if this is executed. We started dating during my Senior High School days and I'm done with tertiary and have been working for 2 years now. He has invested a lot in me and my education. However my husband still sees me as a little girl and not matured. Hence, disregards all my contributions during decision making and compares me with his 12 years old niece. Whenever he gets angry, he uses piercing insults, loud tones, and expects me to always apologize first even if it's his fault.

He doesn't communicate very often, I always do the calling. It's been a week since I decided not to place the call first and he hasn't bothered calling. We've talked about it several times and he doesn't see the need. I hate his temper and dictatorship. And I don't want to be broken anytime he's angry. I feel I owe him a lot too.

I'm confused, I don’t know if I should leave or manage it since everyone is looking up to the ceremony.

Sisters, please help me.

14/08/2025

Dear sisters,

I’ve been married for a year and everything was perfect, until my husband travelled abroad last month. While he was away, I started spending more time with my handsome father-in-law. One thing led to another and we ended up having an affair.

Now, I’m pregnant… and it’s his. He says I should pretend the baby is my husband’s since we were intimate just before my husband travelled.

Should I lie, abort, or confess? I’m confused and ashamed.

Sisters, please help me.

14/08/2025

Hello Sisters,

My ex and I were married for about 7 years. Our marriage ended when I found out that he was having an affair with a lady whom he’s currently married to.

After our divorce we stayed in touch because of our children. One thing led to the other and we started getting intimate. He currently sleeps over while he ignores his pregnant wife’s calls.

I have now become the other woman which is wrong but I secretly hope he leaves her to be with me. My family just found out about our affair and they are not happy at all.

To be honest it feels nice to have him back, I really missed him. But I’m also worried he’ll hurt me again. I’m a little confused and conflicted.

What do you advise I do?

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31/07/2025

Dear Sisters,

I’m a simple man who desires a peaceful and joyful life. I’ve been married for almost four years, and my wife and I have a one-year-old son. However, I’ve recently done something I never imagined, I slept with my ex-girlfriend, who is also married. Surprisingly, I don’t feel any guilt or regret; in fact, I’m happy because the s*x was deeply satisfying, better than anything I’ve experienced, even in marriage.

My wife and I were both virgins when we married. I had some knowledge about s*x, but she didn’t, and I hoped we’d explore and learn together after marriage. Sadly, she has shown little interest in intimacy. She only prefers the missionary position, lacks energy or excitement in bed, and never takes the initiative to romance or please me, even though I’ve expressed my needs many times. She even considers romantic movies sinful. Despite countless conversations and complaints, nothing has changed.

Earlier this year, I reached out to my ex, knowing she was confident and adventurous. Though she’s married, she confessed that her husband mistreats her and cheats. We stayed in touch, and during a meet-up, we ended up in a hotel and had s*x—something that gave me a sense of joy and satisfaction I’ve missed in my marriage.

Since then, I can’t stop thinking about her. This is the first time I’ve ever cheated, and it’s shocking how easily it happened and I don't even feel remorseful. I’m now questioning if my emotional and s*xual starvation led me to this. I’m unsure whether to confess to my wife, but I do know that if the chance arises again, I won’t deny myself good s*x.
Please keep me anonymous.