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27/08/2023

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30/06/2023

This is a true fact about life. Save more and spend less.

21/12/2022

A S S E T S V S L I A B I L I T Y.

Son: Dad, may I speak with you?
Dad: Go ahead.

Son: Among all my classmates, I am the only one without a car. It is embarrassing.
Dad: What do you want me to do?

Son: I need a car. I don't want to feel odd.
Dad: Do you have a particular car in mind?

Son: Yes dad (smiling)
Dad: How much?

Son:$2000
Dad: I will give you the money on one condition.

Son: What is the condition?
Dad: You will not use the money to buy a car but invest it. If you make enough profit from the investment, you can go ahead and buy the car.

Son: Deal.

Then, the father gave him a cheque of $2000. The son cashed the cheque and invested it in obedience to the verbal agreement that he had with his father.

Some months later, the father asked the son how he was faring. The son responded that his business was improving. The father left him.

After some months again, the father asked him about his business again and the son told him that he is making a lot of profit from the business.

When it was exactly a year after he gave him the money, the father asked him to show him how far the business has gone. The son readily agreed and the following discussion took place:

Dad: From this I can see that you have made a lot of money.
Son: _Yes dad. _

Dad: Do you still remember our agreement?
Son: Yes

Dad: What is it?
Son: We agreed that I should invest the money and buy the car from the profit.

Dad: Why have you not bought the car?
Son: I don't need the car again. I want to invest more.

Dad: Good. You have learnt the lessons that I wanted to teach you.

- You didn't really need the car, you just wanted to feel among. That would have placed extra financial obligations on you. It wasn't an asset then; but a liability.

- Two, it is very important for you to invest in your future before living like a king.
Son: Thanks dad.

Then the father gave him the keys of the latest model of that car.

MORALS:
1. Always invest first before you start living the way you want.

2. What you see as a need now may become a want if you can take a little time to get over your feelings.

3. Try to be able to distinguish between an asset and a liability so that what you see as an asset today will not become a liability to you tomorrow.

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Identify yourself
Build yourself
Invest in Yourself.

By: Nna Anyi Chika Kalu

Ana eji uche Eme ihe!

21/10/2022

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

(2) Stop begging.

(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

(8) Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.

(12) Respect your time.

(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

(15) Be scarce sometimes.

(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.

(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.

(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

30/09/2022

Men, if you want your son to follow in your footsteps read this.

- Realize he’s not exactly you

Your son may have different interests than you.

Don’t discourage these interests instead embrace them and his area where he flourishes.

- Don’t give him everything

Teach him to work for things he wants.

Never spoil him otherwise by the time manhood comes he will have a horrible time adjusting to not having everything his way.

- Discipline him

Show him right and wrong.

Explain through discipline that there are consequences for bad actions.

It seems harsh but your children will come to appreciate this as long as you do it in love.

- Set a good example

Sons look up to their fathers. They pay attention to every move you make.

Don’t let him down.

Eat healthy, treat your wife right, workout, spend time with family.

He might not follow all your words, but he will surely follow your actions. Be mindful what you do in their presence. Say what you mean and do what you say.

Happy sunday

30/09/2022

An old man meets a young man who asks:

“Do you remember me?”

And the old man says no. Then the young man tells him he was his student, And the teacher asks:

“What do you do, what do you do in life?”

The young man answers:

“Well, I became a teacher.”

“ah, how good, like me?” Asks the old man.

“Well, yes. In fact, I became a teacher because you inspired me to be like you.”

The old man, curious, asks the young man at what time he decided to become a teacher. And the young man tells him the following story:

“One day, a friend of mine, also a student, came in with a nice new watch, and I decided I wanted it.

I stole it, I took it out of his pocket.

Shortly after, my friend noticed the his watch was missing and immediately complained to our teacher, who was you.

Then you addressed the class saying, ‘This student's watch was stolen during classes today. Whoever stole it, please return it.’

I didn't give it back because I didn't want to.

You closed the door and told us all to stand up and form a circle.

You were going to search our pockets one by one until the watch was found.

However, you told us to close our eyes, because you would only look for his watch if we all had our eyes closed.

We did as instructed.

You went from pocket to pocket, and when you went through my pocket, you found the watch and took it. You kept searching everyone's pockets, and when you were done you said ‘open your eyes. We have the watch.’

You didn't tell on me and you never mentioned the episode. You never said who stole the watch either. That day you saved my dignity forever. It was the most shameful day of my life.

But this is also the day I decided not to become a thief, a bad person, etc. You never said anything, nor did you even scold me or take me aside to give me a moral lesson.

I received your message clearly.

Thanks to you, I understood what a real educator needs to do.

Do you remember this episode, professor?

The old professor answered, ‘Yes, I remember the situation with the stolen watch, which I was looking for in everyone’s pocket. I didn't remember you, because I also closed my eyes while looking.’

This is the essence of teaching:

If to correct you must humiliate; you don't know how to teach.”

29/08/2022

My wife is my wife, her past is her past. If you've ever slept with her or you know people who have slept with her, that's your problem.

Every woman has a past she surely regrets and every good human being makes mistakes, but that doesn't prevent her from being an ideal woman for another man.

I don chop am before no mean anything to us.
Won't stop us from marrying her. She's a class of her own, there's a queen in her.
You saw only S*X, We saw FUTURE 💯.

Brothers, let's take the time to make them happy, to value and to get others to respect our women instead of taking the time to listen to criticisms of our women while promoting/encouraging hypocrites to denigrate our women.

Past is past, yesterday can never come again, it was a lesson, it was a process that helps remoulded our lives for the now and later.

We'll never be kids again, we're growing each day.

Don't be tired of learning as long as life keeps teaching.

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25/08/2022

🌻Always remember that everything that happens, good or bad, helps you grow. Even if it’s hard to see that right now.

🌻Sometimes, you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand with them.

🌻A psychological study found that people who are generally 'too nice' are also the ones to get hurt the most.

🌻Surround yourself with people who bring out the happiness in you.

🌻Missing someone causes insomnia. The frustration of being without that person keeps you awake at night.

🌻Respect people who find time in their schedule to see you. Love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.

🌻When ignored by someone whose attention means the most to you, the reaction in the brain is similar to physical pain.

🌻Keep people in your life who truly love you, motivate you, and make you happy. If you know people who do none of these things, you know what to do.

🌻Daydreaming is said to help people focus on what they want in life.

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25/08/2022

1. Be nice to people on your way up because you might meet them again on your way back down.
2. Set an example. Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you – not because they are nice, but because you are.

3. Kindness is not to be mistaken for weakness, nor forgiveness for acceptance. It’s about knowing resentment of any kind is not on the path to happiness.

4. Give as much as you can, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to others closely, but don’t lose your own voice.

5. Say what you need to say. Speak your truth. There is no greater sadness than holding on to the words you never had the courage to speak.

6. You can’t change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react and who you choose to be around.

7. Negative company will never give you a positive life. Examine what you tolerate in the long-term.

8. What you allow is what will continue. It’s always better to spend more time alone than allow negative people and their opinions to derail you from your destiny.

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